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thank you from a TW

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Atarax · 04/02/2022 11:51

Firstly apologies for posting in a woman's forum. I am transgender (male who lives as female). I wanted to thank the people here who keep me grounded and secure in who I am (not a woman, just a man who is in the wrong body and is fortunate to live in a society that lets me present, act and be accepted as a woman).
Reading threads here on safe spaces gave me the courage to use a men's changing room for the first time since transitioning - I never used woman's ones just accessible/gender neutral rooms. Not surprisingly I did not get attacked, a few curious looks and I kept myself covered in a towel.

You all keep it real and that is so important for those non extreme trans people. Don't stop the dialogue (but do keep respectful). Thanks again, just wanted to post because many (most?) of us get it.

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DomesticatedZombie · 07/02/2022 17:24

No, no, don't stop! More pie-paratha-chips please! Be awful! Do your wurst! Grin

EmpressaurusWitchDoesntBurn · 07/02/2022 17:19

@DomesticatedZombie

Low carbing rn (badly) and this is actual food torture.
Well, we could move on to other stuff. We’ll need other skills on the island beyond cooking, as important as that is. I’ve got three friends who can knit socks.

Are we going to call it Terf Island or Badly Fuckit Mark II?

DomesticatedZombie · 07/02/2022 16:43

Low carbing rn (badly) and this is actual food torture.

EmpressaurusWitchDoesntBurn · 07/02/2022 16:42

Mmmmmm.

TinselAngel · 07/02/2022 16:42

@SamphiretheStickerist

Sometimes I do, yes. The ones in the freezer yes, I did.

I think I used The Ministry of Curry and Jamie Oliver (!!!!!) to get my recipe and technique right. He uses non Atta flour, good for when you can't get to an Indian supermarket.

Do you do layers of butter like puff pastry?
DomesticatedZombie · 07/02/2022 16:40

@EmpressaurusWitchDoesntBurn

Though the Glasgow salad is tempting

Deep fried lettuce?

Chips.
SamphiretheStickerist · 07/02/2022 16:29

Sometimes I do, yes. The ones in the freezer yes, I did.

I think I used The Ministry of Curry and Jamie Oliver (!!!!!) to get my recipe and technique right. He uses non Atta flour, good for when you can't get to an Indian supermarket.

EmpressaurusWitchDoesntBurn · 07/02/2022 16:24

My local Indian takeaway does parathas {smile]. I'll get one next time I'm ordering.

TinselAngel · 07/02/2022 16:22

@SamphiretheStickerist

I'm in for that. Might even womble down to the chippy for the chips and curry sauce, have paratha in the freezer.

Though the Glasgow salad is tempting Smile

Did you make the paratha yourself?
EmpressaurusWitchDoesntBurn · 07/02/2022 16:04

@SamphiretheStickerist

The pie Grin
Useful to know for FiLiA 2023 Grin
SamphiretheStickerist · 07/02/2022 16:04

The pie Grin

EmpressaurusWitchDoesntBurn · 07/02/2022 16:01

Though the Glasgow salad is tempting

Deep fried lettuce?

SamphiretheStickerist · 07/02/2022 16:00

I'm in for that. Might even womble down to the chippy for the chips and curry sauce, have paratha in the freezer.

Though the Glasgow salad is tempting Smile

EmpressaurusWitchDoesntBurn · 07/02/2022 16:00

Entirely up for chips and gravy. Not tried paratha before but I'm more than happy to experiment.

TinselAngel · 07/02/2022 15:56

@DomesticatedZombie

Pie, chips and curry sauce, even?

Hear me out! Almost a paratha, with Glasgow salad on the side.

Are we talking a chip butty with paratha as the bread? I'm all for that.
DomesticatedZombie · 07/02/2022 15:54

Pie, chips and curry sauce, even?

Hear me out! Almost a paratha, with Glasgow salad on the side.

tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz · 07/02/2022 15:54

Having read whole thread and OPs posts properly I'm also feeling there's a bit of contradiction going on.

Chips and gravy are food of the gods though.

SamphiretheStickerist · 07/02/2022 15:51

But chips and gravy... maybe!

DomesticatedZombie · 07/02/2022 15:50

Ah I see, maybe I should have made it clearer by saying "telling us how to behave". - I see, sorry, my misunderstanding.

TinselAngel · 07/02/2022 15:48

I’ve heard rumours that somewhere there’s a local dish involving both cheese and gravy but that’s going too far.

Yorkshire isn't famous for its Poutine as far as I know..

tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz · 07/02/2022 15:39

@DomesticatedZombie

Well, it is Friday.
Gosh she is gorgeous isn't she
EmpressaurusWitchDoesntBurn · 07/02/2022 15:37

@TinselAngel

We'd need a wide variety of vegetarian pies for the lesbians.
The Harlequin do a bloody good roast vegetable & olive one. And chips in gravy.

I’ve heard rumours that somewhere there’s a local dish involving both cheese and gravy but that’s going too far.

tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz · 07/02/2022 15:35

Afternoon OP and welcome to MN. It's good to have you hear and I hope you stick around and keep the conversation going Smile

TinselAngel · 07/02/2022 15:35

We'd need a wide variety of vegetarian pies for the lesbians.

EmpressaurusWitchDoesntBurn · 07/02/2022 15:34

Terf Island. With ready made flags.