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Where are all the middle aged women who should be transitioning

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IcakethereforeIam · 17/01/2022 12:11

I'm new here, I'm sorry if this has been covered or if I've got the wrong end of the stick.

I don't understand the apparent lack of curiosity in some quarters at the massive increase in girls wanting to transition. I went to school in the 80s, while my friends and I knew vaguely about sex change it was not something we thought about applying to ourselves. Perhaps we just kept it inside.

Advocates for allowing children to transition (affirmation only? ), think they don't grow out of the desire. Others say over 80% desist (watchful waiting?). I believe the first cohort believe the uptick is down to an increase in awareness of the possibility of treatment. Surely, if that is correct, there should be hundreds or thousands of closeted women around my age wanting to change their sex. Where are they? Has anyone looked for them?

If they aren't there, then why the disconnect.

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bordermidgebite · 17/01/2022 12:25

It's just they pass so well we never noticed

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 17/01/2022 12:23

@Lubeyboobyalt, this is a magnificent opportunity for you - please do answer the OP's excellent question. Where are all the middle-aged transmen? We are told over and over that transwomen knew from an early age that they were trans but for various reasons they were unable or unwilling to transition until they'd married, had children and reached a good point in their careers. Why are there so few transmen over the age of 30?

FusionChefGeoff · 17/01/2022 12:22

@Lubeyboobyalt I'm also really keen to hear another viewpoint on this - as it could be seen as such a big 'slam dunk' for the GC view if left unanswered .

Triphazards · 17/01/2022 12:21

@Lubeyboobyalt

You're not going to get a sensible or unbiased answer here I'm afraid - Enjoy the manufactured echo chamber.
Oh- now it's "manufactured" as well!
vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 17/01/2022 12:19

Have you got an answer though, @Lubeyboobyalt?

We really don't want an echo chamber here, please do join in if you have some insights to share.

Lubeyboobyalt · 17/01/2022 12:17

You're not going to get a sensible or unbiased answer here I'm afraid - Enjoy the manufactured echo chamber.

HeatonGrove · 17/01/2022 12:17

I am a middle aged woman with short hair, no make up and I wear trousers pretty much all the time. Gender ideology suggests I have transitioned. I just never noticed.

I actually feel desperately sorry for girls/younger women today who feel that if they do not conform to exaggerated norms of femininity (big hair on your head, no hair on body, big lips, painted nails, hour glass shape figure,skimpy clothes etc.) they can no longer consider themselves female so decide to transition.

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 17/01/2022 12:17

Add to that, where are all the baby butch lesbians?

Is the absence of one group linked to the disappearance of the other?

Excellent question, which I've also never seen an answer to.

GoodieMoomin · 17/01/2022 12:12

Excellent question. I'd love to hear a sensible answer

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