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‘Gender assigned at birth’

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DraintheBlood · 22/10/2021 10:25

What’s the evidence base for this?

When school claim it’s from the NHS website then what do I counter that with so they comply with the ‘medically factual information and evidence base’ that the d of e updated guidance insists on?

I’ve sent ssa & tt links. Everything else is fixed but this is bs. It’s only something that’s addressed if other kids bring it up, but even then I think it matters that this is clear and in line with guidance and don’t want brushed of with passing the responsibility onto nhs website as if that’s enough.

Help please.

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BloodinGutters · 31/10/2021 13:23

So went through all this again & sent follow up email. Am more angry than I thought as it is worse than I thought at first glance, breeches the guidance in more ways than I had realised previously.

At the moment, if the response isn’t satisfactory, I def feel like we will put in formal grievance copying ofsted.

From what I read on gov site it says ofsted have updated their criteria for assessing schools to take into account the updated d of e guidance, but I also can’t find the details of how this changes how they assess schools. Does anyone know/have a link?

KittenKong · 23/10/2021 17:09

How exactly is gender assigned at anything?

“Oh Mrs Smith, it’s a beautiful baby girl! Oh - and she loves pink, sparkles and.... my little pony! Congratulations!”

nocoolnamesleft · 22/10/2021 18:35

This really winds me up. I've done hundreds of baby checks. I've taught scores of junior doctors how to do baby checks. Assigning a gender is a pile of made up rubbish by people who don't have a clue what we do.

Alcemeg · 22/10/2021 17:52

Now that I am home! and not talking shit on a motorway.

This is quite a useful article, but I don't know if it will help you?

www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/232363

ErrolTheDragon · 22/10/2021 16:51

Sorry if it's on here and I've missed it - does anyone have a link to the DofE guidance please?

ANewCreation · 22/10/2021 15:59

I think you get them to see the issues by continuing to ask for a written response to questions, particularly the tough ones like:

What is the precise definition of 'gender' you will be teaching my child?

How is 'gender' different to sex stereotypes, which have traditionally disadvantaged women and girls - and how will you make this distinction clear to children in Y5/6?

Why are you using this inaccurate word 'assigned' - co-opted from people with DSDs - when we know sex is determined at conception, discernible in the womb and observed and recorded at birth?

Not all people have something called a sexed soul or 'gender identity'. I don't, for example. How will you be making sure that children are aware that they don't have to subscribe to this particular belief system?

It is well documented that social contagion has been a significant factor in the spread of many self-harming behaviours such as anorexia, cutting, suicide etc. How are you planning to protect children in the class from potential iatrogenic harm when introducing the topic of gender dysphoria?
gdworkinggroup.org/2019/09/13/is-gender-dysphoria-socially-contagious/

If a girl in y5 or 6 is starting to think that she may be same sex attracted, would you consider her to be 'transphobic' if she stated that therefore she would not be attracted to boys who identify as girls?

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 22/10/2021 15:24

How would you get them to think minefield? How would you walk them through it?

That they are using language that was specifically aimed at gender reassignment and if they use it outside that context they could be (reasonably accused of) messing up children's essential sex education?

Cailleach1 · 22/10/2021 14:57

Could the NHS answer a FOI as to how they assign a gender ot the birth of a baby?

If they state that this is what they do, it would be interesting what criteria are used, or if it is arbitrary based on number for that day?

DraintheBlood · 22/10/2021 14:54

The d of e updated guidance is rather redundant if schools can ignore it by saying ‘but nhs say…’

I guess maybe that’s useful to learn while my kids are in primary before we tackle arguing with secondaries though.

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DraintheBlood · 22/10/2021 14:53

How would you get them to think minefield? How would you walk them through it?

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ANewCreation · 22/10/2021 14:10

'Oh what a tangled web we weave/When first we practice to deceive'

You may not find the magic bullet quote, Drain and instead have to walk the school through the process of how we got to this point. Maybe the best you can do is to get the school to think 'minefield' rather than waltzing into it unthinkingly.

According to the style guide sultana posted, the NHS website makes a special concession when talking about 'sex' to an audience who is looking for information about gender identity and dysphoria, that it will not use elsewhere, eg when talking about sex-specific cancers.

Why they make this linguistic concession and who encouraged them to make it would be very interesting to discover. I would put good money on it being GIRES and/or Stonewall because it is definitely not medical or scientific or actual reality based thinking. I wonder if it is FOIable?

It uses activist language like 'assigned' to appease a group which has not only tried to rewrite the meanings of 'male', 'female', 'men' and 'women', the most fundamental building blocks of society, but also co-opted the language of the intersex community to do so.

"We use the phrase "sex assigned at birth" when we're talking about trans health and gender dysphoria, as this is the language our audience uses.

It reminds me very much of Helen Joyce saying about gender ideology trying to make 0=1 and people not seeing the potential knock on consequences if they give ground in just one area. It's the 'genderist tail wagging the medical dog' territory.

In other cases, we use "the sex someone was registered with at birth" because user research shows that most people understand this better as it refers to an actual event.

I feel your frustration because when my oldest suddenly began to identify as trans a few years ago, they pointed to the NHS page on gender dysphoria, then with assertions such as puberty blockers being reversible, as if it were gospel truth.

A family member is a psychiatrist so was able to challenge it from a medical and scientific point of view but they have found their Royal College to be equally captured, using the activist language and pathologically resistant to change.

I just think it makes the RCPsych look really scientifically dim when they talk in their position statement about being 'assigned' anything at birth.

If it is hard for adults to get to grips with, what chance 10 year olds...

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 22/10/2021 13:44

I need an air tight argument to prove this to school because they’ve said it’s from the nhs website as if that ensures it’s medically factual, and therefore complies with the d of e guidance

There might not be an airtight argument. You could say that it comes from NHS guidance that's specifically about gender reassignment and not about sex or gender in general, so they're using it out of context? And using it out of context could cause confusion / misunderstanding / offence?

And it's not just the risk of children wanting to transition. This might not apply at primary school but sex education needs to be about sex and the message that gender matters more than sex puts girls at risk. Who wants young people to believe that if they both identify as women they don't need contraception at all, or for a young girl to be having sex with a male-bodied but female-identified partner who finds it too upsetting to use condoms because condoms are for men?

So either everyone accepts that men and women, male and female, normally refers to sex not gender, or else educators need to do to men what's already been done to women/girls and stop talking about men/boys altogether in favour of people with penises - "people with penises need to put something on the end of it" (ahem , Jezza moment). I know which I'd choose but maybe it's too late and the gender genie can't go back in the bottle.

DraintheBlood · 22/10/2021 13:24

@sultanasofa

The following sentence from the NHS style guide is worthy of note: 'We use the phrase "sex assigned at birth" when we're talking about trans health and gender dysphoria' because it is clear that only when talking to a trans audience about trans health do they recommend using this language. It suggests that when talking about the general population, this language should not be used.

I don't know in what context the school are using 'gender assigned at birth', but unless it is being used in the context of talking about the trans population, I would suggest this is not in line with the NHS style guide.

It’s in their definition of transgender, so is about transgender people, but it’s a primary school so teaching to all pupils, none of whom are trans. Because why would 10 year olds believe they are transgender unless school introduces the explanation that they can be assigned boy or girl at birth and that might not be how they identify. Which is teaching kids they can be born in the wrong body surely?
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ArabellaScott · 22/10/2021 13:04

Sex is not ever 'assigned'. That is rubbish.

ArabellaScott · 22/10/2021 13:04

@lazylinguist

Ridiculous and wrong. Doctors do not 'assign gender' at birth. Why would they be considering 'gender' at all? What they observe (not assign) is sex.
I am presuming the idea is that sex is observed and then in a subtle consequence contributed to by family and society, a 'gender' is 'assigned' according to that sex. Meaning that if it's a male then boy will be dressed in blue and stereotypes applied.

There is plenty of evidence that people treat babies differently according to their sex, so there is a kernel of truth in the idea that gender is taught/conditioned/applied from birth. But a baby certainly has no 'gender identity' or concept of gender.

sultanasofa · 22/10/2021 12:59

The following sentence from the NHS style guide is worthy of note:
'We use the phrase "sex assigned at birth" when we're talking about trans health and gender dysphoria'
because it is clear that only when talking to a trans audience about trans health do they recommend using this language. It suggests that when talking about the general population, this language should not be used.

I don't know in what context the school are using 'gender assigned at birth', but unless it is being used in the context of talking about the trans population, I would suggest this is not in line with the NHS style guide.

DraintheBlood · 22/10/2021 12:38

And apologies to all for fucking typos. My children don’t sleep because of their disabilities so neither do I.

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DraintheBlood · 22/10/2021 12:33

@sultanasofa

This is the page you need: service-manual.nhs.uk/content/inclusive-language

Sex

Sex is biological (male or female). It's based not only on the genes we inherit, but also on how our external and internal sex and reproductive organs work and respond to hormones. Sex is the label that's recorded when a baby's birth is registered.

We use "sex" or, better still, the body part associated with biological sex when we're writing about things like screening that is sex specific, for example, breast and cervical screening.

Sex assigned or registered at birth

We use the phrase "sex assigned at birth" when we're talking about trans health and gender dysphoria, as this is the language our audience uses. In other cases, we use "the sex someone was registered with at birth" because user research shows that most people understand this better as it refers to an actual event.

But this is the definition that is out of line with the d of e guidance to teach medical facts that are based on scientific evidence, and not to teach children can be born in the wrong body.

Like pp said nhs have been stonewalled.

And d of e guidance says schools are responsible for checking sources comply with guidance. So school saying nhs= must be medical fact matters not a fuck. Because it still breaches the guidance. And schools must follow the d of e guidance.

So I need help to explain that which will counter their ‘but it’s nhs’ response.

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DraintheBlood · 22/10/2021 12:27

@DraintheBlood

And realistically I don’t have the energy to go down that route either. Although I’ll fucking scrap it up from somewhere if I have to.

I’ll consider it training for addressing this in secondary schools.

The link pp posted is the update I think. I just can’t see where it corrects transgender does not equal identifying with the opposite gender to that assigned at birth.

But ty for your patience with me. I really do appreciate all input, even if I appear oppositional.

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DraintheBlood · 22/10/2021 12:25

And realistically I don’t have the energy to go down that route either. Although I’ll fucking scrap it up from somewhere if I have to.

I’ll consider it training for addressing this in secondary schools.

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Clymene · 22/10/2021 12:23

It's this page @DraintheBlood: www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/pages/introduction.aspx

As @ANewCreation says though, this is an old page written in 2016. It says next review was due 2019.

DraintheBlood · 22/10/2021 12:23

@ANewCreation

If it helps, you will see those NHS pages were published in 2018 at the height of the GRA reform debacle and, particularly in the case of the second one, have long passed their review date. They should be retired.

Keywords like gender (when sex is meant) and 'assigned' always appear to be evidence of "controversial charity's Stonewall’s" lobbying.

This NHS link is more up to date publication wise and replaces an earlier, equally incoherent, genderist 2018 version, although even it now needs some revision due to the Keira Bell decisions.

www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment/

I would be interested to know what the school thinks 'gender' means and push them to define it.

I might say, "Sex refers to our male or female reproductive status and, in UK law under the Equality Act 2010, a woman is described as a female of any age and a man as a male of any age. Sex is determined at conception, can be observed in utero and is recorded at birth.

Deciding whether then to dress that newborn baby in pink or blue can only be one based on sex-based stereotypes around masculinity or femininity ie Gender. Surely Gender/sex-based stereotypes are harmful?

What does the school mean by Gender?

I appreciate the link and will keep a record of it. But I don’t see anything that says transgender does not equal identifying with the opposite gender than assigned at birth. Which is what they claim the nhs site says about definition.

I started off arguing with them by asking for definitions of words used and how they meet the guidance. I don’t think I can keep on that track now they are passing it off to senior lead and saying sorry it’s half term.

I think I need something that clearly explains how the definition they’ve given breeches guidance. I’ve sent ssa & tt links already, while they agree it doesn’t appear to fully click, judging by this definition which breeches guidance. And I expect they think they’d cooperated enough already, as if following the d of e guidance is something they only have to do half way and slip off accountability by passing the buck to the nhs site.

I know they are incredibly busy and go over and above, especially for my kids, are sound irritated to have me at them again. But I just don’t think it’s a hard concept to teach accurate facts about basic biological concepts, as the guidance dictates they should. And I’m loosing patience as I’m sure they are also.

It feels like arguing it’s important to teach 2+2 = 4 accurately or that they shouldn’t be using the language of creationism when teaching evolution. And I have very low tolerance for repeatedly explaining this, it’s not my strong point at all. I can easily tell anyone what I think about gender ideology or safeguarding or schools follow d of e guidance, but I feel like I’m dangerously close to screaming that it’s not fucking rocket science and to stop being so fucking dense.

Which doesn’t help and isn’t fair, because mostly they are great at listening and go over and above.

Hence why I need help to address this without jumping to formal complaints and copying in ofsted. Because I don’t think that’s the best way to handle a school that tries to work with parents, but I don’t know a more effective way to address this when calm, unemotional and patient communication is not my strong point.

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ANewCreation · 22/10/2021 12:17

Yes, the service manual is effectively a style guide. And, just as the BBC's style guide was heavily influenced by Stonewall as we found from the Nolan podcasts, so too is this one activist/'audience' driven.

andyoldlabour · 22/10/2021 12:16

I would say (sorry if it sounds like "mansplaining") that sex is observed either before birth via scan or at birth, and that gender/gender identity is a social construct, decided by a person themself, depending of course, whether they believe in the concept of gender.

sultanasofa · 22/10/2021 12:10

This is the page you need:
service-manual.nhs.uk/content/inclusive-language

Sex

Sex is biological (male or female). It's based not only on the genes we inherit, but also on how our external and internal sex and reproductive organs work and respond to hormones. Sex is the label that's recorded when a baby's birth is registered.

We use "sex" or, better still, the body part associated with biological sex when we're writing about things like screening that is sex specific, for example, breast and cervical screening.

Sex assigned or registered at birth

We use the phrase "sex assigned at birth" when we're talking about trans health and gender dysphoria, as this is the language our audience uses. In other cases, we use "the sex someone was registered with at birth" because user research shows that most people understand this better as it refers to an actual event.

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