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Really fucking annoyed by another entitled man

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Justreallyannoyed · 20/10/2021 20:25

I’m a midwife. I answered the phone in a busy clinic today to an irate man. Apparently he’s applied online to volunteer in the maternity department and NOT HEARD ANYTHING. It’s NOT GOOD ENOUGH. He’s phoned THREE TIMES and no one is getting back to him. I explained that we don’t deal with volunteers ourselves and all the placements are dealt with by the volunteer office. This was OUTRAGEOUS apparently and he’s been passed FROM PILLAR TO POST and he just wants to know when he can come in to the Maternity Department and start volunteering!

I gave him the number of the volunteer office but I stupidly didn’t get his name. He was horrible and rude and our current volunteering vacancies are on the postnatal ward. What kind of man muscles his way in to the postnatal ward???? Especially when he has no expertise or experience to offer at all. The hall of him being furious because we aren’t being quick enough at facilitating his unfettered access to postnatal women and babies…..

Anyway I actually got a horrible creeped out feeling from him so I am going to call the volunteer office tomorrow and discuss. But just another entitled man throwing his weight around. Yuck.

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Iflyaway · 20/10/2021 20:28

Yea, utterly creepy OP as well as entitled. Ugh.

That'll be a no from the volunteer office then.... I hope!

The thought of someone like that being around post-partum women.... just no.

aquamarine1 · 20/10/2021 20:28

Disgusting. This honestly made my blood run cold. Hope he gets nowhere near a mat ward.

Justreallyannoyed · 20/10/2021 20:26

Gall of him, sorry, not hall

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