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Sex Matters survey

94 replies

tricervixtops · 13/02/2022 09:20

Apologies if there already a post on this.

Sex Matters has put together a survey about why single sex spaces matter if anyone would like to respond

sex-matters.org/take-action/single-sex-services-survey/

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PearPickingPorky · 15/02/2022 12:06

@SunnyDelite

I was a bit disappointed that I couldn't put an opinion on things that I have sympathy with but am not directly involved with, such as sport and faith. I don't DO sport but feel great empathy for women who are having their sports colonised by males.....
Same. I found out very hard to pick 3 situations, and had to pick the ones I'd feel most vulnerable and have least choice in, as an adult female human. So I left out school (because I'm an adult), sport (because I'm no longer a competing athlete), work (because at least I know most of the men there and they need to behave), nightclubs etc (because I have tiny children and no time to go, but I actually think where alcohol is involved, single-sex spaces are VERY necessary for safety).

So picked public loos, hospitals and women's services.

DoubleTweenQueen · 15/02/2022 11:50

@vivariumvivariumsvivaria 😁

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 15/02/2022 11:38

@samsalmon

Done and shared on FB, that took some nerve but I reckon I’m entitled to my thoughts so if anyone objects and unfriends me, that’s fine.
Agree, @samsalmon.

Anyone who thinks i don't deserve safety, privacy and dignity can FOTTFSOF.

DoubleTweenQueen · 15/02/2022 08:27

Morning bump

Gumbomambo · 14/02/2022 19:00

Done

nzborn · 14/02/2022 18:40

done

Jux · 14/02/2022 18:06

Done

samsalmon · 14/02/2022 17:47

Done and shared on FB, that took some nerve but I reckon I’m entitled to my thoughts so if anyone objects and unfriends me, that’s fine.

turbonerd · 14/02/2022 17:21

Bump

CompleteGinasaur · 14/02/2022 17:06

Done. And I too was a bit peeved that there was no box for having left a political party - feel it misrepresents me to presume I'm still a member of the Labour party, and might have been a good piece of quantified ammo to see the number of women who've left over this issue. Not a major complaint, but a slight missed opportunity..?

Bunshaped · 14/02/2022 16:48

@Linguini

10:51 vivariumvivariumsvivaria

The survey is titled:
Tell us about why single sex services are important to you personally
Not "tell us why you think single sex services are unimportant or should be dismantled".

The organisation is called sex matters not "gender identity matters and sex is irrelevant".

There are plenty of well funded and prominent organisations out there, producing surveys that are biased to centre people with a penis getting whatever they want all of the time.

This organisation is small and likely run by volunteers who shouldn't be expected to sift through a load of gender woo claptrap comments in order to do their quite specific research.

I really like your post, Linguini!

Survey done Wine

JoyousAsOtters · 14/02/2022 16:45

Done, thank you

EmpressaurusWitchDoesntBurn · 14/02/2022 16:29

Bump!

DoubleTweenQueen · 14/02/2022 15:45

Bumpety bump!

BeBraverToday · 14/02/2022 11:50

Done. Thank you.

Moneypennysfreedomfund · 14/02/2022 11:44

Done!

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 14/02/2022 11:33

Thanks, yes, that's helpful. They are people I know, there's about 6 of them and the chat is polite and I keep thinking that I can peak them. Baby steps. They are all senior in their roles in organisations which have been stonewalled. They all understand what the EHRC is for, so I assume that their statement is food for thought. I like it when they engage, they ask good questions - and I have good answers.

I said it was because the government have listened to the pro-gender case for 2 years, and we have a time pressure to force them to hear that women's rights matter. That SM is not funded, and that none of the organisations who are trying to engage with the government to defend womens rights have funding - that women crowdfunded for JR and that shows how many women there are donating a tenner here and there to protect our legal rights. There are pockets of people with expertise who are organised and have a clear aim, and a massive, under recognised and growing swell of "WTF?" from women which has quietly grown a grass roots movement. That it's fascinating that politicians have learned nothing from the Scottish referendum and Brexit - silence does not always mean agreement.

I used to be a lib fem. Around about the time it was all fields round here. That was a while ago.

Am so grateful to SM, MBM, FPFW, FWS, TT, SS, bloggers and you tubers, and the ones I missed, who take the time to post links and information. It's really helpful to people like me.

YouSetTheTone · 14/02/2022 11:27

Done, and shared! My family have all filled it in. My DH, DF and DB appreciate single sex spaces too.. DM filled it in with grim determination as did my (millennial) DSis.

I don’t give a shit if a space is ‘mixed gender’ as long as it is single sex.
Teenaged girls who identify as boys? Fine. (And it is usually teens).
Men who identify as women? No thank you. (And it is usually men not teens…).

DoubleTweenQueen · 14/02/2022 11:16

@vivariumvivariumsvivaria I understand the point regarding the tone of the questions, but there is graded responses such that anyone can respond a level of disagreement as far as ‘strongly disagree’ or not applicable, if you don’t think the question has credibility or importance to the respondent.

Linguini · 14/02/2022 11:06

10:51 vivariumvivariumsvivaria

The survey is titled:
Tell us about why single sex services are important to you personally
Not "tell us why you think single sex services are unimportant or should be dismantled".

The organisation is called sex matters not "gender identity matters and sex is irrelevant".

There are plenty of well funded and prominent organisations out there, producing surveys that are biased to centre people with a penis getting whatever they want all of the time.

This organisation is small and likely run by volunteers who shouldn't be expected to sift through a load of gender woo claptrap comments in order to do their quite specific research.

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 14/02/2022 10:51

I'm getting some pushback on my social media from lib fems who say that the survey is biased because it only lets you comment if you want single sex spaces.

Which does, you know, seem a bit biased.

Anyone know why they'd do it that way?

DoubleTweenQueen · 14/02/2022 09:32

Bumping

RVN123 · 14/02/2022 00:32

Done, I filled out every box even though I don't play sports but did it on behalf of my daughter who plays rugby.

Also, I learned about Project Nettie which is great. I scoured the signatories who all come from the world of science etc to see if there was anyone in there I know!

Brilliant, thank you. I have signed up for email alerts from them too.

PrawnofthePatriarchy · 14/02/2022 00:29

Done, thank you for sharing.

RubyTrees · 13/02/2022 22:58

Thanks tricervixtops.

Done.