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Always advert - 61% of young people have felt ashamed for having a period

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MoltenLasagne · 02/03/2022 08:52

Saw an advert for Always last night that could have been good except in their attempt to use inclusive language they have butchered their statistics.

Apparently 61% of young people have felt ashamed for having a period which is rather concerning as I would assume there was an upper limit of 50% of young people who could have a period.

Are they trying to tell us that 22% of male adolescents have also started menstruating? Or are we supposed to remember biology and think "ah, only females menstruate so they must be referring to 61% of young female people"?

Always advert - 61% of young people have felt ashamed for having a period
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donquixotedelamancha · 03/03/2022 17:07

Everyone not obsessed with trans women got the message

I don't have a clue what you think this issue has to do with trans women- you are the first person to mention them.

AuxArmesCitoyens · 03/03/2022 16:58

@DisgustedofManchester so what, just fuck maths and fuck statistical accuracy then? Who cares, get with the programme, right? Except the UK already has a massive problem with numeracy and this kind of shot doesn't help, does it?

DomesticatedZombie · 03/03/2022 16:53

Yay, you're back, Disgusted! Smile

Imagine seeing you here on a thread about periods! Is it something you feel strongly about, women's periods?

DisgustedofManchester · 03/03/2022 16:49

Everyone not obsessed with trans women got the message so I am guessing hardly any young women were confused by the language used.

Seriously, no one outside of this thread ( and I think even some on here think its apreposterous suggestion ) that the inclusive stats were distracting the target audience from the message.

334bu · 03/03/2022 08:59

Ads are supposed to be accurate. These have false statistics and we all should complain.

KittyLeMew · 03/03/2022 07:55

Great so girls dealing with one of the most sex specific experiences of their lives have to have their identities erased to ‘be kind’. How can we expect girls to grow up with any kind of confidence when they aren’t allowed their own identity or language.

There’s also a massive disconnect between discussing period shame and making scented products (which are bad for women).

Let’s all write and let them know!

OvaHere · 02/03/2022 23:12

Maybe these (obviously female) people feel like this because their schools, colleges and universities have made toilets mixed sex and pretend like girls don't exist anymore.

Always products are shit anyhow. Overly scented and make you sweaty and itchy. Only to be used in a dire emergency.

RoaringtoLangClegintheDark · 02/03/2022 23:01

@Ereshkigalangcleg

Fucking idiots.
My sentiments exactly.
MangyInseam · 02/03/2022 22:36

I wonder how much of this is ideological - as in they want to buy into gender ideology - and how much is just that if they use words like women or girls or even females, they know they will be hit with a load of aggressive complaints? As far as that goes they are really between a rock and a hard place, or they may think they are. Though I suspect that if they stood up for their decision it would be dropped quickly.

334bu · 02/03/2022 15:07

mobile.twitter.com/Always/status/1494036129930227718
Sorry copied reply to tweet

334bu · 02/03/2022 15:05

mobile.twitter.com/violetsfrench/status/1499034214414655493
Also on twitter
Thanks for link to complaints.

NecessaryScene · 02/03/2022 10:42

which is obscure because a lot of people in general won't know that endemetriosis is a female only condition

And you're not allowed to tell them!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 02/03/2022 10:19

It’s obvious in this case. But if you hear a smaller statistic, say ‘10% of people have reported delayed periods after medication x’, how do you know whether that’s 10% or 20% of all female patients? That’s a huge difference.

Exactly. Like "x% of "people" have endometriosis" which is obscure because a lot of people in general won't know that endemetriosis is a female only condition. 20% of people could be 20% of women or 40%.

CarbonelCat · 02/03/2022 10:13

Interesting point re the scent.

No one I know wants that awful smell - it infects everything in your bag like nappy sacks do. And yet, they persist in making them like that despite the feedback.

Why is hypothetical feedback from a teeny, weeny minority given such weight?

Datun · 02/03/2022 10:12

I don't know that looks contradictory. Because they are acknowledging female biology. Except they're not in acknowledging that it fucking belongs to females.

Datun · 02/03/2022 10:12

@Lovelyricepudding

Why wouldn't they be ashamed of their periods when companies flogging sanitary products are also too embarrassed by female biology to even acknowledge it?
Quite.

You can't wring your hands over young girls being ashamed of their bodies, when you're calling them menstruators and cervix havers, ffs.

MoltenLasagne · 02/03/2022 10:08

I can be simultaneously frustrated about the language and believe it is a worrying statistic. I also think that this misuse of language and the loss of single sex spaces such as toilets which give girls privacy to deal with periods probably contribute to the shame they claim to be trying to tackle.

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Helleofabore · 02/03/2022 10:06

Their brains fell out!

Good thing I stopped buying them when they took the female symbol off the packs.

FebruaryRainandSleet · 02/03/2022 10:01

That is the big issue and it’s obscured by the incorrect language.

It’s obvious in this case. But if you hear a smaller statistic, say ‘10% of people have reported delayed periods after medication x’, how do you know whether that’s 10% or 20% of all female patients? That’s a huge difference.

Lovelyricepudding · 02/03/2022 09:57

Why wouldn't they be ashamed of their periods when companies flogging sanitary products are also too embarrassed by female biology to even acknowledge it?

CarbonelCat · 02/03/2022 09:56

But it could still be 61% - because if it's 61% of respondents, and all respondents were females aged 13-17 then that is 61%.

But we don't know because the terms are v unclear

Sweetmotherofallthatisholyabov · 02/03/2022 09:54

Is the bigger issue not that 61% of young (I assume - menstruating) people have been ashamed of having a period? Given that this could be driving the need for the term people in the first place as shame of bodies and being female has driven girls to identify as boys? It's disheartening that what you took from the statistic is messing about with language.

Lovelyricepudding · 02/03/2022 09:43

Saying 30% of people doesn't have quite the same impact does it?

HowlingKale · 02/03/2022 09:41

I wish they'd leave maths alone.

Datun · 02/03/2022 09:38

@Lovelyricepudding

It is like the FPFW sex definition case - the crux of which seemed to be 'it doesn't matter if we butcher the definition of sex because most people will answer based on the true meaning so it won't skew the data'

They can only get away with it because most people know what sex actually means/who actually has periods. Even the TRA demands for entry into women's spaces only work the way they want if everyone else respects the fact they are women's spaces.

This is what makes it so frustrating.

We get it on here, all the time. Being accused of homophobia, for instance, when the ideology says homosexuality doesn't exist. Or how can you be a cervix haver? If you don't know who's got one.

No one is reading that bloody advert and trying to work out exactly how many men and boys have periods.

How many people would that ad have had to go through before it was finished. How many people were told by the inclusion officer, or LGBT department that they had to say people? And how many of them thought, hang on, statistically that's fucking nonsense.