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How do the people who believe gender is more important than sex think about the sport issue?

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PermanentTemporary · 20/02/2022 13:07

I'm not going to ask posters in good faith to expose themselves on here (though if you do, thank you) and the classroom monitors never post on the sport threads. But anyone who understands the pro gender argument on sport?

I've seen some arguments that I do agree with. It is absolutely true that women's sport has historically been 'lesser' or not existed for sexist reasons - Victorian arguments that women shouldn't do sport at all because it might affect their fertility, or their health, or that it would mean exposing their bodies. And sexist arguments that women's sport has no value because women aren't as strong as men. And the issue that Title IX was meant to fix in the US, that women's sport wasn't funded properly because men weren't interested. And the fact that there are sporting events where women have won overall - ultrarunning for example, or that category of shooting which was unisex until a woman won the Olympic title, and the sexes were immediately separated after that.

I will accept all those, and believe that the only solution is probably open categories, with gatekept XX categories which include certain DSDs on a specific basis (probably only women with Swyer syndrome and CAIS would qualify).

I find it incredible that anyone can genuinely and convincingly defend the current mess in sport. The aim at present seems to be to pretend that the current situation is how it's been for a long time, and no changes can be made without more evidence, while shouting down any efforts to provide such evidence by eg keeping records of people's sex.

I suppose the big change came in 2003 and for a huge number of competitive sportspeople, that's before they were born, or when they were tiny.

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MangyInseam · 24/02/2022 12:57

[quote DottyHarmer]@MangyInseam - frankly why should the boys be playing down to the lowest common denominator? They should be playing football etc with other boys! (As an aside I think PE should be set: as a galumphing idiot with two useless-at-PE dcs, no one benefited from all-ability PE and Games.) I was scared at school of the larger girls playing hockey and netball. I think I would have run a mile if boys or trans pupils had been thundering towards me.

To return to OP: the fact is that the most militant state that TWAW - end of argument. If you are built like Conan the Barbarian but feel (even if twice a week) like a woman, then that’s that. No debate.[/quote]
I agree with you to a point.

But school PE class does tend to be a time when you will have some kids who are much more proficient than others even in single sex settings. Sometimes that can be managed by breaking up the group, but other times it just has to be more of a recreational rather than seriously competitive game.

But where there are enough students to have the girls and boys separate it just seems odd to never take that opportunity. That age group in particular often will struggle with mixed sex games.

DottyHarmer · 24/02/2022 08:49

@MangyInseam - frankly why should the boys be playing down to the lowest common denominator? They should be playing football etc with other boys! (As an aside I think PE should be set: as a galumphing idiot with two useless-at-PE dcs, no one benefited from all-ability PE and Games.) I was scared at school of the larger girls playing hockey and netball. I think I would have run a mile if boys or trans pupils had been thundering towards me.

To return to OP: the fact is that the most militant state that TWAW - end of argument. If you are built like Conan the Barbarian but feel (even if twice a week) like a woman, then that’s that. No debate.

WarriorN · 24/02/2022 07:51

Can't find that group but "juggling world" public group is an interesting read as they're discussing unfair representation of women....

WarriorN · 24/02/2022 07:05

Now a community that's interesting to look into is the circus world (specifically acrobatic performers.) They had a big fracturing a few years ago where one prominent circus person was ostracised for daring to say trans ideology was an issue and damaging to bodies.

Last time I looked at a public fb group, they'd got round the v tricky issue if the fact that women are simply not as strong as men (watch any acrobatic display!) by labelling them xx people and xy people....

Those are interesting conversations as they're clearly clear this is not people with dsds. They talk openly about impact of strength to males. This though allows more self id and non medication.

It's the women who again are more affected. They could take some testosterone (I didn't see a conversation about that.) I saw one female performer had chosen to have a mastectomy. She was a contortionist so I imagine actually needs her flexibility and any hormonal treatment could affect that.

It reminds me of an opera singer who identifies as male but obviously can't take testosterone as that would affect the vocal chords.

WarriorN · 24/02/2022 06:55

Truth and Kerala, it was when the idiocy started to infect extremely good breastfeeding peer support groups, parroted by people I'd previously rather respected for their dedication to for example setting up sling libraries and helping new mums access bf support. I could tell there was an overwhelming sense of sjw / 'these people are so disadvantaged.'

The other type of woman in those groups doing this is herself identifying as non binary / "queer" and very angry. I see a mix of trauma and depression. They need to believe this. This is their "community." But they know they still need female communities and they can't cope that we don't agree.

Kimilybob · 23/02/2022 22:29

Its a difficult question as it depends on what kind of important you mean. Its more important in some ways, especially if youre suffering with it, but less in others.

I do think sports should be restricted to boilogical sex as the advantages and unfairness is glaringly obvious

MangyInseam · 23/02/2022 22:07

@SlowDog

Could someone point me to the evidence that Semenya uses male pronouns, doesn't identify as female, and was married in a country where homosexuality is illegal? I wouldn't want to repeat those things unless they are definitely true, and I read, for example, that she was married in Pretoria in 2015 (South Africa legalised same sex marriage in 2006).
Yeah, I am sure the marriage bit is not true.
SlowDog · 23/02/2022 21:54

Could someone point me to the evidence that Semenya uses male pronouns, doesn't identify as female, and was married in a country where homosexuality is illegal? I wouldn't want to repeat those things unless they are definitely true, and I read, for example, that she was married in Pretoria in 2015 (South Africa legalised same sex marriage in 2006).

KERALA1 · 22/02/2022 22:10

Absolutely warrior it seems to be "compassionate" women eager to throw away women's protections for a vocal minority group. Most men (DH an example) are very very cynical about other men's motives in a way many naive (sorry but they are) women are not and frankly should be.

Truthlikeness · 22/02/2022 21:48

@WarriorN

I think it's mostly other women supporting it.

From what I've noticed of these women, they tune into the "under dog" (probably due to being women and experiencing various types of sexism) and see these males as the under dog.

Experiencing a version of perceived sexism and "oppression." These women have so much empathy that they become blind to anything else.

There are few "normal" men who support this. Only the vehement TRAs eg OJ. (I've never seen him talk about sport though?)

Absolutely agree with this. In my contact team sport, many of the (younger) women were pro having transwomen play in the league. Several remained silent (no idea what they thought) and I was vehemently against it. The male coach agreed with me.
MrGHardy · 22/02/2022 20:36

Oh I forgot the DSD card, where magically males without DSD should compete against females, because tada, DSD conditions exist.

MrGHardy · 22/02/2022 20:36

Key points are:

  1. Misunderstanding or lying about intra and inter class differences: "Sports is all about genetic advantages". Yes, it is, but we control for it by having a sex class. So comparing within sex class differences to between class differences is false.
  1. Lying about science: They actually believe the science says HRT removes the differences. Some cite that US army study which shows alignment in I believe press ups. They ignore every other study that shows advantages remain. They ignore actual evidence from Laurel Hubbard who despite never achieving anything as a male, being on HRT for years, becomes an Olympian aged 43 when most women peak in strength long, long before that.
  1. The usual woke lies such as "well they are women" or "they face so much oppression that actually hinders their sporting ability" or "it is just a game"
tilder · 22/02/2022 17:34

I've seen various arguments for including TW in women's sport. Very few for including TM in men's sports. Arguments tend to follow one of more of the following:

TWAW. Anything other is transphobic. No debate.
Inclusion.
Their team mates/competitors don't complain
The stress and medical difficulty of transitioning means no unfair advantage.
Sport x is already inclusive of both sexes.
No evidence that TW have an advantage.
Bell curve of men and bell curve of women has a small area of overlap and therefore no competitive advantage.
DSD
Etc

Safety, fairness, science tend not to feature. Nor do TM.

MangyInseam · 22/02/2022 14:43

@Ursusmajor

I think people don’t realise that this issue isn’t just about elite sportswomen. I did some secondary school in a co-ed school and some in a girls’ only school. I am NOT a sportswoman and never will be. But PE was much more fun in the girls’ only school. The boys not being there to physically dominate the games meant all the girls could play and have their actions actually make a difference to the outcome of the game. I also played a little bit of football as a teen in an all girls inter-school competition. We were a terrible team. Seriously bad. But it was fun and good for us to play anyway. Only having the option of mixed-sex teams would have meant I never played at all.
My daughter is encountering this now. When I was er age (15) we had separate gym classes from the boys about 80% of the time. They now combine them, saying "oh we don't do that any more" as if it is terribly old fashioned.

Except when they get to playing basketball or hockey etc, it's pretty clear that there is a gap. And not all the boys are good at playing down to the lowest common denominator, and a lot of the girls are intimidated, or just don't find it fun, and they hate gym class.

JuergenSchwarzwald · 22/02/2022 12:52

@Adrianneanneanne

Still there's no answer as to why we can't just have trans categories. It's almost like a shame thing. Surely the rational thing to do is have a separate group, not pretend you're identical to born women
That would mean using common sense. The Emperor's New Clothes looms large in this debate (as with NFTs - people seem to like being hoodwinked).
Artichokeleaves · 22/02/2022 10:58

And the second point there:

anything at all will be appropriated at any time, without the faintest conscience or regard for truth if there is the slightest hope of it working as a lever to strip sex based rights from females.

Artichokeleaves · 22/02/2022 10:57

According to some TRAs, it’s just like including women with VSDs

While excluding women with disabilities, faiths, beliefs, cultures and traumas from any resources at all, so that male people can have them.

No it's got nothing to do with any care for 'inclusion'. Or women.

NitroNine · 22/02/2022 08:23

According to some TRAs, it’s just like including women with VSDs (though they almost always use the term “Intersex”). Then they reference Caster Semenya - as a “cis woman”. Want to guess what the next step is? If you guessed [along the lines of] “Trying to exclude trans women from [women’s] sport is the same as racism!!!!!!!”

That last - Olympic-standard, surely - leap is brought to you by the well-publicised cases of black athletes with VSDs who[se supporters] are manufacturing outrage over their having to reduce their testosterone levels to continue to be allowed to compete as woman despite being male. Lots of White Saviouring over how these poor women couldn’t possibly have ever suspected they have a VSD because they’re from Africa & thus until they got to the Olympics had never seen things like electricity, properly surfaced roads, doctors of Western medicine etc. That “all Africans live in mud huts” trope is so WILDLY blatantly breathtakingly overtly racist you might miss some of the heinous bonus racism around “Are you saying Caster Semenya looks like a man you ignorant racist? Do ALL these women look like men to you?!” [with either accompanying photo or list of assorted famous black women]. Photoset or list generally featuring Michelle Obama, just to compound the problematic, presumably 🤦🏻‍♀️ Returning, however, to the utter nonsense of “ZOMG stop bullying these poor BIPOC cis-women who had no idea about any of this”: a 2-second Google shows that certainly Caster, who wore the boys’ uniform at school, uses male pronouns, & is legally married in a country where homosexuality is illegal was NOT suddenly shocked by the news he is genetically male; nor does he identify otherwise. It’s also known that there are some unscrupulous coaches who specifically seek out athletic children whose VSD diagnoses would be an advantage, with a view to their competing nationally & internationally.

Endlessly asked not to bring VSDs into it, but still TRAs use them as a way to prop up their “arguments”. Equally, the requests to stop comparing black women to men who “identify as” women because it is sickeningly racist are ignored. I’m not sure what’s so complex about the idea you can’t just throw up #BLM in your social bios & make The Right Noises about “supporting queer BIPOC creators/businesses” & educating yourself & you’ll then be covered in a magical shield that proves you are One Of The Good Ones & not at all never-ever even a little bit racist. Ever at all. Because you’re “woke”. And naturally there’s nothing at all problematic in SJWs having just waltzed off with that word, same as it’s not inappropriate &/or appropriative for them to do the same with “rest in power”. SJWs aren’t truly “woke”, either, in the true sense: being alert to injustice =/= going looking for offence. Part of the reason you need to be woke is to be able to protect your community: as is often discussed, TRAs talk up all the dreadful threats to trans people, but have no interest in creating resources to combat them. All the claiming that words constitute “literal violence” & endlessly jumping up & down on the fingers of women just clinging to the ledge about being the most vulnerable-marginalised serves to preclude being woke: self-absorption to that degree is a serious soporific.

Sorry, I got a bit sidetracked from the central point: apparently my mind set up a domino while I started writing & then the post as a whole happened. It’s not like I’ve randomly put in my shopping list or thoughts on Harry Potter; so as it’s still just about relevant enough am going to leave it in.

  • followed by some (beautifully curated) self-criticism, though I note people who self-ID as Communist don’t generally seem to have much grasp on how Communism has actually [not] worked in reality or indeed anything else about it frankly Hmm
Ursusmajor · 22/02/2022 08:10

I think people don’t realise that this issue isn’t just about elite sportswomen. I did some secondary school in a co-ed school and some in a girls’ only school. I am NOT a sportswoman and never will be. But PE was much more fun in the girls’ only school. The boys not being there to physically dominate the games meant all the girls could play and have their actions actually make a difference to the outcome of the game. I also played a little bit of football as a teen in an all girls inter-school competition. We were a terrible team. Seriously bad. But it was fun and good for us to play anyway. Only having the option of mixed-sex teams would have meant I never played at all.

NecessaryScene · 22/02/2022 08:04

One of my favourite critiques of "inclusion" is Coach Blade, here, saying that it seems like the people she was talking to were just saying it over and over like a religious mantra, and she couldn't get them to engage their brain enough to understand what they were effectively saying.

She was approaching it as a logical argument, but to them it was just a recital.

Link should take you to 46:28.

WarriorN · 22/02/2022 08:00

@MangyInseam

I do think that that it's worth realizing that this disbelief that male and female competitors are different is not coming out of nowhere.

Back in the late 80s and 90s there was a lot of pushing the idea in progressive circles that of course women and men were not different in that way.

So you get that film where Demi Moore joins the navy SEALS. Or the film Girlfight where a female boxer beats her boyfriend in a boxing match - we are meant to see that he is a really good guy because he respects her enough to go up against her. Even now, it's a joke in some movie buff circles that you always have to have these "girl power" roles where they demonstrate to us that the female characters can of course hold their own in direct combat with males - Brianne of Tarth or Boba Fett or whatever need to be set against opposite sex warriors so the female can be shown to be completely equal.

Even in real life at that time there was a lot of discussion of women in roles like firefighting or the combat arms, and those who argued that women were rare in those jobs in part because of their physicality were deemed sexists. Even people like Julie Bindle seem to somewhat prop up that narrative at times.

A lot of people are very shocked to learn that a women's Olympic hockey team will often lose to high school boys teams. They just can't believe it.

Yes I do think a lot of us were led to believe this.

I remember growing up being encouraged to think I was completely equal to males (by society) but a miss match then to the real world where I knew I could be assaulted and definitely wasn't as capable physically to male peers in sports. Which I sort of pushed to the back if my mind.

In terms of careers it's the same until you decide to have children and then lots of things are revealed to you.

A friend who's daughter is old enough to have lots of career talks pointed out they never include discussion of what might happen to your career when you have children, to both sexes.

WarriorN · 22/02/2022 07:53

If inclusion is a human right, why do we have separate para Olympics in sport?

I know the argument would be that 'women aren't disabled men,' except there's biological reasons why we have separate sexed categories.

People parroting "inclusion" really don't know what they're actually talking about.

Treating people equally does not mean treating them the same.

WarriorN · 22/02/2022 07:49

I think it's mostly other women supporting it.

From what I've noticed of these women, they tune into the "under dog" (probably due to being women and experiencing various types of sexism) and see these males as the under dog.

Experiencing a version of perceived sexism and "oppression." These women have so much empathy that they become blind to anything else.

There are few "normal" men who support this. Only the vehement TRAs eg OJ. (I've never seen him talk about sport though?)

OperationDessertStorm · 22/02/2022 03:09

@AuxArmesCitoyens

I have seen it argued that we should be reframing sport to make it about participating and not winning.
Yep I’ve seen this. They never seem interested in boycotting millionaires clubs like football, F1 and motor sport, basketball etc. It’s only ever about ‘participating’ in terms of making women’s sport more inclusive, amateur and meaningless.
jellyfrizz · 21/02/2022 17:06

Classes usually have strengths and weaknesses that balance, but what pro would you give a female to balance the con of less physical strength? While still being realistic? As you know, we struggle to identify physical activities that women could beat men at. (Not gymnastics, contrary to popular though. Endurance events?)

The ability to spawn?