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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Help me stay sane and keep my friends.

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loopyapp · 13/01/2022 14:15

Quick scene setting. Studying sociology, topic of prostitution came up. All fellow students angrily defending the rights of sex workers to sell their bodies.

Did my best to explain all the many ways in which sex work is just exploitative but I'm not very articulate under pressure.

Please post information/links to help me out especially with regards to how sex work enables male entitlement to sexual gratification.

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showmethegin · 13/01/2022 14:48

If anyone uses the "empowering" line I would ask "why, if it is so empowering do we not have the same amount of men doing it?"

Rainbowlaceshelp · 13/01/2022 14:48

Sociology student here. I've decided the less I say the better. There is no way to get through to these people, and you'll only be rewarded with ostracism.

I deeply admire women who are able to withstand this

JeshusHChr · 13/01/2022 14:39

' I pay thy poverty not thy conscience' (that's Shakespeare, that is, Romeo and Juliet where the the guy Romeo he is buying poison from is expressing moral qualms about handing it over, and Romeo replies with this).

Just been ranting about privileged uni educated women crapping all over more marginalised womens' rights. And here is another example. These women/men on your course have an empathy bypass. They can't imagine being driven into this by poverty, they can't imagine being enslaved or trafficked. And they have a hyper-individualist view of the world so they are not considering that normalising men buying women's' bodies creates a demand that pimps need to traffick women to meet that demand (though your fellow students probably decry capitalism, so go figure).

Don't worry about not being articulate under pressure - its a skill you can gain through practice - so keep speaking!

UltraVividLament · 13/01/2022 14:24

It's disappointing that your friends discussed this angrily and apparently intolerant of a different point of view to the extent that they might decide to exclude you from the friendship group.

I would suggest reading anything by Julie Bindel as a starting point.

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