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How do people think you can change sex?

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CuriousBogInTheNight · 15/10/2021 17:11

I've obviy not followed closely enough but genuinely how has it become controversial to say you cannot change sex?! Sex is encoded from the moment of conception... Are people thick or have they tried to change the meaning of the word sex?

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TheReluctantPhoenix · 18/10/2021 11:31

@AlfonsoTheDinosaur and @ErrolTheDragon..

I think that the reverse is true of this board; anyone who suggests (with evidence) that elements of gendered behaviour are innate is roundly pooh-poohed and the evidence is not even properly evaluated.

I find neonate studies the most compelling as it is hard to assert that there is a societal bias in a baby who is a few days old (although people have tried).

I said, very carefully, above, that this is still an ongoing area of research, and the science is still open. I feel that I have far less bias here than most.

See two interesting studies below (yes, the first is on macaques, but it is far easier to control variables ethically with non-human subjects, and there is little reason to suppose that humans would be dramatically different in this area).

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4726418/

www.math.kth.se/matstat/gru/5b1501/F/sex.pdf

TableFlowerss · 18/10/2021 11:25

@RVN123

I think if someone sees transphobia on this thread then they should report it immediately, but every post I've read is talking about science based biological FACTS. I understand some people don't want to accept that due to their gender belief system, but the great thing about science is that it's provable and able to be demonstrated. Science will not be rewritten to appease the feelings of the minority I'm afraid. It must be quite upsetting to realise that no matter what name you give something or how many times you repeat something, it does not change the established laws of physiology, anatomy, genetics, chromosomes, biology, sex and evolution.

Sex changes are impossible and the surgery attempted to 'change' the outward genitalia is brutal, rudimentary and barbaric.
Although some posters will call it a 'penis', a surgically created 'penis' is little more than a tube of flesh ,and skin usually taken off the forearm (leaving a huge scar and often motor and functional problems with the arm and hand), and fashioned into a tube which is then stitched onto the groin of the patient. Sometimes it is 'shaped' at the end to represent a glans. In a second surgery a rod is inserted, or an artificial chamber which can be inflated with saline, pumped up from the 'scrotum' where a small sac is located filled with fluid, to allow the tube to become more rigid to allow for penetrative sex. It is 'pumped' up manually by squeezing the 'scrotum' like a pump allowing the saline to flow into the chamber. It can be let down after intercourse. The urethra is elongated using donor tissue from another site to allow it to be stretched down the 'tube' so that urination can take place from the 'tube'. The problems are numerous. Infection, tissue breakdown, sepsis, urinary incontinence, persistent UTIs, urine spraying out in all directions due to poor placement of the new urethra. Scarring of the urethra meaning that urination has to take place by inserting a catheter. Not to mention that the cosmetic results are poor at best. Obviously, it comes at a cost of sexual function and pleasure. Some surgeries try to preserve the original clitoris to allow for sensation, but this does not always work and so the patient faces a life of no orgasm ever again. 'Erections' are manually achieved through the pump. It's NOT a functioning organ. It's NOT a penis. The scrotum can contain prosthetic 'testicles' which essentially are silicone balls. Obviously they are non functional and for appearance only so the patient is infertile.
Male to 'female' surgeries are just as complicated and Frankensteinian. The penis is amputated and the skin inverted into a cavity which is surgically created. Prior to the operation electrolysis is performed to remove hair, but if this is not completely removed, hair can start growing inside the new cavity. Again, sexual pleasure may be taken away forever due to amputation of most of the glans and nerve endings in the penis. The testicles are removed and the scrotal skin used to create 'labia'. The resultant surgically created 'hole' has no lubrication and will close up and scar together if not manually dilated with surgical dilators for the rest of the patients life. It is often a poor depth (depending on the original penile length). Complications include, as above, sepsis/infection, loss of function sexually, urinary incontinence. Obviously there are no ovaries or uterus so the patient is infertile and unable to bear children, experience menstruation or childbirth. There is sometimes glans tissue fashioned into a rudimentary 'clitoris' but this does not guarantee sexual pleasure. It's NOT a vagina. It's a surgical wound that must be manually maintained.

The operations are irreversible for the most part (especially if an ovariohysterectomy has also been performed in TM).

They are brutal.
They are cosmetic only (although even that is debatable given the appearance of some).
They are rife with complications.
They cost a fortune.

And they still don't create vaginas or penises. Rudimentary facsimilies at best.

People will disagree with your post (a minority of course) but it doesn’t make it any less true.

Everything you say, is based on fact. Very informative post.

ErrolTheDragon · 18/10/2021 11:17

@AlfonsoTheDinosaur

What makes for a "most compelling stud[y]"? It sounds like confirmation bias.
Or cherry picked.... the field is notorious for not reporting the bulk of studies which show no significant differences.
REDHERO · 18/10/2021 11:12

You cannot change sex.

AlfonsoTheDinosaur · 18/10/2021 11:05

What makes for a "most compelling stud[y]"? It sounds like confirmation bias.

Motorina · 18/10/2021 08:44

@TheReluctantPhoenix you said: The most compelling studies that evidence an innate element for gendered behaviour are functional imaging of brain activity in neonates.

I would be really interested in reading this research. Please can you either link to it or give references?

Thankyou!

lazylinguist · 18/10/2021 08:08

So, it is fine for you to offend whom you please, but I should not make a scientific argument because you find it ‘regressive and offensive’. I see.

Confused I didn't say you couldn't make arguments you believe to be scientific. Feel free. I am not harmed by hearing or reading views which I disagree with, or which I consider regressive or offensive.

I still think there is a big difference between saying 'Certain aspects of traditional gendered behaviours (which far from everyone of that sex actually displays) may be influenced by biological sex' and 'Performing traditional gender behaviours of the opposite sex makes you that sex'. I mean, the latter is quite patently not true, since there are gazillions of people who do lots of things or have lots of preferences more associated with the opposite sex but who are not trans.

334bu · 18/10/2021 08:03

using ‘science’ to ‘prove’ you cannot make a penis or vagina is not a strong argument, unless you believe that breast enlargement surgery is also a myth (a bag of silicone is not breast tissue) and that refashioning a big toe to replace a missing thumb is just having a toe on your hand (would you say that to someone who had undergone that surgery?).

I don't really get the analogy. Are you saying that adding a silicone bag to an area which already contains breast tissue is exactly like completely fabricating a body part? As for the big toe, I doubt very many recipients of such a graft are under any delusion that everyone around them will not notice that there is something different about their hand.

GAHgamel · 18/10/2021 08:00

@TheReluctantPhoenix I didn't say that gendered behaviour was a social construct, I said gender was a social construct. The behaviour may be inate, but the meaning we attach to it depends on the societal context.

TheReluctantPhoenix · 18/10/2021 07:51

@lazylinguist,

So, it is fine for you to offend whom you please, but I should not make a scientific argument because you find it ‘regressive and offensive’. I see.

I think you are really stretching my point (to put it mildly), that some gendered behaviour may be innate, into a desire to unwind years of feminist gains (it would also be somewhat self defeating for me!)

Individuals are individuals and everyone should have equal rights. However, that does not mean that we should not be able to discuss biological reality, regardless of what it tells us.

lazylinguist · 18/10/2021 07:43

There is more nuance here than you want to allow for.

Whether or not any of the various aspects of traditional gender roles are partly influenced biological sex or anything scientific, they still don't apply to anything like all women or all men. So they absolutely cannot be what makes a person a man or a woman. So I don't see how they can in any way forward the TWAW argument.

Feminists have been fighting for generations to dismantle the sexist stereotypes surrounding womanhood. To suggest that performing traditional gender roles is even a part of what makes a woman is frankly regressive, sexist and offensive.

TheReluctantPhoenix · 18/10/2021 07:38

@GAHgamel

The most compelling studies that evidence an innate element for gendered behaviour are functional imaging of brain activity in neonates.

Clearly gendered behaviour is also heavily influenced by environment.

To claim that ALL gendered behaviour is a social construct, though, is way beyond what most neurologists would claim. As I said, this is still not proven one way or the other.

GAHgamel · 18/10/2021 07:29

But gender is socially constructed. Depending on where and when you were brought up, the same behaviours will be considered appropriate for different gender identities. That means that your gender identity cannot be inate, but depends on your understanding of how your inate personality traits fit with the gender parameters of the society you live in.

TheReluctantPhoenix · 18/10/2021 07:23

@Theeyeballsinthesky,

If that is in response to my post, I am struggling to see the relevance.

The nuance is with regard to use of language and bigotry (fairly clearly from my post), not biology.

The truth is not always acceptable, especially if used provocatively (moron and spastic come to mind here, both of which can be scientifically correct, but have gone out of fashion).

Theeyeballsinthesky · 18/10/2021 07:19

There is no nuance in biology - people are either male or female and people with disorders of sexual development are still either male or female not some mysterious third sex

TheReluctantPhoenix · 18/10/2021 07:13

@RVN123,

Although I am a firm believer in sex as a protected characteristic, and that sport, prisons, medical facilities (not so sure about loos and changing rooms) should be sex-segregated, using ‘science’ to ‘prove’ you cannot make a penis or vagina is not a strong argument, unless you believe that breast enlargement surgery is also a myth (a bag of silicone is not breast tissue) and that refashioning a big toe to replace a missing thumb is just having a toe on your hand (would you say that to someone who had undergone that surgery?).

In a science journal, of course we need to define our terms very carefully. In everyday life, we tend to use a lot of euphemistic language which is not scientifically correct. It is the ‘big black bastard’ argument- I can call you that if you are large, black and were born out of wedlock, as it is true.

In addition, the constant denial that gender ‘is a thing’ and the claim that this is science, is way beyond where most unbiased scientists in the field would go. This is still a very open debate, with some scientists arguing that gendered behaviour (‘gender’ for short) is, at least in part, innate and is caused by a combination of chromosomes and hormones present in the uterus. Yes, others disagree, and it does tend to swing with fashion (as hard to prove), but the science is far from clear on this one, either way.

As to what is transphobic and what isn’t, I think of myself and being Jewish. A statement that Jews go disproportionately into some fields (banking, medicine etc) said neutrally is not antisemitic. If someone says ‘Jews control the money’, though, is, regardless of if they subsequently back it up with statistics.

There is more nuance here than you want to allow for.

Staryflight445 · 18/10/2021 07:09

I just saw a comment to a trans women from someone saying surgeries and make up don’t make a women.
The trans women replied that nobody asked, lots of comments saying that surgeries and make up enhance the women already there/ being a women is as simple as identifying as one.

It’s interesting to me because this trans women is clearly very beautiful, and is being called so by many, many jealous of her beauty.

Would people be this supportive and say the same supportive messages if said trans women still looked very masculine?

I only ever see such support on trans posts where it is difficult to see any masculine features.

Staryflight445 · 18/10/2021 07:04

@RVN123 that’s absolutely brutal.

RVN123 · 17/10/2021 23:17

I think if someone sees transphobia on this thread then they should report it immediately, but every post I've read is talking about science based biological FACTS.
I understand some people don't want to accept that due to their gender belief system, but the great thing about science is that it's provable and able to be demonstrated.
Science will not be rewritten to appease the feelings of the minority I'm afraid. It must be quite upsetting to realise that no matter what name you give something or how many times you repeat something, it does not change the established laws of physiology, anatomy, genetics, chromosomes, biology, sex and evolution.

Sex changes are impossible and the surgery attempted to 'change' the outward genitalia is brutal, rudimentary and barbaric.
Although some posters will call it a 'penis', a surgically created 'penis' is little more than a tube of flesh ,and skin usually taken off the forearm (leaving a huge scar and often motor and functional problems with the arm and hand), and fashioned into a tube which is then stitched onto the groin of the patient. Sometimes it is 'shaped' at the end to represent a glans. In a second surgery a rod is inserted, or an artificial chamber which can be inflated with saline, pumped up from the 'scrotum' where a small sac is located filled with fluid, to allow the tube to become more rigid to allow for penetrative sex. It is 'pumped' up manually by squeezing the 'scrotum' like a pump allowing the saline to flow into the chamber. It can be let down after intercourse. The urethra is elongated using donor tissue from another site to allow it to be stretched down the 'tube' so that urination can take place from the 'tube'. The problems are numerous. Infection, tissue breakdown, sepsis, urinary incontinence, persistent UTIs, urine spraying out in all directions due to poor placement of the new urethra. Scarring of the urethra meaning that urination has to take place by inserting a catheter. Not to mention that the cosmetic results are poor at best. Obviously, it comes at a cost of sexual function and pleasure. Some surgeries try to preserve the original clitoris to allow for sensation, but this does not always work and so the patient faces a life of no orgasm ever again. 'Erections' are manually achieved through the pump. It's NOT a functioning organ. It's NOT a penis. The scrotum can contain prosthetic 'testicles' which essentially are silicone balls. Obviously they are non functional and for appearance only so the patient is infertile.
Male to 'female' surgeries are just as complicated and Frankensteinian. The penis is amputated and the skin inverted into a cavity which is surgically created. Prior to the operation electrolysis is performed to remove hair, but if this is not completely removed, hair can start growing inside the new cavity. Again, sexual pleasure may be taken away forever due to amputation of most of the glans and nerve endings in the penis. The testicles are removed and the scrotal skin used to create 'labia'. The resultant surgically created 'hole' has no lubrication and will close up and scar together if not manually dilated with surgical dilators for the rest of the patients life. It is often a poor depth (depending on the original penile length). Complications include, as above, sepsis/infection, loss of function sexually, urinary incontinence. Obviously there are no ovaries or uterus so the patient is infertile and unable to bear children, experience menstruation or childbirth. There is sometimes glans tissue fashioned into a rudimentary 'clitoris' but this does not guarantee sexual pleasure. It's NOT a vagina. It's a surgical wound that must be manually maintained.

The operations are irreversible for the most part (especially if an ovariohysterectomy has also been performed in TM).

They are brutal.
They are cosmetic only (although even that is debatable given the appearance of some).
They are rife with complications.
They cost a fortune.

And they still don't create vaginas or penises. Rudimentary facsimilies at best.

PeriChristmas · 17/10/2021 21:56

@CuriousBogInTheNight

I've obviy not followed closely enough but genuinely how has it become controversial to say you cannot change sex?! Sex is encoded from the moment of conception... Are people thick or have they tried to change the meaning of the word sex?
One big problem is confusing sex with gender op.
EyesOpening · 17/10/2021 20:56

[quote Kosmin]@EyesOpening
I'm assuming it's so they can give informed consent!

But what information is required to make informed consent? Isn't that arguable?
As I said, I would think many would argue that TW should be disclosed, but presumably those who say TWAW would disagree.[/quote]
I'd say that the sex of the person is pretty high up on that list, second only maybe to any sexually transmitted diseases they might have. I think I've seen that it's illegal not to anyway, in the UK, so someone's opinion whether it's relevant or not, is irrelevant.

Kosmin · 17/10/2021 18:17

@LonginesPrime
If the other person genuinely doesn't understand that this information is material to some people (or wilfully ignores the fact that it might be), they likely won't disclose it, so it becomes the responsibility of any man who cares about natal sex to ask beforehand and hope for the truth, I guess.

Exactly. I think there are major deceptions (e.g. undercover police having relationships under false pretences) and minor deceptions (every single little detail which people don't disclose on a one night stand, or early in a relationship). I think most would consider this a major detail, but I don't know where the threshold is, or what would be considered material.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 17/10/2021 18:14

Don't know, @334bu. Presumably there are some crime stats which might enable someone to compare the % age of women attacked with the %age of transwomen and gay men attacked. The vast majority of sex workers would be female, I'd have thought, but I know very little about this area.

334bu · 17/10/2021 18:09

Violence against transwomen is very high in some parts of the world, e.g. Latin America, where there are many trans sex workers.

It is true that most of the transwomen murdered globally are sex workers in Latin America but is there more violence against them than female sex workers? As no comparative figures are ever given, it is difficult to say, whether it is their trans identity which puts them at risk or the fact that anyone working in the sex industry in South America is at risk of violence and death.

LonginesPrime · 17/10/2021 18:07

They would be looking at consent completely the wrong way round. It's for the person giving consent - or not - to decide what is important to them.

Absolutely agree - although the problem with that is that it relies on the honesty and understanding of the other person to disclose that information.

If the other person genuinely doesn't understand that this information is material to some people (or wilfully ignores the fact that it might be), they likely won't disclose it, so it becomes the responsibility of any man who cares about natal sex to ask beforehand and hope for the truth, I guess.

Anyway, that's for men to iron out themselves.