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I made a mistake of going into Lush and trying to buy...

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Underthestairsbears · 14/10/2021 14:18

Something for a guy...!!!

I just popped into my local Lush, they used to have a 'bloke section' so I kept wandering around looking for it...
Of course one of the helpful assistants came over and asked if she could help.
I said "oh I can't find your bloke section "

Poor young woman looked rather pale and launched into her "oh we don't have a men's section. It's all inclusive "
Lovely, so I asked where I might find something that might appeal to a teenage boy.

The only thing she could point me towards was a "beard cream" and I explained he didn't have a beard!

She then dragged another more senior young lady over... who then started on and on about being inclusive and how everything in LUSH us for everyone....it as I tried to escape....!

I tried to see if they had gift sets that might appeal to him....

Ok, it didn't need to be masculine per se but honestly it's like they've eradicated men from LUSH...

I'm not sure if that's the look they were going for...and also isn't it usually the other way round 🙄

Couldn't make head nor tail of it but I didn't escape easily.... literally had to hot foot it out of there quickly to avoid another encounter!

Does anyone else find it's getting harder to shop efficiently for what you want because things have to be so woke...

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Thatsplentyjack · 14/10/2021 15:47

[quote DdraigGoch]Fine for them to not segregate products into "men" and "women" but if asked "what would suit a teenage boy?" they should be able to respond "well this is quite popular at the moment". Giving a customer a lecture on the 'error of thy ways' is not the way to run a business.

To be honest though, for most men soap is soap. You may as well buy a tub of Swarfega.

[/quote] But how would they know what would suit a teenage boy? Surely when you go to lush you have a rough idea of what you're looking for in a product, not just "guy stuff" seems a bit weird. How would they know if he needed products for spots, hair products, dry skin products.
AssassinatedBeauty · 14/10/2021 15:46

@Tilltheend99

The poor kids probably both worked there about two seconds and doubt they will want to stay two seconds more once they realise what the general public is like.
Not cut out for a sales role then if they can't stand the "general public". Also known as customers. The ones with the money that Lush wants to part them from.
wavingwhilstdrowning · 14/10/2021 15:46

And yet when it comes to 'torturing' scantily clad women in the window it is very much women only... how bizarre
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Tilltheend99 · 14/10/2021 15:44

The poor kids probably both worked there about two seconds and doubt they will want to stay two seconds more once they realise what the general public is like.

myheartskippedabeat · 14/10/2021 15:43

@NecessaryScene

The scents in lush appeal to anyone.

Um. Hmm

I can't think of anything worse the whole shop stinks 😷
AssassinatedBeauty · 14/10/2021 15:43

"What would suit a teenage boy" is asking the assistant to tell you what is popular with that demographic at the moment. It's not suggesting that all teenage boys like the same thing. Lots of cosmetics companies do a teen skin range too, so it's also a reasonable question from that point of view.

DameMaureen · 14/10/2021 15:43

@NecessaryScene

The scents in lush appeal to anyone.

Um. Hmm

That smell that floats down the street before your eyes are blinded by the bright colours that give you a UTI just looking at them ?
bringincrazyback · 14/10/2021 15:42

If LUSH are so desperate to be inclusive, maybe they should try being inclusive of people who want to browse in peace and don't want to be followed around the store, grabbed and have things rubbed on them without so much as a by-your-leave. Hmm

I actually love their products, but as someone with mild social anxiety who enjoys browsing but doesn't like to interact with sales staff (apart from asking questions if necessary, and paying) and DEFINITELY doesn't want strangers touching me to try and sell me something, I won't shop instore now. There's almost a cultish feel to the experience sometimes. Surely it must put a lot of people off.

I know I've veered off topic here, but the 'inclusive' claim does make me laugh. I seem to remember a post on here once by someone with autism who found the experience horrible.

MedusasBadHairDay · 14/10/2021 15:42

@Thatsplentyjack

Confused most of the stuff comes in black tubs or brown paper packaging, I mean what different things would they make for guys?
Something that smells of burnt rubber and sweat, they can call it Fragile Masculinity.
EmpressaurusWitchDoesntBurn · 14/10/2021 15:42

@Lovelyricepudding

inclusivity and anti-jkr

So not inclusive then...

Misogyny.
Thatsplentyjack · 14/10/2021 15:41

Confused most of the stuff comes in black tubs or brown paper packaging, I mean what different things would they make for guys?

Taiyo · 14/10/2021 15:37

what would suit a teenage boy?

Because all teenage boys are the same?

I have thick curly hair, so I generally buy their shampoos and conditioners that are aimed at people with thick curly hair. It really doesn't matter whether I have a penis or a vagina.

I think it's a really positive step that they aren't gendering their products anymore.

Tilltheend99 · 14/10/2021 15:37

Just go in the website and look at the product ingredients then go back armed with the knowledge of what you want.

Lovelyricepudding · 14/10/2021 15:37

inclusivity and anti-jkr

So not inclusive then...

NecessaryScene · 14/10/2021 15:35

I got halfway up the shop and my knees gave way. My husband had to hold me up till we got to a bench further down the street. The assault on my senses had almost made me pass out.

I'm not sure if I've ever managed to reach the entrance through the surrounding anti-nasal defence zone. Our local one had the tactical advantage of being in an enclosed mall with less airflow, making breaching the perimeter even more challenging.

I think I might have made it in once, but my recollection is hazy. I'm not doing to do the À la recherche du temps perdu thing to try to find out what memories I've lost. It might be like Total Recall/We Will Remember it for you Wholesale, and it's better off I don't know...

DdraigGoch · 14/10/2021 15:34

Fine for them to not segregate products into "men" and "women" but if asked "what would suit a teenage boy?" they should be able to respond "well this is quite popular at the moment". Giving a customer a lecture on the 'error of thy ways' is not the way to run a business.

To be honest though, for most men soap is soap. You may as well buy a tub of Swarfega.

Lovelyricepudding · 14/10/2021 15:34

My experience of Lush is the overpowering aroma that hits you two streets away. It is bad enough trying to walk past the shop, I dread to imagine how bad it is inside.

Brefugee · 14/10/2021 15:33

I'm with pp - the fact that they used to have (pointlessly) gendered products is neither here nor there. They have seen the light. Halleluja.

reluctantbrit · 14/10/2021 15:31

I find that after smelling two products my nose goes on strike and there is no way I could identify a smell a male person would go for instead of one more florally when I would have to make my way through all their soaps or bath stuff.

Why not just labelling the main component?

earsup · 14/10/2021 15:31

I detest Lush now...the fake smiles and hard sell...its awful....they have few soaps now which i used to sometimes buy...i prefer to buy online or off ebay so i dont have to experience their awful pushy fake staff..yuk !

ErrolTheDragon · 14/10/2021 15:30

@BoredZelda

My issue was being LUSH-splained by two ladies old enough to be my kids who couldn't direct me to a few suitable products without a lecture

You asked and they explained their policy. You don’t agree with it. That’s all that happened.

There was no need for the first assistant to drag over her senior colleague for the purpose of lecturing a potential customer.
HarrisonStickle · 14/10/2021 15:28

@CiaoForDiNiaoSaur

One of the benefits of losing my sense of smell is that I can walk past Lush without feeling ill Grin
I once went into a Lush store because I'd heard so much about them and I wanted to try their products.

I got halfway up the shop and my knees gave way. My husband had to hold me up till we got to a bench further down the street. The assault on my senses had almost made me pass out.

I've avoided them ever since.

BoredZelda · 14/10/2021 15:28

My issue was being LUSH-splained by two ladies old enough to be my kids who couldn't direct me to a few suitable products without a lecture

You asked and they explained their policy. You don’t agree with it. That’s all that happened.

LavenderYellow · 14/10/2021 15:27

@Aderyn21

It's bollocks to pretend though that some scents don't appeal more to one sex than the other - it's why perfumes aren't all marketed as unisex. Lush can pretend this isn't true but the most likely outcome is that the customer will conclude that shopping there is too much like hard work and go somewhere else instead.
Absolutely!
Aderyn21 · 14/10/2021 15:21

It's bollocks to pretend though that some scents don't appeal more to one sex than the other - it's why perfumes aren't all marketed as unisex. Lush can pretend this isn't true but the most likely outcome is that the customer will conclude that shopping there is too much like hard work and go somewhere else instead.

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