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Choreographer Rosie Kay forced to resign from her own company

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peonyred · 09/12/2021 08:10

This is a share token so you can read the story. Another Janice Turner article. Simone suggested Crowdfunding for her new company.

Rosie Kay: I resigned from my own dance company after I was accused of transphobia

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/3935bc4a-5858-11ec-a3f7-65d2d47c7fea?shareToken=d4efe0ddb11ede84d52835a0a02d70e3

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KaycePollard · 09/12/2021 22:25

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AssassinatedBeauty · 09/12/2021 22:24

@AskingQuestionsAllTheTime this Baby John Musamba is a woman with MRKH syndrome. It sounds like her diagnosis has been poorly understood by herself and those around her, and those reporting on it. This is most definitely not a case of someone who is neither male or female. And it is nothing to do with transgenderism or gender ideology.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/12/2021 22:16

I find the conflation of non binary gender identity with DSDs concerning, as I've seen some TRAs make. It muddies the already murky waters.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 09/12/2021 22:14

foxgoosefinch
But the idea that we quite literally have to pretend they are not actually male or female is insane.

I caught most of an interesting programme on the World Service the other day in which a child called "Baby John Musamba" was described as literally having no developed genitals. Brought up as a girl because it was simply easier, she came out as unusual when she was twenty-six.

A rare case of someone who really was neither one nor the other.

I definitely wouldn't believe it to be the case when two people out of nine claim it, though! Not unless it were some situation in which the unsexed had been actively recruited.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/12/2021 22:09

What is it that they want? NB people aren't for the most part - if ever - people with DSDs. We all know there aren't any genderless third sex or unsexed aliens that they "really" are. But the idea that we quite literally have to pretend they are not actually male or female is insane. It's batshit territory. No trustee board or public body or institution or legal framework should have to pretend otherwise.

I once had an argument with someone on another site who said because they were NB they didn't have a sex and therefore had no legal rights at all, they were quite serious, not trolling Confused

HoardingSamphireSaurus · 09/12/2021 20:49

@aliasundercover it seems pointless not to. Everyone can see where a prize pillock was uncovered.

I had no excuse. I just didn't fully engage brain Shock

KaycePollard · 09/12/2021 20:02

She referred to "boy jumps" and "girl jumps" which are completely different things in ballet. It is a heavily codified form a dance and a lot of modern productions play around with this but she was not wrong to refer to them as such.

And when I was training, we leaned the male ballet repertoire of steps - a lot of them aren't too different from female steps, and we all do much the same in class - but men have different musculature & strength, and can jump higher, and stay up longer, so they can do more with all the big jumps. Women can do them, but they look different.

KaycePollard · 09/12/2021 19:54

She's an extraordinary choreographer. This is utterly utterly appalling. I've dug in her garden.

I hope the publicity in The Times helps, and also peaks more people. To lose one's job, after stating a biological fact in one's own home is really scary.

BoredZelda · 09/12/2021 19:33

The wording of the article does lead you to the word 'lazy' on multiple fronts doesn't it?

Yes, it would be good to read an article that is less leading on multiple fronts.

BoreOfWhabylon · 09/12/2021 18:57

5 soldiers

m.youtube.com/watch?v=2urN4ESejFo

aliasundercover · 09/12/2021 18:54

@HoardingSamphireSaurus

Id like to say that I consider somebody realising and admitting that they have made an error is one of the best signs they have a rational mind.

foxgoosefinch · 09/12/2021 18:54

It makes the mind boggle, this "non-binary" thing -- I assume it started as a way of signalling a kind of performative androgyny and challenge gender roles, but some young people seem to actually genuinely have come to believe that they really are some kind of indeterminate material being, and that the truth we all know (which is that the "non-binary" person is a young person who is either male or female but playing around with gender roles), we're not "allowed" to articulate.

What is it that they want? NB people aren't for the most part - if ever - people with DSDs. We all know there aren't any genderless third sex or unsexed aliens that they "really" are. But the idea that we quite literally have to pretend they are not actually male or female is insane. It's batshit territory. No trustee board or public body or institution or legal framework should have to pretend otherwise.

Whatsnewpussyhat · 09/12/2021 18:47

Funny how the non binaries new exactly which parts to audition for based on their sex...

Kay asked them to define non-binary. At that she says several male dancers shouted that she was a bigot and a terf

Funny how it was the male dancers who shouted her down and called her a bigot and a terf in her own home because that's what they have to do when a woman disagrees and when they have absolutely no reasonable, coherent and logical answer to her question. Deflect, acuse and silence.

What happened to the days when those who were young and inexperienced would grab an opportunity to work with someone like this and get their face known and make the most of it.

Their own cognitive dissonance makes them want to destroy those in their way. They simply cannot cope with anyone who won't agree with them.

senua · 09/12/2021 18:01

That YouTube is hilarious.Grin

HoardingSamphireSaurus · 09/12/2021 17:34

Oh! I stayed on my high horse for a jump too far Smile Blush

HoardingSamphireSaurus · 09/12/2021 17:34

@KittenKong

When they cry that we can’t say boy, girl, male, female. woman or man (or more likely can’t say girl or woman) you know we aren’t dealing with rational people here.
Are you saying that my posts about human physiology are not rational?

That removing sex based terminology will have no effect on any aspect of our lives? Because that is what was being objected to. Boy steps and girls steps being a bit Confused

Ooh, do edumacate me. I is all ears!

AlfonsoTheUnrepentant · 09/12/2021 17:31

@KittenKong

When they cry that we can’t say boy, girl, male, female. woman or man (or more likely can’t say girl or woman) you know we aren’t dealing with rational people here.
Precisely. This is why I don't engage with them. It only wastes my time.
HoardingSamphireSaurus · 09/12/2021 17:31

@KeflavikAirport

Surely girl steps and boy steps refers to the characters being danced not the bodies of the dancers?
And in ballet the difference is?

It was a reference to them being asked to do some warm up moves. The 'hims' to do the steps that only 'hims' do and the 'hers' to do the steps only 'hers' do as they tend to be the steps that stretch the performer and aren't done as an ensemble becasue they are sex based, discrete to each sex, able to be done mostly/best by each sex having been designed that way by some ballet genius with good knowledge of dance physiology many years ago.

Basically she was telling them to make some room and finish warning up!

KittenKong · 09/12/2021 17:29

When they cry that we can’t say boy, girl, male, female. woman or man (or more likely can’t say girl or woman) you know we aren’t dealing with rational people here.

Shedmistress · 09/12/2021 17:28

Surely girl steps and boy steps refers to the characters being danced not the bodies of the dancers?

I know, right?

KittenKong · 09/12/2021 17:27

Boy steps and girl steps you say?

m.youtube.com/watch?v=tlETXxmso3Q

KeflavikAirport · 09/12/2021 17:26

Surely girl steps and boy steps refers to the characters being danced not the bodies of the dancers?

HoardingSamphireSaurus · 09/12/2021 17:10

Oooh! Last word hey!?!

Come on. Just discuss what you actually meant and we can see if it has been a misunderstanding or not.

Shedmistress · 09/12/2021 16:54

@IntermittentParps

This is not a hill I'm interested in dying on.

My posts make abundantly clear that I support Kay and find the dancers' behaviour and the board's response egregious and wrong. The thing about terminology was just a tiny point.

They were performing Romeo and Juliet.

Penis steps and Vagina steps?

Now if there was only a word to describe those performing the penis parts and one for the vagina parts, to make it quicker to explain who she was talking to...what would those words be???

IntermittentParps · 09/12/2021 16:53

boy jumps and girl jumps was all I was talking about. At no point have I said anything about no men, women, boys or girls.
That's the last I'll say about this.