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Thank You from the Lurkers

344 replies

TofuDelights · 22/12/2021 19:28

FWR (as I still think of it) is a very important corner of the Internet.

I read here almost daily, and the amount of information here is incredible - evidence, links to articles, tweets, feminist analysis, philosophical conversations, academic studies, court cases, judicial reviews, updates on previous cases... the list goes on and on. Personally it takes me time to keep up, let alone feel brave enough to comment Smile

At this time of the year, especially, I just thought it would be nice to create a little thread to say thank you to all the regular contributers from the ones like me, who read but rarely post. Thanks for the information, the wisdom, the challenging discussions and all the lovely dinosaur names!

Hopefully some more lurkers will join me so I'm not left languishing on this thread alone!

Thanks All, and lang may yer lum reek! Xmas Smile

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Cleanmean · 28/12/2021 23:57

Lurker and occasional poster. These threads are the only reason I visit mn these days. Thank you.

JayAlfredPrufrock · 28/12/2021 23:36

Still Spartacus.

Bowednotbroken · 28/12/2021 19:16

Adding thanks from yet another mostly lurker but very occasional poster. This is a space, and you are posters, I value tremendously. And Jo March - your comments are brilliant, thank you. Bit late to wish a happy Christmas so a very good new year to you all. Thank you!

AuntyBumBum · 27/12/2021 23:28

Many thanks to all Xmas Smile

HMBB · 27/12/2021 22:54

Another long time lurker who really admires the clear thinking and eloquent posters who have taught me so much - thank you

CircusSands · 27/12/2021 22:38

I very occasionally comment but mainly lurk. I'm learning so much and my eyes have been opened. Thank you!

EdinburghFeminist · 27/12/2021 17:40

A huge thanks from me too to all the amazing posters on FWR. I’ve learned so much from you all and have used what I’ve learned to pass on to others not on here. Thanks also to @J0sephineMarch - you are an absolute hero on the BTL comments on The Times.
Thank you all!

GrouchyKiwi · 27/12/2021 16:33

A huge thank you from me too. I mostly lurk, but occasionally feel outraged enough that I add a comment. I have learned so much from you all, and I also started from a position of "Be Kind", after supporting a friend through her transition.

But the issue of male bodies in women's sport made me think, and I came here and learned.

I'm also extremely thankful that you helped me open my husband's eyes to it all. At first he thought I was over-reacting, and he was tired of me grumping about issues like women's weightlifting. But every time something new and awful came up - like the Scottish Government being against Johann Lamont's 6-word amendment, like vulnerable women in prison being forced to share with rapists - your wise, angry, erudite posts showed him the issue and he now fights the good fight where he can.

Flowers Brew Gin for you all.

TopCatsTopHat · 27/12/2021 16:26

I can't hold a candle to the informed articulate brilliant women who make this forum the amazing place it is. I can't think of anywhere else on the Internet where debate and critical thinking are even allowed and where it rarely deviates from that into personal-insult slinging. Without spaces like this the future is dead. Not just because opinions are allowed but because the oxygen of debate tests them and helps disseminate vital well thought out arguments. We need critical thinking. They're is nothing good in this world that has come from blindly following group think.
I have de-lurked occasionally but usually make a hash of it and don't retain facts well enough to be a valuable contributer.
But I come here often and it helps me discuss in real life these issues - constructively.
Thank you to all who contribute and speak for so many. The world needs you, I support you.

Acatcalledprince · 27/12/2021 16:13

It's another thank yoh from me. I don't post here very much anymore but because of mumsnet I was radicalised, joined twitter, then a feminist group and since then I've been involved in more direct action.

Cheers 🍻 to all you insightful and thrawn women!

AdultHumanMale · 27/12/2021 15:51

Hesitated to join this vital internet space because I was ‘only’ a concerned stepfather and uncle. My first comment is just to thank everybody who has defended women and kids. Safeguarding FTW.

BigBobBoots · 27/12/2021 14:00

Thank you from another lurker.

SallyLockheart · 27/12/2021 05:08

Thank you from me too.

Whsper · 27/12/2021 03:10

Thanks from Australia! The babycenter au forum ain't got anything on mumsnet. The smallest whiff of biological reality gets you a permanent ban.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 27/12/2021 00:31

What a fantastic thread Thanks

3beesinmybonnet · 26/12/2021 23:02

Thank you from another mostly lurker. I too am in awe of those posters on here who have taught me so much, and with such eloquence whilst I'm still trying to organise my limited collection of grunts, squeaks and burps into a sentence.
Wishing all of you a happy and successful New Year, and thanks OP for starting this thread.

graywall · 26/12/2021 16:54

Thank you from me too

ErrmWTAF · 26/12/2021 09:50

Thank you from me. I don't have the words, even now, but I'm so glad you posters do. Wishing you happy holidays, and a serene new year.

Boiledeggandtoast · 26/12/2021 09:49

A huge thank you from me too.

SwanShaped · 26/12/2021 09:43

Thanks from me too. Having worked in women’s refuges, including deciding which women get a space or not, I’m horrified that a man could ask to come to a refuge. Don’t know if this has ever happened but I know @IamSarah has had a shit time accessing women’s services. I am so glad I don’t work in women’s services now.

ShagMeRiggins · 26/12/2021 09:32

Everything I’ve wanted to say has been said, but wanted to add to the astonishing number of appreciative lurkers/mostly lurkers.

The voices on this board are clear, strong, frighteningly well-informed, logical, and persistent. Stunning intelligence shining through as well.

Thank you all, wishing the best for 2022, and thanks for making me a digger.

Pudmyboy · 26/12/2021 00:49

Thanks for this thread! As an occasional poster and daily lurker, I really value the capacity of the regulars to discuss topics clearly. I have said before, finding this site saved my sanity.

Timefortea4 · 26/12/2021 00:05

What a great thread.

Thank you everyone for keeping me sane when I feel like screaming. Thank you for educating me and also being a source of info for my husband (who initially thought I had fallen down an internet conspiracy hole).

Thanks to you all I have supported numerous fundraisers and written to thank lots of peers who have stood up for women and to my MP who has very much not.

Hoping that 2022 is the year that the pendulum swings back and children are safeguarded and single sex spaces are valued, embraced,
and celebrated.

Redshoeblueshoe · 25/12/2021 23:49

Thank you for such a lovely thread 🎄

theGoatsofChristmas · 25/12/2021 15:41

Thank you to everyone here.
All power to 2022