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Periods don't have a gender

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Keke94LND · 11/10/2021 09:12

This Instagram page that I follow (I have just unfollowed them) that literally has female in their name, and their bio says 'changing the equation, closing the gaps, we're on a mission to connect women around the world and achieve a gender-equal future', thinks it is appropriate on National period day to post something saying 'periods don't have a gender' .. unbelievable... if you can't state that women have periods and are discriminated against because of this fact, how exactly do they think we can have gender equality and close the gaps? Thankfully, although this post got 7k likes, all of the comments are critical, including a few from people with blue ticks. One of the comments I really liked was
'patriarchy: discriminated against women and makes them feel ashamed of having periods.
Modern day feminists: being a woman is a social construct and period has no gender. Meanwhile women around the globe: still exist, still suffer from patriarchy'

Periods don't have a gender
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littlbrowndog · 12/10/2021 22:33

Cis what dadjoke. My eyes rolled back in my head when you just denied my gender. Misgendering me dadjoke

Keke94LND · 12/10/2021 22:30

@DadJoke

Cis women and trans men have periods, so periods don't have a gender.

I would have thought this would unite gc feminists and transgender people.

Well no because 'woman' isn't a gender, 'woman' is a female. Gender is the characteristics of a woman or man that is socially constructed. Periods aren't socially constructed though.
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MoonlightApple · 12/10/2021 14:05

To be fair, periods don’t have a gender. Having periods or not depends on your sex. Your wibble gender identity is irrelevant imo.

OperationDessertStorm · 12/10/2021 07:46

@Eucalyptustrees

Periods don't have a gender. Cushions don't have a wheel. Feet don't have a head. Flowers don't have a carrot.

That's how stupid they sound.

Lol.

And yet while periods don’t have a gender, breasts, hair and eyelashes apparently do.

MimiDaisy11 · 12/10/2021 06:59

I think they deliberately love the muddying of language.

Also who thinks anyone but a female can have periods? Of course they also use the word female interchangeably with woman as despite what they say they don’t care about the distinction between sex and gender.

I also still don’t get why defining people by gender is progressive. It makes no sense. It’s regressive.

PrincessNutella · 12/10/2021 06:50

If you find out you have a period, guess what? You're a girl or a woman.

KittenKong · 11/10/2021 19:56

What women?

You do realise that it’s generally trans women who would get airiated over things like pregnancy and periods don’t you?

DadJoke · 11/10/2021 18:55

Cis women and trans men have periods, so periods don't have a gender.

I would have thought this would unite gc feminists and transgender people.

TheWeeDonkey · 11/10/2021 18:04

@Skysblue

I vote we just erase the word gender, everyone wears what they like / sleeps with whom they want and we get a proper conversation going about sex discrimination and sex-based violence and how utterly crap it is to be female.
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LaetitiaASD · 11/10/2021 17:44

@NecessaryScene

it's time to remember not all people who menstruate are women.

In much the same way as not all multiples of two are even, if you redefine "two" or "even".

But any redefinition that ends up hiding clear truths is clearly counterproductive.

The statement is saying absolutely nothing about material reality, it's just illustrating the brokenness of the definitions.

Words that mean nothing make all statements using them meaningless.

That is really well put.
Disfordarkchocolate · 11/10/2021 17:04

I am now singing Only Women Bleed by Alice Cooper. Not actually about periods but all of the rest of the crap women suffer.

Deliriumoftheendless · 11/10/2021 17:00

Yeah, and tbf I didn't include the description underneath the photo which says 'it's time to remember that not only women menstruate

Which is true, if they’re referring to girls.

But they’re not.

NecessaryScene · 11/10/2021 16:52

Colin Wright skewered this sort of idiocy quite well the other day.

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Thefartingsofaofdenmarkstreet · 11/10/2021 16:51

Holy shit the comments on that post are on fire!!! It's really starting to seem like women have had enough of this shit.

Pterfodactyl · 11/10/2021 16:45

That grey icing makes me uncomfortable. Yuk.

WeeBisom · 11/10/2021 16:28

It’s a strange phrase. Periods themselves don’t have a gender, but they certainly are highly gendered in that the patriarchy has transformed a natural biological occurrence that affects the female sex into a site of gender oppression. So periods are encoded to mean impure, disgusting, etc and have loads of patriarchal invented rituals and language surrounding them (shame, period huts, ritual cleansing, etc). And this has been done to oppress and control women, and to signify that women are different and inferior to men.

Eucalyptustrees · 11/10/2021 15:30

Periods don't have a gender.
Cushions don't have a wheel.
Feet don't have a head.
Flowers don't have a carrot.

That's how stupid they sound.

quiteathome · 11/10/2021 15:23

I have PMT today. This is giving me even more rage.

Tittie · 11/10/2021 15:12

I had a look at their grid and saw this from a few days ago. Given that they were applauding Laurel Hubbard back in August, I wonder if they do, in fact, think that some women should be quiet so that other people can feel comfortable and validated 🤔

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PrincessNutella · 11/10/2021 14:42

It is fucking stupid.

MarshmallowSwede · 11/10/2021 13:56

Meanwhile a girl is being taken out of school for days because she’s on her period.

Meanwhile a woman and girl are confined to their home due to period poverty and lack of funds to buy feminine hygiene products.

A bunch of self absorbed narcissistic people are so full of themselves that something that we all know only women have is being co opted because people want to play make believe.

We don’t understand how severe period poverty is. Not only in poor lands, but in wealthy lands too. There are so many women and girls who cannot find extra money for period products as they can be expensive.

But yes.. as long as we can pretend men can get periods then the world is heading to being a better place.

Funny that the solution to making the world a better place is never about solving the systemic disenfranchisement of women. Wouldn’t it be better to make it so a woman’s menstrual cycle be seen as natura and normal and nothing to be ashamed of. To stop telling women and girls that we are unclean and smelly and that our blood is disgusting. Yes.. it’s blood but it’s a normal part of being a woman. We can’t play pretend dress up and decide not to get w period! For most of our adult life it’s there with us.. but hey ho.. let’s act like it’s optional and anyone can have one.

NewlyGranny · 11/10/2021 13:55

I suggest we all collect examples of booklets and pamphlets like this as they will be valuable collector's items when this fantasy fever has passed through society and become history. Women can boost their paltry state pensions by selling them.

The US is way behind is for once in using sex and gender interchangeably, but the details included make it clear what's intended.

KittenKong · 11/10/2021 13:52

Why do they equate ‘gender equal’ with gender neutral’?

If you merrily ignore sex, then how can you spot equality?

Did our gen feminists drop the current gen feminists on their heads as babies?

MarshmallowSwede · 11/10/2021 13:49

Well since “anyone” can have a period then us ladies can talk about our periods around men without fear of their embarrassment. Before we would all speak in hushed tones so as not to offend.. so now ladies speak away, and feel free to ask the big hairy burly man about how he manages his heavy flow.

Ask him how he managed his flow after giving birth… because since men can also give birth it is perfectly reasonable to talk to a man about childbirth and periods and ask how he managed.

Should I use a heavy pad after giving birth? How did you feel about the placenta coming out sir? Has your period changed at all? Did you experience any spotting while pregnant?can I go back to using my moon cup right away if I’m not sore down there? How long was your period after giving birth sir?

I would love love love to ask an experienced man all about how a period will look after giving birth so I know what to expect. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

Beamur · 11/10/2021 10:22

@NecessaryScene

it's time to remember not all people who menstruate are women.

In much the same way as not all multiples of two are even, if you redefine "two" or "even".

But any redefinition that ends up hiding clear truths is clearly counterproductive.

The statement is saying absolutely nothing about material reality, it's just illustrating the brokenness of the definitions.

Words that mean nothing make all statements using them meaningless.

Good point. We can argue about definitions but fundamentally without clearly understood meanings the message is lost.