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Not sure of my purpose in posting - just my head is spinning!

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LilithRises · 21/11/2021 20:00

I'm feeling really upset, angry and horrified. I've only recently been following the cases of Angela Bailey, Kathleen Stock, Keira Bell etc (i've came to the debate late). I feel like scales have slipped from my eyes and the antics of SW have shocked me profoundly. I've been reading about the harm and risks involved in medical transitioning and how there seems to be a psychic contagion (amongst vulnerable girls with various complex issues) to transition and that terrible harm is being done. I've learnt that Stonewall have redefined the concept of homosexuality to same gender rather than same sex attraction. I feel like i've fallen down a mad rabbit-hole. I cant get my head around it.

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Phobiaphobic · 23/11/2021 00:14

Can't resist posting this classic.

Not sure of my purpose in posting - just my head is spinning!
Phobiaphobic · 23/11/2021 00:12

Welcome, Lilith. We've all been where you are now.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 22/11/2021 23:19

There's a reason proponents of this ideology target children in schools so relentlessly. The Observer newspaper leader (Dec 2020) commented:
Any questioning of the gender-affirming model – and the role that trauma, internalised hostility to same-sex attraction or misleading online material may play in gender dysphoria in teenagers – is dismissed as transphobic. This is a chilling state of affairs that is detrimental to child safety....Children are not pawns to be deployed in adult debates about identity .

DoubleTweenQueen · 22/11/2021 23:08

@Waitwhat23

Ah, I see the Misognistic Monitors have been by - they are not very fond of the word rhyming with skulk you used in a pp (as accurate as it might be) *@DoubleTweenQueen*.
Yes. Noted.

Not an attractive move.

DoubleTweenQueen · 22/11/2021 23:02

@MrsOvertonsWindow

Some of the information and ideas of ‘resources’ provided in schools, as described and shown on the Safe Schools Alliance site, has resonance with our situation.

I feel physically sick and am shaking.

Have copied a lot of the guidance notes and factsheets though, as well as our school’s compaints procedure.

Leafstamp · 22/11/2021 22:55

I don’t understand the problem with the word cult, given that one meaning is as follows:

a person or thing that is popular or fashionable among a particular group or section of society.

Waitwhat23 · 22/11/2021 22:37

Ah, I see the Misognistic Monitors have been by - they are not very fond of the word rhyming with skulk you used in a pp (as accurate as it might be) @DoubleTweenQueen.

DoubleTweenQueen · 22/11/2021 22:23

@MrsOvertonsWindow Thankyou -will look up

MrsOvertonsWindow · 22/11/2021 22:12

@DoubleTweenQueen I've just posted some resources for you on the other thread you posted on.

DoubleTweenQueen · 22/11/2021 22:05

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DoubleTweenQueen · 22/11/2021 22:03

Popping in to say hi and place mark.

Have been brought into the light with a jolt, the last two weeks.

Leafstamp · 22/11/2021 21:50

Article re GG leader

4w.pub/trans-identified-male-now-a-senior-leader-at-girl-guides-uk/

KittenKong · 22/11/2021 17:11

I don’t know if anyone here has any contacts in GG but there have been some rather unpleasant /tasteless retweets from the new GG personage, alongside an explanation of their nickname, which is most unladylike...

Come on GG... or are they just trying really hard to get away from the ‘middle age, white, frumpy, out of touch, church attending woman’ image type?

LilithRises · 22/11/2021 15:45

Thanks everyone for taking time to comment and post - i've been taking note of all the suggestions and words of advice (especially around MH). It does seem like a global mass psychosis - the double speak, erasure of words, redefinition of language is like a scene out of 1984. I think George Orwell would himself be terrified!

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HereticFanjo · 22/11/2021 14:35

It's horrible but you're not alone Flowers The wheels will eventually come off the bus. It all starts with people opening their eyes as you have done.

KittenKong · 22/11/2021 14:27

[quote Theeyeballsinthesky]Found it! twitter.com/sian_j67/status/1462647151884910593?s=21[/quote]
But offering to show your boobs??? Of I was in that position and made the same offer, I’d be out the door faster than you could say ‘oh dear god, NO!’

WarriorN · 22/11/2021 14:24

@TalkingtoLangClegintheDark

Oh... yes.. the GG divisional leader who has tweeted previously offering to show people more of their new breasts....

Holy shit.

Yes I've just had the pleasure of finding out about that one.

WarriorN · 22/11/2021 14:23

In 3 years you too will be admin of the local Facebook feminist group, and sending weekly emails to various MPs!

WarriorN · 22/11/2021 14:22

Welcome and 💐.

It is quite a shock.

I used to use the analogy of the matrix where the lead character suddenly sees the world for what it is.

Except both the writers(? Directors?) of the trilogy are now transwomen.

There is a level of shock and processing to go through which is very disheartening. What's amazingly heartening is that, just as in the past, women at grassroots everywhere are organising and sharing info online here, and elsewhere as well as behind the scenes, daily, to tackle this.

TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 22/11/2021 14:18

It was heinous the way that was done in Ireland, CreepingDeath. There wasn’t even the chance to spread awareness or organise at all before it was a done deal. And tacked onto the gay marriage vote - all straight out of the Dentons playbook. I’m so angry on your behalf.

CriticalCondition · 22/11/2021 14:16

I just tried that sentence with the word 'woman' instead of 'person'.

'How can GG think that a woman who tweets about her bra size, posts a close-up photo of herself with straining shirt buttons saying she needs some bigger tops and, as a PP said, posts a picture of her cleavage with 'boobs - do you want to see more?' be considered a good role model for girls? '

It's interesting isn't it? Because I'm pretty willing to bet that there aren't many Guide leading women in their mid 50s with Guide Leader in their twitter profile doing that. And if they did, a pretty dim view, quite rightly, would be taken of it.

I'm sorry OP. It's a long haul. I've seen some real shifts over the last few months as more people wake up and this can be openly challenged. But this stuff was getting baked into policies under the radar for years and it will take years to unpick.

CreepingDeath · 22/11/2021 13:56

I know how you feel OP, it's like pulling back the curtain to something pretty horrendous. Once you see you can't unsee and all that. I also need to take a break sometimes, but always come back because this is too important to ignore.

The most infuriating thing is the complete absense of logic and common sense in previously sensible and educated people. WHY oh why is everyone just going along with this? It's not kind or progressive, its nuts! As Posie Parker said before, I used to think you had to be smart to be a politician - apparently not!

I look back on posts on here from 2015/2016 from wonderful women on here who were sounding the alarm, and I'm ashamed that I had no idea what was going on!

I'm in Ireland, where Self ID is the law, and has been since 2015, most people don't even know that! It was brought in by stealth by a cowardly government.I voted in the same sex marriage referendum around that time, and I had no idea this legislation was being snuck in through the back door. I'm so angry that we weren't consulted on this.

CreepingDeath · 22/11/2021 13:50

pollywollydoodler

It appears to be confirmed here, as per a previous poster.

twitter.com/sian_j67/status/1462647151884910593?s=21

TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 22/11/2021 13:47

I never in my life thought I would live through something so out there as what is going on now.

Me neither, Fariha.

Or that I would see this kind of “progressive” authoritarianism take hold in the UK.

TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 22/11/2021 13:40

Oh... yes.. the GG divisional leader who has tweeted previously offering to show people more of their new breasts....

Holy shit.