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Women must resist arrest by any male police officer and demand the presence of a policewoman

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Turquoise11 · 30/09/2021 10:11

I've never posted on mumsnet before but I'm compelled to after reading reports of the kidnap, rape and murder of Sarah Everard.

Any woman who finds herself in a situation where she faces arrest by a male police officer must resist and obstruct that arrest at all costs. She must not face charges for doing either, since it is potentially dangerous for a woman to be taken away by a male police officer. We can no longer trust the police.

Rather, a woman must be able to demand that a policewoman be present before any arrest takes place. We can no longer assume that there is any rigour in the recruitment process involving male police officers.

Do you think I am being fair? After what happened to Sarah Everard, I think that resisting arrest and insisting a woman be present is essential to women's safety. See below for some recent cases involving the police.

Detective Inspector Neil Corbel was charged with 19 counts of voyeurism in the Greater London, Manchester and Brighton areas.

Wayne Couzens.

Deniz Jaffer and Jamie Lewis taking unofficial pictures of Bibaa Henry and Nicole Smallman after they were stabbed to death.

I’m sure there are more incidents where male police officers hold women in contempt and would harm them if they could.

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Pumperthepumper · 30/09/2021 18:46

[quote PlanDeRaccordement]@Pumperthepumper
So why didn’t they?
Because you can’t investigate something before it happens?

Why did nobody stop him?
Because no one had any idea he was planning rape and murder?[/quote]
But something had happened! He was creepy around women - why was he still a serving Met police officer? And we’re still assuming they didn’t know about the indecent assault. Surely if they’re as well trained to spot criminals, it would have been very obvious?

PlanDeRaccordement · 30/09/2021 18:43

@Pumperthepumper
So why didn’t they?
Because you can’t investigate something before it happens?

Why did nobody stop him?
Because no one had any idea he was planning rape and murder?

Felix125 · 30/09/2021 18:43

@toomanytrees

Is it usual for a lone police man or woman to arrest someone AND put them in a police car, without calling for back up?
Yes

We haven't got the numbers to be double crewed
We haven't got the numbers to attend the emergency calls - let alone the non-emergency ones

We haven't got the numbers to ask for assistance half the time

PlanDeRaccordement · 30/09/2021 18:42

“Even if a more senior officer was unaware of all the different issues, that is actually further evidence of a massive issue with the culture of the police. Where managers have no clue what their officers are doing, and rank and file officers protect each other from sanction. You can't just shrug and say that it's reasonable that no one had any awareness of what was going on, as if that makes the state of the Met police any better.”

It’s definitely evidence of an information sharing problem, which could be due to lack of resources, stretched for time, or antiquated records keeping system, so not necessarily a culture problem. Im not saying failures to disseminate information is reasonable, or that the Met police don’t need to improve. I am saying that the other police individuals within an organisation that doesn’t share information efficiently cannot be held responsible for one of their colleagues committing rape and murder.

KissedintheDark · 30/09/2021 18:42

Apologies if these stats have been posted - I haven't read the whole thread. From The Telegraph:

'Between 2019 and 2020, 160 officers in the Met alone have been accused of sexual assault, sexual harassment and other forms of sexual misconduct. Only four people have been either “suspended or restricted” as a result. A Freedom of Information request earlier this month found that in the four years to 2020, more than half of Met officers found guilty of sexual misconduct have kept their jobs.'

'Meanwhile, one woman every week is coming forward to report domestic abuse by a police officer. At least 15 women – the majority of them domestic violence victims – have been killed by police officers in the past 12 years, while the conviction rates for police officers who abuse their partners are almost half the national average. In April it was revealed that the Met was investigating an officer for raping two of his colleagues an astonishing three years after the allegations were reported. He had not even been suspended.'

Pumperthepumper · 30/09/2021 18:42

@PlanDeRaccordement

Would a better system not be ‘he’s creepy around women therefore he can’t be a police officer’?

@Pumperthepumper. Well yes and you can get a feel for creepy by doing psych assessments of police officer trainees and annually for police officers on the force.

I am sure Met police will do full investigation into who knew what and when, and then put in place better information sharing between supervisors and others responsible for ensuring police officers are safe around women. If anyone did know everything we know now, and did nothing, then yes they should be sacked too.

So why didn’t they? Why did nobody stop him?
PlanDeRaccordement · 30/09/2021 18:38

Would a better system not be ‘he’s creepy around women therefore he can’t be a police officer’?

@Pumperthepumper. Well yes and you can get a feel for creepy by doing psych assessments of police officer trainees and annually for police officers on the force.

I am sure Met police will do full investigation into who knew what and when, and then put in place better information sharing between supervisors and others responsible for ensuring police officers are safe around women. If anyone did know everything we know now, and did nothing, then yes they should be sacked too.

AssassinatedBeauty · 30/09/2021 18:35

There were two separate allegations of indecent exposure specifically against WC a few days before the murder. There are at least two police officers (rank unknown) who are being investigated for misconduct for not investigating those.

Even if a more senior officer was unaware of all the different issues, that is actually further evidence of a massive issue with the culture of the police. Where managers have no clue what their officers are doing, and rank and file officers protect each other from sanction. You can't just shrug and say that it's reasonable that no one had any awareness of what was going on, as if that makes the state of the Met police any better.

DdraigGoch · 30/09/2021 18:34

@NewlyGranny

A retired woman police superintendent said on R4 this afternoon that she's advising women in her family in this situation to check the officer is using bodycam, agree to get into only a marked police car and insist the officer calls for backup in a marked car.

That protocol could save a life.

This is much more reasonable.

I've a feeling that more than one officer is required to transport a prisoner anyway (unless there's a cage in the back like the vans and some cars have), so that there's no risk of the prisoner distracting the driver.

This murder didn't involve a uniformed officer, it didn't involve a marked car.

toomanytrees · 30/09/2021 18:34

Is it usual for a lone police man or woman to arrest someone AND put them in a police car, without calling for back up?

Pumperthepumper · 30/09/2021 18:30

@PlanDeRaccordement

“At what point should the actual Metropolitan Police force, trained to spot criminals, have decided there were enough reasons to report him?”

You’re assuming that the people around him...other police officers and his superiors had all the information we have now when they probably did not. I don’t think that even one person in management there knew he had been accused of indecent exposure, had that nickname and enjoyed violent porn. All of that has come out in the investigation which happened AFTER Sarah’s murder. That’s why I say we have to be careful about hindsight what we know and not assume that this same information was widely known before he murdered Sarah.

I don’t think that’s true, but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt since I haven’t checked it.

But they did know he was creepy towards women, hence the nickname his colleagues gave him. Would a better system not be ‘he’s creepy around women therefore he can’t be a police officer’?

PlanDeRaccordement · 30/09/2021 18:27

“At what point should the actual Metropolitan Police force, trained to spot criminals, have decided there were enough reasons to report him?”

You’re assuming that the people around him...other police officers and his superiors had all the information we have now when they probably did not. I don’t think that even one person in management there knew he had been accused of indecent exposure, had that nickname and enjoyed violent porn. All of that has come out in the investigation which happened AFTER Sarah’s murder. That’s why I say we have to be careful about hindsight what we know and not assume that this same information was widely known before he murdered Sarah.

PlanDeRaccordement · 30/09/2021 18:22

@BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz

Until we recognise misogyny as a hate crime, and society respects women as they ought, these little "minor indiscretions" would be seen for what they are - flags and indicators of women hating men who can (and most likely will) get progressively more violent.
Agree. If we must have hate crime legislation, then misogyny should be one. (I am philosophically against all hate crime legislation)

And closer attention needs to be paid to red flags to help save lives.

Pumperthepumper · 30/09/2021 18:22

@PlanDeRaccordement

But not worth acting on? You think this needed hindsight to see?

Yes worth acting on, but easier to see in hindsight.

Three different indecent exposures, nickname The Rapist and an enjoyment of violent pornography?

At what point should the actual Metropolitan Police force, trained to spot criminals, have decided there were enough reasons to report him?

olivehater · 30/09/2021 18:19

Single patrols are dangerous for everyone involved. This case exemplifies that. We should all refuse, men or women, if there are not two officers until the law is changed.

AssassinatedBeauty · 30/09/2021 18:19

Perhaps they could have fucking investigated it? And suspended him.

EmbarrassingAdmissions · 30/09/2021 18:19

@AssassinatedBeauty

Ffs. The indecent exposure was not a red flag because it's a concrete indicator that this person was not fit to be a police officer. Action should have been taken right then. No benefit of hindsight needed. The fact it was barely an issue for this man clearly indicates to me a massive fucking problem with the Met police.
Police watchdog boss admits she wouldn't approach a lone policeman at night as ex-Met Chief Superintendent says women PCs don't raise concerns about male colleagues' behaviour 'because they'll leave them to get their heads kicked in'

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10045531/Sarah-Everard-murder-Police-watchdog-boss-not-approach-lone-policeman-night.html

PlanDeRaccordement · 30/09/2021 18:19

But not worth acting on? You think this needed hindsight to see?

Yes worth acting on, but easier to see in hindsight.

PlanDeRaccordement · 30/09/2021 18:18

@AssassinatedBeauty

Ffs. The indecent exposure was not a red flag because it's a concrete indicator that this person was not fit to be a police officer. Action should have been taken right then. No benefit of hindsight needed. The fact it was barely an issue for this man clearly indicates to me a massive fucking problem with the Met police.
It was an unproven allegation (from what I read).
PlanDeRaccordement · 30/09/2021 18:17

@Passmeamenuatthetottenham

No, I think it is a red flag. But they are always much easier to see in hindsight than at the time, which is also true.

What is there to see 'in hindsight'? You work for the police. You work with a man that you and everyone else calls 'The Rapist' presumably because he displays predatory behaviour. What 'hindsight' is needed?

Everything we are seeing now is in hindsight because WC has raped and murdered an innocent woman. If someone has dodgy behaviour but hasn’t hurt anyone, what do you report exactly? That they make you uncomfortable? That your gut doesn’t like them? And how do you sack someone from the police force on the basis of only an unproven allegation of indecent exposure?
Pumperthepumper · 30/09/2021 18:17

@PlanDeRaccordement

His nickname at work with his met police colleagues was The Rapist. That’s not a red flag.

Yes it is. It is the definition of a red flag:

  1. A warning signal.
  2. Something that demands attention or provokes an irritated reaction.
  3. A cue, warning, or alert; a sign or signal that something is wrong.

A nickname like that is a big warning sign that he’s a violent man, capable of violence against women and as such demands attention....

But not worth acting on? You think this needed hindsight to see?
AssassinatedBeauty · 30/09/2021 18:16

Ffs. The indecent exposure was not a red flag because it's a concrete indicator that this person was not fit to be a police officer. Action should have been taken right then. No benefit of hindsight needed. The fact it was barely an issue for this man clearly indicates to me a massive fucking problem with the Met police.

PlanDeRaccordement · 30/09/2021 18:14

I’m not denying that there were red flags or missed opportunities, there were. Which is why the police need an overhaul.

However, I do not blame the police for the actions of WC. He acted alone and he alone is responsible for his crimes.

Passmeamenuatthetottenham · 30/09/2021 18:12

No, I think it is a red flag. But they are always much easier to see in hindsight than at the time, which is also true.

What is there to see 'in hindsight'? You work for the police. You work with a man that you and everyone else calls 'The Rapist' presumably because he displays predatory behaviour. What 'hindsight' is needed?

PlanDeRaccordement · 30/09/2021 18:12

@AssassinatedBeauty
Indecent exposure is also a red flag.
Anything that indicates a warning of something worse might happen is a red flag. Obviously, it’s not a red flag for more indecent exposure, but it is a red flag for rape and murder.

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