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Thank You from the Lurkers

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TofuDelights · 22/12/2021 19:28

FWR (as I still think of it) is a very important corner of the Internet.

I read here almost daily, and the amount of information here is incredible - evidence, links to articles, tweets, feminist analysis, philosophical conversations, academic studies, court cases, judicial reviews, updates on previous cases... the list goes on and on. Personally it takes me time to keep up, let alone feel brave enough to comment Smile

At this time of the year, especially, I just thought it would be nice to create a little thread to say thank you to all the regular contributers from the ones like me, who read but rarely post. Thanks for the information, the wisdom, the challenging discussions and all the lovely dinosaur names!

Hopefully some more lurkers will join me so I'm not left languishing on this thread alone!

Thanks All, and lang may yer lum reek! Xmas Smile

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LighteningMaQueen · 22/12/2021 22:25

Thank you from another lurker! I really appreciate the discussions that go on here and the knowledge, wisdom and outrage that is shared, I have learned a lot and lurking here has confirmed my gender critical views.

Dinosaurwoman · 22/12/2021 22:23

I’m a lurker but this board has inspired me to to donate to Sex Matters on a regular basis

oxalisRed · 22/12/2021 22:20

I'm mostly a lurker too. Thank you @TofuDelights for this lovely thread. A massive thank you to the regulars who post with such intelligence, honesty and perseverance. You are all amazing Flowers

Igmum · 22/12/2021 22:18

Thank you from me too (I sort of mainly lurk and occasionally post bits but at heart I'm a lurker). You well informed women are helping to make the world a better place

aModernClassic · 22/12/2021 22:15

Thank you from another lurker. As the others have said, it's so helpful and gives us more confidence to speak up in real life, even if we can't always say exactly how we feel.

TofuDelights · 22/12/2021 22:14

Wow, this is amazing, thanks everyone! Thought I might get a handful of comments but this is fantastic. The mythical 6 people, eh?!

Merry Christmas to you all, however you celebrate! 🎄

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Vaginasaurus · 22/12/2021 22:13

I have been lurking, and very rarely posting, on here for at least a decade. Thank you to all of the regular posters. I am in awe of you!

OneMoreForExtra · 22/12/2021 22:12

Big fat lurker here, quietly learning and spreading the GC perspective where I can. Thank you for the patience insight and wisdom on this board - not to mention a few handy turns of phrase I've pocketed!

Joolsin · 22/12/2021 22:11

Thank you, FWR vipers, from another mostly lurker. The knowledge, expertise, strength and compassion of those who regularly post here is so compelling. I too have begun to quietly add my name to petitions, to drop the occasion point into discussions where I feel sunlight may be needed and I'm filled with fury about what has been sneaked past everyone in plain sight.

vitriolaa · 22/12/2021 22:04

chuffed you started this thread, @TofuDelights

more very sincere thanks from a lurker who reads every day. FWR has genuinely changed my life / enabled all sorts of real-world conversations.

wishing peaceful festivities to all of the brilliant women who post Flowers

AuntyBumBum · 22/12/2021 22:00

Merry Christmas, the board is a fantastic source of inspiration.

AsTreesWalking · 22/12/2021 21:59

Mostly a lurker, wholly grateful to the intelligent, thoughtful posters.
I was GC, without knowing the term, when I found FWR and I have learned so much here.
Thank you all.

EvilKinevil · 22/12/2021 21:57

Another very grateful lurker, who passes things onto friends and DH. I have really been educated and stop by almost daily. I am blessed in a life where this has not yet directly touched me, but, the one time it did, I stood up and didn’t back down. With no self doubt at all. Because of the knowledge I have gained from you all.

CatDogAlpaca · 22/12/2021 21:55

Yay! Lurking vipers rock Grin

jingscrivenshelpmaboab · 22/12/2021 21:53

Another grateful lurker here, so nice to add to this thread, have learned so much from this board

Icantremembermyusername · 22/12/2021 21:53

Another thank you from a Lurker x

parietal · 22/12/2021 21:51

definitely a lurker and definitely radicalized by these boards. thank you.

DoubleTweenQueen · 22/12/2021 21:51

Me too - have learned a lot.
Hope you all have a great Christmas, and here's to growing chinks of light and more noise in 2022 🥂

NeedsCharging · 22/12/2021 21:50

I have been in and out of this board for 12 years or so and what amazes me is no matter what hoops those who post are FORCED to jump through in order to support the rights and safeguarding of women and children you manage to get the message across.
You are a force to be rekonded with.

I salute you.

VeronicaBeccabunga · 22/12/2021 21:44

Huge, massive thanks and appreciation from me.
It's so good to see articulate, thoughtful allies defending our rights.
My warmest good wishes to all concerned. Thank you.

GreekOlive · 22/12/2021 21:39

Definitely a lurker! I’ve learned so much from this board. I’m also educating friends when it’s appropriate and all have been interested and concerned by the issues around self ID and the concept of gender identity.
I came off Twitter about a year ago but can follow links people put on here and followed the JK Rowling row and was horrified by the comments against her speaking truth.

I really want to say a big thank you to the wonderfully articulate and educated women on here and I plan to continue to chip away and make a difference, where I can.

Lostinthedesert · 22/12/2021 21:37

Another inveterate lurker here. Grateful thanks from me too - for the Invaluable info, erudition and laugh-out-loud humour in the face of such discouraging odds.
Flowers

MoreHairyThanScary · 22/12/2021 21:35

Thank you all from here too... always in awe of the knowledgeable posters here. FWR has shaped my feminism and made me think far more deeply on so many issues... and I get to share this with the next generation with my 3dd's ( dd1 did her English speaking exam on feminism 😃).

Merry Christmas vipers!

newrubylane · 22/12/2021 21:34

Regular reader and rare poster sending thanks, love and good cheer for the festive season to all the fabulous women on here xx

malanimo · 22/12/2021 21:33

Me too. I visit this board daily and am in awe of all your clear sighted, intelligent posts. Thank you for putting into words what I have felt for years, for educating me about things I had no idea about, and for reassuring me that I'm not going mad. Thanks also to the OP for starting this thread so we can all express our appreciation. Happy Christmas to all you amazing women