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The gas-lighting of young women

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MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 20/12/2021 21:15

I have young adult two cousins who are trans (FTM), one of whom has had full top and bottom surgery. Another cousin in her 20s is a trans rights activist, despite being female, both biologically and in her gender ID, and not being trans. This is not social contagion - I have over 100 first and second cousins, living in various countries and the people concerned will have met once or twice, if at all.

I feel somewhat irritated with the TRA cousin, as she comes from a privileged background (not true of all my family, by any means), and is giving no thought to the impact of removing single sex spaces on poorer women. She lives in another country and, sadly, it looks as if self-ID will become law there. Mostly, though, I feel sad for them all. Both the trans-identifying cousins are actually lesbian, IME. They live in countries where being gay is theoretically fine - one is in the UK - but in practice, being a gay woman is still stigmatised. Both were, pre-transition, gender non-conforming in a way that would have been unremarkable in the 70s/80s/90s, but now gets you labelled trans. And all three of them have been gas-lit by society to value men before women, and to think they are progressive by doing so 😞

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ArabellaScott · 21/12/2021 19:02

You're 'not sure' because it's bullshit, Zyzzx. HTH!

It's scary, OP. I am hoping society wakes up and moves on before my children are put at risk from this pernicious, mendacious, dangerous anti-science ideology.

Zyzzx · 21/12/2021 18:55

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MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 20/12/2021 21:56

@Linguini

You say it's not social contagion but so much of young adults lives are online nowadays. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc they are all platforms heavily promoting the "right think" and banning anyone gender critical. It doesn't help that academia and politics is heavily infected with gender ideology.

It's a huge shame healthy young women are caught up in it all, but please always remember the ideology is completely unsustainable because it's built on lies.

You may have lost a few cousins but they may well end up being lighthouses for future victims.

Sorry, I meant it's not social contagion within my family - it's not as if all 3 of them have got together around the Christmas lunch table to discuss gender ideology.

I think you're absolutely right that it's probably social contagion from broader society. The TRA has been to an extremely 'progressive' (for which read: 'cares about everyone's rights, except women's) university. Scarily, she is now a science teacher 😬

I'm sad for her though, as she is a lovely, well-meaning young woman who could be doing so much good in the world, if she hadn't been taken in by this crazy ideology, which is teaching her to put her own needs last.

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Linguini · 20/12/2021 21:38

You say it's not social contagion but so much of young adults lives are online nowadays.
Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc they are all platforms heavily promoting the "right think" and banning anyone gender critical.
It doesn't help that academia and politics is heavily infected with gender ideology.

It's a huge shame healthy young women are caught up in it all, but please always remember the ideology is completely unsustainable because it's built on lies.

You may have lost a few cousins but they may well end up being lighthouses for future victims.