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James O’Brien on now ‘pregnant people’

111 replies

GreekOlive · 27/01/2022 12:20

Big fan of J’OB ON LBC but listening to Mystery Hour now and he’s continually saying: why does a sense of smell change in ‘pregnant people’ as one of the questions. It’s grating as well as ridiculous.

Anyone fancy ringing in to explain why a WOMAN’s smell changes in pregnancy?

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anothersmahedmug · 27/01/2022 14:04

[quote oklets]@anothersmahedmug Really? You strongly object to being referred to as a person? Think the replies here have answered my question! [/quote]
I didn't say I strongly object when it's the right level of abstraction

I do object when its the wrong level of abstraction because then harm follows

You call a chair the chair not the furniture if you want someone you sit down for clarity

Have a seat , have a chair not have the furniture

But carry on being exclusive and harming the female sex if it makes you feel better

Beefcurtains79 · 27/01/2022 14:03

JOB hates all women, not just GC ones.

Cattenberg · 27/01/2022 14:02

Yes, I have one of his books somewhere. I think it’s in a box in the loft so I can’t check it now, but IIRC he wrote that it didn’t cost him anything to be kind to trans people, so therefore only an arsehole wouldn’t be kind. Something like that.

I don’t know why a woman’s sense of smell changes during pregnancy, but I’d guess it’s linked to hormonal changes. I do know that women have a stronger sense of smell than men, especially in the fertile period close to ovulation.

anothersmahedmug · 27/01/2022 14:00

No one is none binary sex

The word refers to the sex of the person

You can have whatever gender you like but it's pretty irrelevant to the pregnancy process

And by using gender not sex you exclude anyone without a gender

Perhaps you don't care about them ?

Firesidefox · 27/01/2022 13:59

I can't bear James OB. This does not surprise me in the least.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 27/01/2022 13:59

Sometimes exclusion is necessary

We exclude adults from competing with children

We exclude white people from programmes designed to improve the lives of people from BAME backgrounds

Women are not included in programmes to screen for prostate cancer

The erasure of the word woman when it relates to something that only women can do in favour of people is not being inclusive at all, it’s just erasing women for no helpful reason at all

spikesonbuildings · 27/01/2022 13:58

@oklets

Thanks *@spikesonbuildings*, there are some good points in this. I agree some of the language they refer to in this is really clunky and can see some of the issues with that. But 'pregnant person' isn't really difficult to understand. Nor does it seem dehumanising. A lot of the replies on here are nothing to do with these issues and do seem just an angry anti-trans/non binary thing.
Its part of the same movement to pretend that sex is irrelevant to how women experience the world. And doing that causes real harm to women. Using language that denies women's experiences as women, leads to making women's experiences invisible and that does harm women and is harming women. I would say that is pretty dehumanising to women, yes. Poor maternal health care in many parts of the world reflects the low status of women. We can't recognise this as a structural inequality that women face, if we can't refer to it as something that affects women only. We can't address sexism if we can't name our sex.
ramonaquimby · 27/01/2022 13:58

JoB is afraid of being cancelled by those he perceives to be the cool crowd. He’s so desperate to be considered a voice for today but really, he’s rather loathesome.

VelvetChairGirl · 27/01/2022 13:56

I used to be a fan until he did a trans in sport debate and was a right arse, he ignored or talked over all those making the case for women (including Hayden).

I have not listened to him since and will not, he can fuck right off.

oklets · 27/01/2022 13:55

@anothersmahedmug Really? You strongly object to being referred to as a person? Think the replies here have answered my question!

spikesonbuildings · 27/01/2022 13:54

@oklets

I am a woman, I have given birth. I have no idea why people get so worked up about the use of inclusive language. Is it simply that you deny the existence of trans/non binary people?
I would also point out that the whole point of words is that they ARE exclusive. A word is a discreet category of meaning that excludes other meanings. 'Inclusive words' that no longer have discreet and exclusive meanings, start to mean that we are unable to communicate effectively with each other.

If there is a disease, for example, which affects both men and women (defined by their sex) but women are disproportionately affected, then reporting on 'people' obscures the effect of the disease, and interventions to tackle the disease, on women. And this has started to happen in medical journals who wish to be 'inclusive'. And that starts to have real world affects on our ability to tackle issues that affects women due to their sex.

Which, given as we have only just started to recognise how illnesses and treatments can affect men and women differently, is a massively retrograde step in creating a society that genuinely treats women equally.

anothersmahedmug · 27/01/2022 13:53

People get cross because the ignoring of the differences between the sexes causes real harm. Like no safety gear for women

People get cross because pretending there is no difference between the sexes means that the female ones get shat on. You can't show the fact that women don't get safety gear that works if you can't show the fit of kit based on sex. So you don't know why half the population can't use the safety gear so you can't fix it

oklets · 27/01/2022 13:53

@Intheopinionofourexpert Well my point was is your objection based on you denying the existence of trans/non binary people. And your reply indicates that yes, it is.

anothersmahedmug · 27/01/2022 13:50

Inclusive

Why say people ? Why not animals or mammals? Why not just things ?

oklets · 27/01/2022 13:50

Thanks @spikesonbuildings, there are some good points in this. I agree some of the language they refer to in this is really clunky and can see some of the issues with that. But 'pregnant person' isn't really difficult to understand. Nor does it seem dehumanising. A lot of the replies on here are nothing to do with these issues and do seem just an angry anti-trans/non binary thing.

ScreamingMeMe · 27/01/2022 13:50

What's inclusive about not including the word women? Why not women AND non binary people and transmen?

Intheopinionofourexpert · 27/01/2022 13:44

@oklets

I am a woman, I have given birth. I have no idea why people get so worked up about the use of inclusive language. Is it simply that you deny the existence of trans/non binary people?
What's inclusive about pretending anyone other than women ie adult human females can give birth?
Floisme · 27/01/2022 13:44

I fail to see what is inclusive or benign about using language that fudges the issue of which sex gets pregnant - not always through choice - and which sex grows and gives birth to a baby, sometimes at considerable risk to health and life.

spikesonbuildings · 27/01/2022 13:44

@oklets

I am a woman, I have given birth. I have no idea why people get so worked up about the use of inclusive language. Is it simply that you deny the existence of trans/non binary people?
I also find it really misogynistic to believe that when women are standing up for women's rights that it must not be because they actually have regard for women, but must be because they are against another group.

I don't see that you slurring of feminists in this way is any different from in the 70s when feminists were called 'man-haters'.

ScreamingMeMe · 27/01/2022 13:44

I wouldn't bother. JOBby hates GC women and talks over and patronises them.

spikesonbuildings · 27/01/2022 13:40

@oklets

I am a woman, I have given birth. I have no idea why people get so worked up about the use of inclusive language. Is it simply that you deny the existence of trans/non binary people?
No, its just that we understand the important of biological sex to women's experiences of the world and the vital importance of the ability to use language that reflects experiences based on our sex. Here is an excellent article to outline the issues relating to maternity care.

www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fgwh.2022.818856/full?fbclid=IwAR1GmMyg9yC58i3SargXSSpsw1NgaVoD6raB8cz40YuEgx9VxFTr5A4m4OQ%20OPINION%20article

Loopytiles · 27/01/2022 13:39

It’s not ‘inclusive’ to erase the word ‘women’.

SamphiretheStickerist · 27/01/2022 13:38

No oklets it isn't.

Have a read round. There's 6+years worth of discussion, examples, scientific evidence, law, opinion and much much more on precisely why it isn't.

oklets · 27/01/2022 13:35

I am a woman, I have given birth. I have no idea why people get so worked up about the use of inclusive language. Is it simply that you deny the existence of trans/non binary people?

Loopytiles · 27/01/2022 13:34

Not a fan of JOB myself

He is firmly in the ‘transwomen are women, women are worrying about nothing’ camp. DH has his latest book and there is a section about it.