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So... if I drink from a mug with a dinosaur on it at work, or have a dinosaur emoji on my status etc etc

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MsFogi · 09/10/2021 20:23

Will that now be a subtle signal to my fellow GC sisters? I do hope so, I can't wait to see lots of dinosaurs being sported by women out and about - anyone complaining about a woman with a dinosaur is simply going to look batshit crazy Grin. (Although just to be clear I do talk about this a lot in rl but not so much at work but generally think that the more women who don't yet speak out about this can see how many others are GC the better and I suspect that the "GC Dinosaur" may just be our Bat Signal")

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Whinge · 10/10/2021 09:46

@midgedude

Does it hurt when people take things off you and change the meaning of things ?
Oh that was brilliant. 😊
Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/10/2021 09:41

Great T Rex posts Purgatory.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/10/2021 09:39

I'll be very disappointed if dinosaurs become a symbol of anyone's personal views. I like dinosaurs but don't share your views and would hate for anyone to assume I do just because I have a dinosaur bag.

Oh dear. I guess you'll have to get over that or get another bag.

rabbitwoman · 10/10/2021 09:38

Design idea:

A purple dinosaur in witches hat. Witches hat can be in red blue green or yellow, depending on if you are in hufflepuff, slytherin, gryffyndor or ravenclaw.

I would like it on a tee shirt. Dinosaur can be talking to Father Ted and a speech bubble coming from its mouth saying 'no thank you!'

Jenala · 10/10/2021 09:36

RainbowCrossing

Just don't wear your bag. It's not like you have to wear your bag is it? Whereas our identities as 'people who wear dinosaur items' are really vital to our sense of wellbeing and MH.

I can't believe someone wouldn't do something as simple as leave their Brontosaurus shopper at home in order to make sure that a vulnerable minority can be their authentic selves. Educate yourself.

Also magnificent.

Jenala · 10/10/2021 09:34

@midgedude

Does it hurt when people take things off you and change the meaning of things ?
Magnificent.
Jeremyspoke · 10/10/2021 09:29

@midgedude

Does it hurt when people take things off you and change the meaning of things ?
Comment of the year, maybe even century Grin
Etinox · 10/10/2021 09:26

@midgedude

Does it hurt when people take things off you and change the meaning of things ?
👊🏽🚺
AlfonsoTheDinosaur · 10/10/2021 09:12

I have just bought a dinosaur mug. Thanks for the idea, witches!

alkanet · 10/10/2021 09:07

Thanks Rainbow. I've just snorted my tea because of that.😂

RainbowCrossing · 10/10/2021 09:02

@Sproutandcrumpet

I'll be very disappointed if dinosaurs become a symbol of anyone's personal views. I like dinosaurs but don't share your views and would hate for anyone to assume I do just because I have a dinosaur bag.
Just don't wear your bag. It's not like you have to wear your bag is it? Whereas our identities as 'people who wear dinosaur items' are really vital to our sense of wellbeing and MH.

I can't believe someone wouldn't do something as simple as leave their Brontosaurus shopper at home in order to make sure that a vulnerable minority can be their authentic selves. Educate yourself.

AngelicInnocent · 10/10/2021 08:50

Hmmm. DD has some Dino jeans. May have to get some myself.

Also better give her a heads up if she's wearing them around uni!

Artichokeleaves · 10/10/2021 08:46

@ItsAllGoingToBeFine

How long until dinosaurs are a recognised hate symbol...
Being a woman of the female type is now a recognised hate symbol, so is wanting equal rights, so really what's the point in worrying? All the 'hate symbols' being added to the increasingly high pile translate as: 'that woman is symbolising a statement that sex exists and she wants equality'.

Yes. I am. Get over it.

Cwenthryth · 10/10/2021 08:43

Well, I like rainbows and dyeing my hair blue and purple, and now some people think I must believe that humans can change sex with feelz thanks to “trans rights” activism co-opting of these things. So, you just have to deal with the fact women are running with the dinosaur thing and just you do you.

I may have ordered some dinosaur jewellery and face masks to wear to FiLiA next week Grin

TheElementsSong · 10/10/2021 08:37

@midgedude

Does it hurt when people take things off you and change the meaning of things ?
Mic drop!
midgedude · 10/10/2021 08:34

Does it hurt when people take things off you and change the meaning of things ?

Sproutandcrumpet · 10/10/2021 08:28

I'll be very disappointed if dinosaurs become a symbol of anyone's personal views. I like dinosaurs but don't share your views and would hate for anyone to assume I do just because I have a dinosaur bag.

NecessaryScene · 10/10/2021 08:11

Is there a more neutral Latin word than Rex

As, I said, I think it is neutral. At least as neutral as "actor".

It comes across as male because (a) English speakers associate it with their male-only word "king", and also use "regina" for "queen". Our use of Latin mirrors our language, and (b) most "reges" in history were male.

Another word for "ruler" is "tyrannus", but we just used that, so it would get a bit silly :)

Etinox · 10/10/2021 08:02

I’ve ordered this arriving Monday to the office where I will performatively open it.

partystress · 10/10/2021 07:59

Is there a more neutral Latin word than Rex? Eg an equivalent to ‘monarch’, or is it just that English has gendered some words and not others and Latin doesn’t line up?

Deliriumoftheendless · 10/10/2021 07:48

Aw, the only Latin names for animals I know are Accelleratii incredibus and Overconfidentii vulgaris.

NecessaryScene · 10/10/2021 07:38

Afaik, no set convention about calling the females regina can develop, because at the time of typing, only one female tyrannosaur has ever been found in good enough condition to confirm her sex. I think we would need lots of known females to see that linguistic change happen.

Not even the way it works anyway, afaik. Gender is not sex, as we're so fond of saying. An animal's name (or a human individual's occupation) can be masculine or feminine, independent of their sex. Both in actual Latin, and biological nomenclature.

Rex/regina is a bit different than just gender though, in that they're a sexed pair. Sort of.

"Rex" is not necessarily "king", it can be "ruler". Whereas "regina" is specifically "queen".

It usually gets translated as "king", idiomatically, so "Herodes rex" -> "King Herod", but to always do so is a kind of sexist assumption.

I sense these sort of things are a bit unstable in male-dominated areas. When there's only one word, there's an urge to make a "female" form with a suffix, to escape the male-default assumption. When there's a pair of such words, there's grumbling and an attempt to recombine them to prove equality. And the pendulum swings. Like "actor/actress"; and I think "rex/regina" is similar, and unlike "king/queen".

AsTreesWalking · 10/10/2021 07:28

I've bought a Tea Rex badge, and got a msg from the seller asking if there was a particular reason, as they were selling so many all of a sudden! (I'm afraid I wimped out of answering , as Etsy is in my actual name...) I'll be looking out for all you dinos !

trollopolis · 10/10/2021 06:55

@ItsAllGoingToBeFine

How long until dinosaurs are a recognised hate symbol...
Never, because no-one will see it as a thing, because it's in common general use already.

Though if it does catch on and if it is associated with bigotry, then the sooner the better

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