@Bouledeneige
Well you know I care deeply about feminism and being clear about the science of what a woman is. Forgive me if I'm the only person who feels uneasy with the Conservative party as my feminism ally. (I guess for me history is hard to erase). Labour, the Libdems and the Greens have failed me. I'm on the ticket for one very, fundamental issue, but I'd rather die than be on the side of BJ for 10 million big ticket issues.
It’s the concept of an ally that I, and I think others by the looks of it, have a problem with.
It’s all very high school. Not liking someone because your bestie doesn’t like them or vice versa. It’s part of the thinking that got us in this mess in the first place; that stonewall are the good guys and no one can say anything against them and they’ve been able to be above reproach while garnering public funds to push their one and only issue. But no one can say that because stonewall are the good guys, which must make anyone opposing anything they say be the bad guys, and round we go.
If it wasn’t abhorrent to hold a variety of differing views that all match with a variety of different political parties and views, and to all be free to challenge any party on views, then it would have been much more possible to call this out for what it was much earlier.
It’s obnoxious to suggest we all forget history also. I have disabled children. That Tory policies made the uk the first ever country to violate the UN’s convention on the rights of people with disabilities is deeply personal to me. That DC then increased his cuts to spending that continued to disproportionately impact disabled people and there’s been no Tory acknowledgment is beyond enraging and upsetting.
But I could say the same about the Tony Blair sending us into an illegal war.
We have to deal with here and now. I think in some ways I have it easy as I’m in a very safe Tory seat so I can stick to spoiling my ballot and keep my integrity (unless any candidate will publicly state they’ll go against their parties line when I ask them). But I have daughters so if I needed to vote Tory to keep self id out and keep free speech, without which none of us have any rights, I would.