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Labour councillor reveals she suffered 'transphobic abuse' at party conference

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cheeseismydownfall · 28/09/2021 19:19

And where did Patricia Hannah-Wood, a trans woman, suffer this "abuse"?

In the loos, apparently. The women's loos, I assume.

I wonder what the nature of this alleged abuse is? A woman expressing her discomfort with having to share a female-only space with a male-bodied person?

But as we have been told, there is no conflict between women's rights and trans rights, so...

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NiceGerbil · 30/09/2021 22:37

Edited that part out?

Of a live feed then available after?!

This is their conference. Loads of supporters can't be there in person. Watching the recording of all those who spoke is done to provide the full days action, as it were.

They have edited it?

What the hell? That feels wrong on all sorts of levels. Why would they cut out the impassioned statement about transphobic abuse when it's an important topic for the party?

Is it definite that's happened?

That feels really dishonest. I assume there's no note underneath to detail anything cut and why? Or even that they do edit?

To deny their supporters and anyone else who is interested the opportunity to see and hear all the speakers? Why? And that's a decision that would need to be agreed by quite a few people including some with some clout. I'd imagine.

Why have they cut out this segment where there was an impassioned press for trans rights and iirc more as well.

That is outrageous if they have done that esp without a note to advise viewers of the fact.

cheeseismydownfall · 30/09/2021 22:26

I've just checked again, it is the official stream from the Labour Party account. The overall length seems pretty much unchanged (just short of 8 hours) so it hasn't been subject to a general edit to condense it. But it's gone. They've altered it.

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cheeseismydownfall · 30/09/2021 22:22

OP here. I just tried to show the incident to DH and followed one of the links upthread. I found the relevant segment, but the allegations about the abuse have gone???

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Deliriumoftheendless · 30/09/2021 19:26

Ok so I can understand the victim may not see the point in reporting if they think it won’t be dealt with - which as it is a Labour conference seems odd, but whatever- after all no report doesn’t mean no abuse, but the witnesses keeping quiet on Twitter seems unlikely but ok, maybe in some (newfound) sense of respect for privacy no one feels able to discuss it in a public forum.

So I’m not saying it never happened but there’s a gaping hole where any evidence should be and perhaps it’s time for someone to come out and release a few details.

And that’s not happening.

I agree it would clarify matters if something a little more concrete was said.

But Pink News are still dicks for the hyperbole as they can’t say what was horrific about it unless they have details they are refusing to publish.

RedDogsBeg · 30/09/2021 19:23

@Clymene

Fionne Orlander always uses men's toilets. Says never experienced any abuse.

I can't imagine Patricia would.

In fact, has there ever been a report of a transwoman being assaulted in a men's toilet? I don't recall ever reading one.

To hear TRAs speak the Men's toilets is awash with blood and stacked to the rafters with the broken bodies of TW who dare to enter and yet I've searched and searched and searched and cannot find one incident of a TW being physically assaulted in the Men's toilets - not one.

We are always being told we can report to the Police any incidents in the Women's, therefore the same applies to TW, yet nothing, nada.

Also, we are always being told that is a man wants to rape or assault us the sign on the door won't keep them out so the same applies to TW - the Women's won't be any safer.

It's not fear of physical assault or even verbal abuse that keeps them out of the Men's it's purely and simply that there is no validation available in there, women need to be used as the props in their validation.

Clymene · 30/09/2021 18:16

Fionne Orlander always uses men's toilets. Says never experienced any abuse.

I can't imagine Patricia would.

In fact, has there ever been a report of a transwoman being assaulted in a men's toilet? I don't recall ever reading one.

ArabellaScott · 30/09/2021 17:51

@NiceGerbil

Two different accounts though.

I wish Patricia would report it and/ or any witnessses would speak up.

Are there? I've only really heard the one given above. Patricia's account gave absolutely no information at all.
NiceGerbil · 30/09/2021 17:23

Two different accounts though.

I wish Patricia would report it and/ or any witnessses would speak up.

Jaysmith71 · 30/09/2021 15:55

I wonder what abuse they would have received if they had gone into a male toilet.

'Bloke in a frock?' In Brighton?

Nobody would give a fuck.

viques · 30/09/2021 15:52

@Suzysunflower

Gosh I have no words. This is, literally, taking away our voice.

According to which criteria should this person be considered a woman?

The attitude, the aggression, this is somebody who communicates like a male and has been socialised as a male.

I wonder what abuse they would have received if they had gone into a male toilet. I am willing to bet it would have been a lot stronger than

“ Excuse me, this is the ladies”

Artichokeleaves · 30/09/2021 15:50

@ArabellaScott

Thanks, Tiny. That's interesting. So the 'abuse' was somebody suggesting Patricia was obstructing the space with a mobility scooter? It doesn't sound even a whisper transphobic or abusive to me.

It sounds like someone doing their absolute damnedest to be awkward, confrontational, provocative and aggressive, in the hope that a woman would walk into the trap of responding in a way that could be painted as transphobic.

It sounds like someone who has issues with women, to be blunt, and is looking for an excuse to vent and rage.

I sincerely hope Patricia will explain further.

It was certainly convenient timing for the Labour Conference, considering the huge amount of negative publicity so many members have been busily creating.
Jaysmith71 · 30/09/2021 15:03

It's starting to resemble the Pakistani blasphemy law, where Person A alleges Person B wrote something horrid on a wall, which Person A immediately rubbed off, beause it was so terrible, and which they could not repeat, because it was so terrible. But Person B must be hanged.

AlfonsoTheDinosaur · 30/09/2021 15:03

Not only was it "transphobic abuse" it was "horrific transphobic abuse". No hyperbole there, no sir oops, ma'am.

NancyDrawed · 30/09/2021 14:57

And of course the person in question would not want to re-traumatise themself by saying exactly what this transphobic abuse was, so we all have to take their word for it. Convenient, eh?

dyslek · 30/09/2021 14:49

@FrankieCH I better re-write that for you as the name Tim for some reason get an instand deletio

So, Frankie said;

Okay so the «horrific transphobic abuse» this person alleges never happened. The person went into the women’s toilets despite there being other sets of toilets for disabled people and more toilets for anyoneelse nearby. This was a staged incursion to allow the person to complain on the conference platform later. One woman quite calmly and politely said they were surprised to see a man in the ladies’ loos. If that’s « abuse» I wonder how the person would describe what happened to Sarah Everard at the hands of a strong, powerful male.

FrankieCH · 30/09/2021 14:37

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ArabellaScott · 30/09/2021 13:14

Thanks, Tiny. That's interesting. So the 'abuse' was somebody suggesting Patricia was obstructing the space with a mobility scooter? It doesn't sound even a whisper transphobic or abusive to me.

It sounds like someone doing their absolute damnedest to be awkward, confrontational, provocative and aggressive, in the hope that a woman would walk into the trap of responding in a way that could be painted as transphobic.

It sounds like someone who has issues with women, to be blunt, and is looking for an excuse to vent and rage.

I sincerely hope Patricia will explain further.

Cailleach1 · 30/09/2021 12:39

Soz, rogue sentence at the end (not from Shakespeare); "'There is an old phrase 'men were deceivers, ever"

I have read that this piece from Shakespeare could be interpreted as men being perfectly at ease in deceiving women, in order to get their own way in anything.

Cailleach1 · 30/09/2021 12:28

Yes, if I honestly stated who I viewed as the aggressor in this instance, I would also be deleted. I would also have hightailed it out of that space as I now apply the 'Be Kind' to women.

As usual, Shakespeare covers most things under the sun. Balthasar in 'Much Ado About Nothing'.

 Sigh no more, ladies, sigh no more,
 Men were deceivers ever,
 One foot in sea and one on shore,
 To one thing constant never.
 Then sigh not so, but let them go,
 And be you blithe and bonny,
 Converting all your sounds of woe
 Into Hey, nonny nonny.
 Sing no more ditties, sing no mo
 Of dumps so dull and heavy.
 The fraud of men was ever so,
 Since summer first was leavy.
 Then sigh not so, but let them go
 And be you blithe and bonny,
 Converting all your sounds of woe
 Into Hey, nonny nonny.There is an old phrase 'men were deceivers, ever"

AlfonsoTheDinosaur · 30/09/2021 11:37

In other words, if I said what I thought my post would be reported.

AlfonsoTheDinosaur · 30/09/2021 11:36

@candycane222

See! see! You have hurt me! Now you have to give me what I want!
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candycane222 · 30/09/2021 11:17

See! see! You have hurt me! Now you have to give me what I want!

Mummyoflittledragon · 30/09/2021 10:17

@TinyRebel
So this is a witness account of the reason behind the narcissistic rage? Fgs. Sounds as if it’s all about getting off on “being” a women, validation and making women uncomfortable a plus. Couldn’t possibly used the accessible loos. Quilette article on the subject

Jaysmith71 · 30/09/2021 09:48

Was in the queue behind me.

As ever, the relative shortage of female conveniences even when equal space is allocated because men can 'splash & dash' at the urinal but every woman requires a cubicle.

A transwoman with sisterly feelings might like to ponder that problem.

cheeseismydownfall · 30/09/2021 07:13

@tinyrebel, it sounds like you were there in person, yes?

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