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Should I tell a potential employee I am pregnant?

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Twiggles36 · 16/02/2022 12:11

I had an interview today with a start-up in another European country. I would be working with them as a freelancer, remotely. They are quite a small company and are looking for someone who can guarantee about 15-18 hours per week. As I'd be a freelance collaborator and not an employee, I'm quite sure I wouldn't be given formal maternity leave/pay, I would just not accept any projects for a few weeks when I have the baby. In the interview I did not mention I was pregnant, as I didn't want to hinder my chances, but I also feel a bit deceitful accepting an offer when I know I wouldn't be available for a month or so after my baby is born in the summer, and this could create serious problems for them as I am offering a very specialist service and it wouldn't be easy for them to find someone to fill in for me while I'm away. If they make me an offer, should I tell them I am pregnant and won't be working for a month or so after the baby's born?

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JustWonderingIfYou · 16/02/2022 12:16

For a small business with you doing something hard to replace it would be kind but you don't have to.

Is this your first baby? What makes you think you'll be in aposition to work after just a few weeks?

Nogardenersworld · 16/02/2022 12:16

I wouldn’t. I’d just act like it was new news and tell them how you’ll accommodate it when you start.
Yes it’s rubbish for them, but you not working Is rubbish for you and your baby.

That said they may feel it’s a bit rude and it may damage your relationship with them. But you’re taking a risk in telling them first, ime they won’t hire you

WouldIBeATwat · 16/02/2022 12:16

Freelancers don’t get mat pay from the companies they work for - it’s a contract for service not an employment contract.

Moancup · 16/02/2022 12:14

Absolutely not yet. You’re freelance.

Twiggles36 · 16/02/2022 12:13

(Baby's due at the end of June)

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