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Found this in the New Forest!

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Boomboomboomboom · 23/12/2021 17:47

Thought you would all enjoy this little bit of guerrilla feminism spotted deep in the New Forest, Hampshire today. Brought a little Christmas cheer to my sister and I!

Found this in the New Forest!
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Lammysaurus · 27/12/2021 06:14

@KimikosNightmare

Let's be honest, if someone from here had encountered "twaw" written on a rock in the new forest, they would absolutely be here kicking off about how horrible and oppressed and unsafe it made them feel, and can't they even enjoy a nice walk in the forest without "gender ideology" being forced down their throat

I don't think they would say it made them feel unsafe, but I agree that the rest of what you say is a likely reaction; plus removing the stone and probably bolstered up with the points EarthSight has been making.

How. exactly? And what led you to this conclusion?
KimikosNightmare · 26/12/2021 23:39

Let's be honest, if someone from here had encountered "twaw" written on a rock in the new forest, they would absolutely be here kicking off about how horrible and oppressed and unsafe it made them feel, and can't they even enjoy a nice walk in the forest without "gender ideology" being forced down their throat

I don't think they would say it made them feel unsafe, but I agree that the rest of what you say is a likely reaction; plus removing the stone and probably bolstered up with the points EarthSight has been making.

KimikosNightmare · 26/12/2021 23:34

@EarthSight

Also, I would like to point out that I don't think of the slate as graffiti - it's a natural material and the message was written on that. The graffiti I was referring to was writing on stones and such.

What I would like to avoid is a situation where we're using the countryside or nice place where people go for a walk as somewhere else to go 'Hey - here's my opinion on this'.

I don't want to see it, even if I agree with the message. In national parks we already have problems with umpteen rock stacking showing up. One person does it, then another, then another, then another, then another, all wanting an Instagramable pic and and opportunity to say I WOZ 'ERE on somewhere beautiful before they return to urban settings.

In once small place I counted 50 - 70 of them. Things like that quickly add up and become an issue and a bloody eyesore. I do not want to see the same thing being done with political messages, however small, even if they are lovely or I agree with them.

I understand this may be an unpopular opinion and that people have decent-counter arguments to it, but I would like people to consider thinking about the matter differently or try to see where I'm coming from.

Sorry for the derail though :/

I agree with you here.

In many locations the countryside can't be an utterly, natural unspoilt wilderness as it's someone's workplace. Scotland has codified a right to roam, including over working farms, but that doesn't give anyone the right to make their own additions/ put up political slogans.

In wilder locations which aren't "workplaces" I agree it's jarring.

EricCartmansGoatee · 26/12/2021 22:34

No, I'm not directing that to you personally, at all. I was thinking about the wider issue of how we divide up 'nature' and 'human' and see them as two separate things. It's a very common way of thinking, and I think it's fallacious.

I think the lives people often lead can make them feel quite distanced from nature rather than part of it.

EricCartmansGoatee · 26/12/2021 22:31

Let's be honest, if someone from here had encountered "twaw" written on a rock in the new forest, they would absolutely be here kicking off about how horrible and oppressed and unsafe it made them feel,

I very much doubt anyone here would be saying words in the forest made them feel unsafe. Irritated yes. But seeing as how so many tra's rarely leave their mothers basements, particularly for a walk in the forest, I doubt they will be coming across women's words in the wilderness, or vice versa.

ArabellaScott · 26/12/2021 22:24

@EarthSight

I wonder if the idea of 'nature' as something separate and pure to be unsullied by humans might be at the root of some of our problems with poor ecological choices!

Also - wow. What a way to argue your point there. Linking my views to poor ecological choices. That is quite something.

No, I'm not directing that to you personally, at all. I was thinking about the wider issue of how we divide up 'nature' and 'human' and see them as two separate things. It's a very common way of thinking, and I think it's fallacious.

By 'we', I mean people in general. Not you.

BlueberryCheezecake · 26/12/2021 22:18

@Artichokeleaves

Unless you also believe that no one should ever state in writing "TWAW" in a public place in case it upsets someone of other beliefs, this does not have a leg to stand on.

No one has an entitlement to require the rest of the world to protect them from encountering other beliefs, views and needs. No one has an entitlement to require that those trying to retain political rights under attack don't actually mention it for fear of upsetting those who want those rights removed. #notyourmum

Let's be honest, if someone from here had encountered "twaw" written on a rock in the new forest, they would absolutely be here kicking off about how horrible and oppressed and unsafe it made them feel, and can't they even enjoy a nice walk in the forest without "gender ideology" being forced down their throat. We see posts like this all the time, multiple posters here can't even handle being asked to tick their gender on a form, or asked politely what pronouns they use, or tolerate seeing any mild comment in favour of trans rights, they'd most certainly be unhappy about rock graffiti too.
EarthSight · 26/12/2021 21:35

I wonder if the idea of 'nature' as something separate and pure to be unsullied by humans might be at the root of some of our problems with poor ecological choices!

Also - wow. What a way to argue your point there. Linking my views to poor ecological choices. That is quite something.

EarthSight · 26/12/2021 21:29

I was born and still live rurally too @ArabellaScott . I was thinking of the enjoyment of people who live here, not visit here.

ArabellaScott · 26/12/2021 20:36

using the countryside or nice place where people go for a walk

Almost all of the land in the UK is used, affected, farmed, managed by humans. I wonder if the idea of 'nature' as something separate and pure to be unsullied by humans might be at the root of some of our problems with poor ecological choices!

We live here. We are nature, we aren't separate, we can't preserve 'nature' as something that isn't fundamentally intertwined with humans and humanity.

Having lived rurally most of my life, I find the idea that a not-urban space should be pristinely absolved of human traces so that townies can periodically visit and bask in its beauty impractical to say the least. Yes, green spaces and wild spaces are very important, but they are all also connected to our lives intimately and daily and always, and most often they are also workplaces and our homes.

Yes, there are lots of rocks out there with various messages on them. We have Jehovah's witness rocks, 'inspirational quotes' and lots and lots of 'NHS thanks' rocks around here. (I live rurally). I just cannot get worked up about it.

I do share concerns about littering & potential misplacement of materials, and I have always carefully considered the consequences of my actions.

EarthSight · 26/12/2021 19:55

Also, I would like to point out that I don't think of the slate as graffiti - it's a natural material and the message was written on that. The graffiti I was referring to was writing on stones and such.

What I would like to avoid is a situation where we're using the countryside or nice place where people go for a walk as somewhere else to go 'Hey - here's my opinion on this'.

I don't want to see it, even if I agree with the message. In national parks we already have problems with umpteen rock stacking showing up. One person does it, then another, then another, then another, then another, all wanting an Instagramable pic and and opportunity to say I WOZ 'ERE on somewhere beautiful before they return to urban settings.

In once small place I counted 50 - 70 of them. Things like that quickly add up and become an issue and a bloody eyesore. I do not want to see the same thing being done with political messages, however small, even if they are lovely or I agree with them.

I understand this may be an unpopular opinion and that people have decent-counter arguments to it, but I would like people to consider thinking about the matter differently or try to see where I'm coming from.

Sorry for the derail though :/

EarthSight · 26/12/2021 19:36

@KimikosNightmare

Yes, but the act of writing on stones/slate as someone pointed out at the beginning of the thread could be seen as a kind of graffiti?

Hyperbole is never good for either side's case.

This is graffiti.

That slate, regardless of what one thinks of the message, is not graffiti.

@KimikosNightmare No, but it is using places of nature (where people go for peace of mind and tranquillity) as another place to post political messages. I happen to like the slate but if I saw this out in nature I would take it away. Same if I saw any kind of flag.
EarthSight · 26/12/2021 19:32

@NoNotMeNoSiree

Yes, but the act of writing on stones/slate as someone pointed out at the beginning of the thread could be seen as a kind of graffiti?

It was me who said that, and as I have also pointed out, my views on this extend to all political messaging, including trans activist graffiti.

EarthSight · 26/12/2021 19:29

@NoNotMeNoSiree

oh shush @blueberrycheezecake** Did you really just do that What happened to wanting a debate? We're on page 2, we've had a dissenting view and as a result already a shush, an attempt at gaslighting and an accusation of derailing.
That poster seems to enjoy shit-stirring and I VERY much doubt is here to actually have a debate, where one is open to new viewpoints. Therefore, I reserve the right to sush them thanks.
EarthSight · 26/12/2021 19:26

@Rhannion

And slate is a nature material so quite at home in a forest.
@Rhannion

Yes, but I don't think we should be using such places to fill with political messages. It's nice to go for a walk and have one place to forget about all of that.

Rhannion · 26/12/2021 17:17

I mean the slate, not the appalling t-shirt message.

Rhannion · 26/12/2021 17:11

@NoNotMeNoSiree

Nobody's saying that isn't offensive, course it is, it's disgusting. It's not a competition though.
If you had seen that slate 6 or 7 years ago would you have thought it “ disgusting “ then? If not , then what changed in your mindset? And if you had found it “ disgusting” then, why was that?
VestofAbsurdity · 26/12/2021 16:12

A state of fact about what exactly feminism is and has always been about, is not in any way offensive.

Of course it's not, well unless you are the kind of person who thinks that women only exist for the validation of men and their feelings which is a contemptible way of regarding women, is misogynistic and inherently un-feminist. There is no other way you can read the objections to this slate from those who are objecting.

WarriorN · 26/12/2021 16:09

Siree and bluech have made this "about trans," somehow.

WarriorN · 26/12/2021 16:07

Quite, any sane person can tell that is disgusting.

A state of fact about what exactly feminism is and has always been about, is not in any way offensive.

ErrolTheDragon · 26/12/2021 16:05

It's not a competition though.

No, it's not.

There's really no comparison - one is a pretty, unobtrusive object with a message intended for women, which is appreciated by people like the OP who come across it.

The other is also a message for women... it serves no other purpose but to upset and intimidate. Not 'pro trans', but very specifically a male expression of contempt for women.

ArabellaScott · 26/12/2021 15:55

Oh, great you're back, NoNot. So can you specify what is 'offensive' about the slate?

NoNotMeNoSiree · 26/12/2021 15:37

Nobody's saying that isn't offensive, course it is, it's disgusting.
It's not a competition though.

WarriorN · 26/12/2021 14:00

Surely "suck my d.ck t.rfs" emblazoned across the street, where there's far more people walking, is more offensive than a tiny statement about the heart of feminism on a slate.

Anyway, yet another excellent thread demonstrating the misogyny of the genderist movement which seeks to prioritise male feelings over women's safety.

Boomboomboomboom · 26/12/2021 13:56

Gosh, this thread has been interesting!

I can confirm I spotted the slate from the path but couldn't read it from that distance, so ventured the few metres or so off the path down a slight slopes to read what I construed as a pro woman, not an anti-trans message.

Any sensitive trans person who runs the risk of being offended by an almost entirely nature-based piece of feminist art could just admire the heart from afar without the risk of a heinous assault by reading the writing.

Also very interesting that such a pro woman's right slogan is being construed as anti-trans which just confirms that some in the trans community and/or some trans supporters really do think that women should prioritise men's feelings above their own safety which is the heart of the debate really.

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