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A thought about 'cis'

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Fleek · 14/10/2021 13:36

I was just lying in bed thinking last night and wanted to share what popped into my head with people. I'm sure this has occurred to others (everyone else?) because it's pretty obvious but I haven't seen it written down explicitly anywhere else.

It's about the word 'cis.' Activists are so insistent we use that term ourselves and are labelled that. I've seen women be very articulate about why they hate it and I've nodded along with everything written. All the stuff about how I don't 'identify' as a woman, I am one because of my sexed body, and about how we don't want to be tied to any gender stereotypes that redefine being female as having swishy hair or loving housework or being submissive, etc. etc.

But there is another layer to it. The mantra is transwomen ARE women. If TWAW, then why would this movement want to force a label on us that actually distinguishes us from TW? Surely that's an own goal?

I think actually, it's a way of forcing us into being seen as/taking the position of oppressors. We aren't being branded as 'cis' in order to separate us as just a different type of woman (like the awful way they use 'disabled woman, black woman, trans woman') or just to change the idea of woman into being a gender and not a sex, it's also about firmly telling us we have privilege and are on a higher rung than TW. If we look at oppression Olympics generally, the only way to be a good citizen is to make supplication by publicly labelling your privilege isn't it? Saying 'I'm inadvertently an oppressor but I renounce my sin.' If you are an oppressor it's your job to shut up and sit in the corner. It's your job to hand over your power. You also need punishing, perhaps, if you take this idea to absolute extremes - threatening with violence, assaulting, eliminating, even? Look at Twitter handles. One vocal American actress had on hers for a long while (it might be there still) - 'I punch Nazis'. It's vital we are segregated by this label 'cis' so we can have some of the power we've gained over the last 50 years stripped from us.

It just interested me to think about it.

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DadJoke · 15/10/2021 18:20

@Ereshkigalangcleg

No, because trans men are not women, and they can get pregnant.

Because they are female. In my world an adult human female is a woman. Men don't get pregnant, because they are male. So as I said, thanks for acknowledging their sex.

It's just a shame you can't acknowledge their gender identity. It's ridiculous to say sex isn't real (as some do) but equally ridiculous to say that gender isn't real.
Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/10/2021 18:19

Gender reassignment discrimination is things like trans people being sacked on the grounds they are trans. Trans rights aren't more important than those of other groups in law and competing rights exist between them and other protected groups.

DadJoke · 15/10/2021 18:18

@Ereshkigalangcleg

We were talking about the law. So, no "people saying things" does not establish what the law is.

The law makes clear provision for single sex spaces.

Yes it does, but people with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment are not excluded by default from the space which reflects their gender, except for proportionate and legitimate reasons. We are going round it circles.
Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/10/2021 18:17

To be protected from gender reassignment discrimination

Unless you have a GRC the comparator for an MTF trans person in terms of sex based rights is another male without the PC of gender reassignment. This isn't new information, Dadjoke.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/10/2021 18:15

Yes

No. Gender reassignment is a permanent process, not something that happens a few times a week, like many of the people under the trans umbrella according to controversial organisations like Stonewall.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/10/2021 18:13

We were talking about the law. So, no "people saying things" does not establish what the law is.

The law makes clear provision for single sex spaces.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/10/2021 18:12

No, because trans men are not women, and they can get pregnant.

Because they are female. In my world an adult human female is a woman. Men don't get pregnant, because they are male. So as I said, thanks for acknowledging their sex.

Mymapuddlington · 15/10/2021 18:11

because trans men are not women, and they can get pregnant.

Only women can get pregnant so this makes no sense

AlfonsoTheDinosaur · 15/10/2021 18:09

No, because trans men are not women, and they can get pregnant.

What a load of bollocks. Transmen are women.

ErrolTheDragon · 15/10/2021 18:05

Transmen may not want to be women, yet they are.

Your distortions of language and biology make no coherent sense.

DadJoke · 15/10/2021 17:59

@Ereshkigalangcleg

Obviously, a group for pregnant people

Why should they be exempt, by your logic? "Pregnant people" and cervical cancer sufferers are women, all of them. Thanks for acknowledging that.

No, because trans men are not women, and they can get pregnant.
DadJoke · 15/10/2021 17:56

@PurgatoryOfPotholes

I don't know of any case law which establishes that women's dignity, privacy or safety are undermined by the mere presence of trans individuals.

Case law, eh?

Because some mere women saying it could never be good enough on its own.

There are multiple contexts in which it is known to all except the ideologically blinded that some women will self-exclude, i.e. be driven away, if adult male humans are also there. Refuges, rape counselling services, swimming sessions and so on.

If I want to welcome those women, males must be excluded. I do not need "case law" to prove to me that those women exist. Talking to them myself is quite sufficient for me to be aware of their existence, on account of me not being a raging misogynist.

We were talking about the law. So, no "people saying things" does not establish what the law is.
DadJoke · 15/10/2021 17:55

@Ereshkigalangcleg

(Gender reassignment incorporates all transgender individuals).

No.

Yes.

"In the Equality Act it is known as gender reassignment. All transsexual people share the common characteristic of gender reassignment.

To be protected from gender reassignment discrimination, you do not need to have undergone any specific treatment or surgery to change from your birth sex to your preferred gender. This is because changing your physiological or other gender attributes is a personal process rather than a medical one.

You can be at any stage in the transition process – from proposing to reassign your gender, to undergoing a process to reassign your gender, or having completed it. "

MagpiePi · 15/10/2021 17:54

Who's for a sandwich of bombay duck and prarie oysters between two slices of sweetbread, with a sea cucumber salad on the side?

You can call things whatever you want, it doesn't make them that thing.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/10/2021 17:05
Grin
HoardingSamphireSaurus · 15/10/2021 16:25

I asked my husband about that - he agrees Smile

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 15/10/2021 16:18

The testimony of any female people about their experiences must be independently corroborated by some male people neutral observers.

Artichokeleaves · 15/10/2021 16:16

Because some mere women saying it could never be good enough on its own.

That bit always gets me too.

Females: this is a female only space, it needs to include all females, we wish to set our own boundaries here for our own needs as a sex class.

Males: hmm. We must hold a poll, an inquiry or check research to ascertain the objective validity of your claims and then we will see whether or not we grant you permission for your 'boundaries'.

Females: Thank you for sharing that example of why women need single sex provision: because male people have this massive issue in seeing them as equal and competent humans.

Males: You're not being very ladylike in your stridency about all this which makes us less inclined to listen to and grant your requests.

Females: ffs.......

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/10/2021 15:40

Because some mere women saying it could never be good enough on its own.

There are multiple contexts in which it is known to all except the ideologically blinded that some women will self-exclude, i.e. be driven away, if adult male humans are also there. Refuges, rape counselling services, swimming sessions and so on.

YY. And for the record, plenty of refuges and rape counselling services do provide a different service to males than they do for women, because of the risk of the women they are set up to help self excluding. Lisa Townsend, Surrey PCC made a very moving statement about women in the sector she had spoken to. How dare male people of whatever gender identity presume to speak over them.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 15/10/2021 15:13

I don't know of any case law which establishes that women's dignity, privacy or safety are undermined by the mere presence of trans individuals.

Case law, eh?

Because some mere women saying it could never be good enough on its own.

There are multiple contexts in which it is known to all except the ideologically blinded that some women will self-exclude, i.e. be driven away, if adult male humans are also there. Refuges, rape counselling services, swimming sessions and so on.

If I want to welcome those women, males must be excluded. I do not need "case law" to prove to me that those women exist. Talking to them myself is quite sufficient for me to be aware of their existence, on account of me not being a raging misogynist.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/10/2021 14:56

Obviously, a group for pregnant people

Why should they be exempt, by your logic? "Pregnant people" and cervical cancer sufferers are women, all of them. Thanks for acknowledging that.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/10/2021 14:54

(Gender reassignment incorporates all transgender individuals).

No.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/10/2021 14:54

If you are accessing a service provided for men-only or women-only, the organisation providing it should treat you according to your gender identity. In very restricted circumstances it is lawful for an organisation to provide a different service or to refuse the service to someone who is undergoing, intends to undergo or has undergone gender reassignment"

"Very restricted circumstances" is not part of the law, this is scope creep. They've changed some of their guidance in response to feminist campaigning. They've also acknowledged that males without GRC are all male for the purpose of the protected characteristic of sex. But the fact that they are institutionally captured is well known. Here's to more sunlight in the media, starting with the brilliant Nolan reporting.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/10/2021 14:51

I don't know of any case law which establishes that women's dignity, privacy or safety are undermined by the mere presence of trans individuals.

It has nothing to do with individuals being trans. There is plenty of evidence that women's dignity, privacy and safety are undermined by male individuals. I'm sure there is case law, but even if there isn't, it is the reason we have any single sex spaces at all and clearly provided for in equality law.

DadJoke · 15/10/2021 14:50

The EHRC guidance says:

"If you are accessing a service provided for men-only or women-only, the organisation providing it should treat you according to your gender identity. In very restricted circumstances it is lawful for an organisation to provide a different service or to refuse the service to someone who is undergoing, intends to undergo or has undergone gender reassignment"

(Gender reassignment incorporates all transgender individuals).

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