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Mridul Wadwha and the thought police

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IamSarah · 03/02/2022 17:58

Great article in Spiked Online about Mridul Wadwha's latest shenanigans:

www.spiked-online.com/2022/02/01/the-thought-police-are-here/

To briefly summarise:

  • Mridul was born male
  • Mridul is legally male with no GRC
  • Mridul is the CEO of Edinburgh Rape crisis
  • Mridul claims women who want female only rape crisis services are bigoted and should 'reframe their trauma'
  • The CEO of a domestic violence charity Nicola Murray stopped referring women to Mridul's rape crisis service due to Mridul's misogyny
  • Mridul reported Nicola Murray to the police for committing a hate crime
  • The police actually visited Nicola Murray to question her thinking
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Waitwhat23 · 06/02/2022 17:22

@barleybadminton do you agree with their decision to exclude these woman?

DomesticatedZombie · 06/02/2022 17:21

Could anyone please explain the difference between cross dressers and transwomen?

barleybadminton · 06/02/2022 17:20

Shall we start posting the trans activists who have issued death and rape threats over the past 5 years?

Okay let's. Please point out one prominent trans activist in the UK who has issued a credible rape or death threat (as opposed to anonymous twitter trolls).

Helleofabore · 06/02/2022 17:19

@barleybadminton

So, no UK feminists then barely? Just your usual reliance on the US to back up your discussions that centre on the UK.

Yet more moving the goalposts I see. I fail to see why feminists from the US have no relevance to this debate.

Because the US has had a very different history to trans rights than the UK. As you know. This discussion has been had with you before.

And because it is a rather different political environment.

I am not moving the goal posts.

Please assume that any request from any poster on this board for evidence on feminist opinions should be based on the UK unless stated otherwise.

You have been here long enough that we should not have to rehash this discussion. But please do continue to play the disingenuous poster.

barleybadminton · 06/02/2022 17:18

@Waitwhat23

I still don't think I've had an answer as to why Edinburgh Rape Crisis Centre can offer groups for many different services users but not provide a single sex service for women who require it, using the single sex exemptions allowed to them in law.
Presumably because they don't want to and as an independent organisation they can do what they like.
Helleofabore · 06/02/2022 17:17

Shall we start posting the trans activists who have issued death and rape threats over the past 5 years?

Would you like us to do this? I am very happy to start.

We could also include who websites where these have been captured and where lesbians have been abused by transitioned males for rejecting their claims that those transitioned males are lesbians too and that the females deserve rape and death for their boundaries.

Shall I start?

I will also include the latest batch of transitioned male and allies protesters who like to do things like let of smoke devices in Grenfell, those who like to shout abusive slogans during sessions where women are recounting dead women's names who have died at the hand of males, and drawing threats on pavements and such.

barleybadminton · 06/02/2022 17:17

So, no UK feminists then barely? Just your usual reliance on the US to back up your discussions that centre on the UK.

Yet more moving the goalposts I see. I fail to see why feminists from the US have no relevance to this debate.

Waitwhat23 · 06/02/2022 17:13

I still don't think I've had an answer as to why Edinburgh Rape Crisis Centre can offer groups for many different services users but not provide a single sex service for women who require it, using the single sex exemptions allowed to them in law.

barleybadminton · 06/02/2022 17:10

@PurgatoryOfPotholes

Perhaps the famous quote by Bev Jo best illustrates the ugly mood of the time: “They expect we’ll be shocked to see statistics about them being killed, and don’t realize, some of us wish they would ALL be dead.”

That would be Bev Jo, the woman who reported being sexually assaulted by Beth Elliot? As detailed in the post you are responding to?

It does pay to read other people's posts. I used bolding for you.

Bev Jo accused Elliot of sexual harassment many years previously not assault, and for the record Elliot strenuously denied it. But taking her at her word are you really claiming that is a justification for wishing death on every trans woman? If someone is sexually harassed by a lesbian or gay men would that justify them wishing all LGB people dead?
Helleofabore · 06/02/2022 17:06

But she worked in the sector for nearly 15 years without anyone even knowing she was trans so that suggests she is more motivated by supporting survivors of sexual violence than cheer-leading for trans rights.

In a blog post titled 'On Validation and Tolerance', someone who had met MW during the time you are talking about mentioned just how easy it was to work out that MW was male.

I cannot link it here, it is in an archive site which MN deleted my link to a few pages ago.

Not only did the author mention that 14 years before writing, they met MW but that at the time they had a discernible Adam's apple and voice. And that 'power' that we discussed earlier in regards to 'Louise and the power of women in need', it was very apparent too.

In this instance, it came from putting people in a position where they had to validate MW's appearance as a woman. After the event, MW and the author's friend sat and discussed the 'bigots, and intolerant idiots' who avoided answering the question.

This has been posted on MN before as I recalled seeing it. The name has stuck with me.

I look forward though to barely producing something which denounces this recollection. I hope that barley can produce something from a person who has nothing to lose in their honesty, in other words, that testimony is not compelled at all, and was not in a traumatised state at the time they made the error in identifying this person as a female. When the testimony is from someone who has met MW in person, without any surgeries aimed at feminising them.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 06/02/2022 16:59

While I wait for certain posters to actually read the whole of all the posts in this thread thus far, I'm going to do something I'm told is more age-appropriate for me than posting on mumsnet about 70s feminism:

playing Mario games.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 06/02/2022 16:56

@barleybadminton

Frankly, I am indebted to you for supplying the context of her earlier book, which she referred to it this article, written in 2003. Like us these years later, Andrea Dworkin was willing to consider the impact on women.

She is reviewing a book about cross dressers not trans women, a book which favourably argues that trans men are men incidentally.

Yes, I know. Do not project your own tendency to skip over entire paragraphs onto others. It's rude. Did you not note that Andrea thought Amy Bllom should interrogate that argument?

As you missed it, I'll help.

The willingness to have female genitalia and to abstain from sex, the lack of emphasis on the penis as such, raise many questions about the maleness of these perceived men. Maybe Bloom’s subjective reaction to these female-to-male transsexuals - these are men - might not withstand more aggressive scrutiny: has any of them ever committed a sexual assault? Are they communicating with her as women might, or might being oneself appear to be male, lacking as it does the deviousness and decoration of the female role in the west?

Ohnohedident · 06/02/2022 16:55

Barley the MRA. Depressing but very imformative for anyone watching.

DdraigGoch · 06/02/2022 16:50

@barleybadminton

Frankly, I am indebted to you for supplying the context of her earlier book, which she referred to it this article, written in 2003. Like us these years later, Andrea Dworkin was willing to consider the impact on women.

She is reviewing a book about cross dressers not trans women, a book which favourably argues that trans men are men incidentally.

Aren't cross-dressers transwomen too? How exclusionary, Stonewall goes for "acceptance without exception", donchaknow...
vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 06/02/2022 16:47

I'd really like to know why my post was deleted.

There isn't much rhyme or reason to what is allowed and what is not here. I guess that the Law of Averages means that some will fall.

Helleofabore · 06/02/2022 16:45

Solnit is not 2nd wave by any stretch.

I did not think so either.

It was like a poster found an article by Emma Allen and just copied the references and threw in Dworkin.

I mean this sentence is not going to catch the world alight.

The majority of feminists are accepting of transpeople. Yeah. They are! Some feminists have a clearly defined boundary of how far they believe gender should be prioritised over sex and that sex matters in some instances... like males presenting themselves as a female for a role designated for females.

And the author couldn't even get Suzanne Moore's name correct.

And frankly, the author, Emma Allen just throws in a whole heap of tropishness and doesn't provide any credible evidence to support the denouncement of :

It seems that radical feminists have their priorities out of whack. They seem to see the biggest threat coming from transpeople and allies rather than attacks on abortion, economic exploitation or domestic violence. Online debates focus on not allowing transwomen in “women’s” bathrooms as though there needs to be some sort of bathroom police on duty. These ridiculous debates detract from much more productive conversations on how to organize against sexism.

Their hatred does not have any place in our struggle. Feminism is supposed to be an ideology of transcending gender oppression and eliminating the strict binary definition of gender, not reinforcing it. Feminists should be against hatred and bigotry in all forms and respect everyone’s right to biological autonomy.

Umm.... has this author read anything really by some of those 'anti-trans' feminists she reels off?

Is this the level of feminist thinking you think proves your point barely?

Could Bindel be accused of not fighting for rights around abortion, economic exploitation (including prostitution but good article barley) and domestic violence?

Home goal really. Brings the discussion back to :

What kind of mind can deny that right to request a female examiner to a shaking, traumatised woman on the worst day of her life when that person is also the CEO of a rape crisis centre?

barleybadminton · 06/02/2022 16:39

Frankly, I am indebted to you for supplying the context of her earlier book, which she referred to it this article, written in 2003. Like us these years later, Andrea Dworkin was willing to consider the impact on women.

She is reviewing a book about cross dressers not trans women, a book which favourably argues that trans men are men incidentally.

DomesticatedZombie · 06/02/2022 16:38

Some 2nd wavers on this letter in support of Greer and others who've been 'no platformed':

www.theguardian.com/theobserver/2015/feb/14/letters-censorship

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 06/02/2022 16:33

@DomesticatedZombie

Solnit is not 2nd wave by any stretch.
Indeed. She was 11 years old when the staff of Sisters were siding with Beth Elliot.
PurgatoryOfPotholes · 06/02/2022 16:31

I think we have inadvertently answered my question.

The answer may be "a mind that sees a woman's horror and scorn of her rapist as a crime equivalent with the rape".

Women's words are worse than men's actions.

To quote Dr Em

One of the clearest signs that people don’t really believe that these transsexuals/transgenderists have changed sex is that their behaviour will be excused and a woman disbelieved and slandered if she speaks up.

DomesticatedZombie · 06/02/2022 16:30

Solnit is not 2nd wave by any stretch.

DomesticatedZombie · 06/02/2022 16:29

2nd wave feminists?

Yay Germaine!

Helleofabore · 06/02/2022 16:25

@PurgatoryOfPotholes

Perhaps the famous quote by Bev Jo best illustrates the ugly mood of the time: “They expect we’ll be shocked to see statistics about them being killed, and don’t realize, some of us wish they would ALL be dead.”

That would be Bev Jo, the woman who reported being sexually assaulted by Beth Elliot? As detailed in the post you are responding to?

It does pay to read other people's posts. I used bolding for you.

You did use bolding. It was hard to miss it...
Helleofabore · 06/02/2022 16:23

@Sophoclesthefox

And with that, I think we’ve come full circle back to women’s feelings around sexual assault and the male persons who perpetrate them being entirely disposable and/or invisible.
Interestingly we have indeed.

What kind of mind can deny that right to request a female examiner to a shaking, traumatised woman on the worst day of her life when that person is also the CEO of a rape crisis centre?

CompleteGinasaur · 06/02/2022 16:21

Well, I don't know what that got deleted for, all I did was like PurgatoryofPotholes' post?