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Labour councillor reveals she suffered 'transphobic abuse' at party conference

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cheeseismydownfall · 28/09/2021 19:19

And where did Patricia Hannah-Wood, a trans woman, suffer this "abuse"?

In the loos, apparently. The women's loos, I assume.

I wonder what the nature of this alleged abuse is? A woman expressing her discomfort with having to share a female-only space with a male-bodied person?

But as we have been told, there is no conflict between women's rights and trans rights, so...

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Angie1403 · 11/10/2021 10:45

If this is the situation as it stands now, the women who were in that queue at the Labour conference genuinely need to speak up either individually or as a group; these 'gossip attacks' need to be brought into the light & shown for what they are or we can never move beyond what is essentially another group of (men? I don't want to say that...) putting themselves in front of us, believing themselves to be higher than us & unwilling to stand with us.
I desperately want to support transgender people; I believe they are just trying to make their lives into something that resembles a normality that they are comfortable with (which everyone deserves) but how can I when this is how we are attacked? Women could be the greatest advocates for trans people; we know what its like to be 2nd place, ignored and othered. I don't understand how we ended up so distant, what went wrong? Does it really all boil down to the fact that so many of the born males now identifying as female are just too indoctrinated in their upbringing? Without making a hormonal & surgical change to womanhood, are they destined to never truly be what they want to be & so...is it jealousy, is jealousy of women the crux of this hatred (sorry, people with a cervix)?
This behaviour can't be true of the majority can it, is it a minority of MBW who are perpetuating this behaviour?

CervixSampler · 01/10/2021 13:07

Must have been a big ladies loo to get a mobility scooter in it. Normally there's no room for even a small pushchair and when 8 months pregnant it can be a challenge to get in and shut the door and turn round.

Ds watched with me and asked if the person was the prime minister Grin

I'd be interested to hear the details of this alleged ABUSE.

NancyDrawed · 01/10/2021 12:15

I just checked the link and slowed down the speed to check which Patricia said:

'I was transphobically ABUSED....in. this. conference.hall. By onw of our sisters in this conference hall now.
This is not happening This should not happen.

Freudian slip, Patricia?

FrankieCH · 01/10/2021 12:15

[quote dyslek]@FrankieCH I better re-write that for you as the name Tim for some reason get an instand deletio

So, Frankie said;

Okay so the «horrific transphobic abuse» this person alleges never happened. The person went into the women’s toilets despite there being other sets of toilets for disabled people and more toilets for anyoneelse nearby. This was a staged incursion to allow the person to complain on the conference platform later. One woman quite calmly and politely said they were surprised to see a man in the ladies’ loos. If that’s « abuse» I wonder how the person would describe what happened to Sarah Everard at the hands of a strong, powerful male.[/quote]
Thank you! I wonder how the moderators cope when someone mentions their partner is called T!mothy …

Mummyoflittledragon · 01/10/2021 09:20

Yeh fine to challenge the police but we can’t challenge other types of cloaks. Cos T*rf.

catzwhiskas · 01/10/2021 08:59

Yes on R4 this morning someone talking about “using the cloak of being a police officer “being unacceptable “ But other types of cloaks worn to attack women and girls does not mean we should challenge I assume.

AlfonsoTheDinosaur · 01/10/2021 07:23

@Mummyoflittledragon

… And has been pointed out on other threads, said police officer just needs to identify as trans.
Interesting. Women are not allowed to challenge men in women's private spaces (where men are not allowed) but should challenge men in public spaces (where both sexes mix).

I see PWH as being full of sound and fury and signifying nothing.

EdgeOfACoin · 01/10/2021 07:23

@cheeseismydownfall

BBC headline news this morning:

People stopped by a lone plain-clothes officer should challenge their legitimacy, the Met Police says.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-58757375

Yet (vulnerable) women encountering males in female-only spaces have to STFU, yes?

I feel like my head is going to explode.

So if that plain-clothes, male-bodied police officer were to follow a woman into the ladies loos, we should assume that they have a woman's gender identity?

At that point it would be deeply transphobic to question or challenge the officer?

Have I got that correct? Perhaps one of our resident TRAs could confirm.

Mummyoflittledragon · 01/10/2021 07:21

… And has been pointed out on other threads, said police officer just needs to identify as trans.

Mummyoflittledragon · 01/10/2021 07:19

I feel like my head is going to explode.

And if you dare to share that, you’ll be treated with disdain and derision. ‘Cos lady penis.

cheeseismydownfall · 01/10/2021 07:16

BBC headline news this morning:

People stopped by a lone plain-clothes officer should challenge their legitimacy, the Met Police says.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-58757375

Yet (vulnerable) women encountering males in female-only spaces have to STFU, yes?

I feel like my head is going to explode.

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Mummyoflittledragon · 01/10/2021 06:43

Patricia got up on stage and shouted to the rooftops. Patricia did not feel fear. Only outrage. Unlike the average woman confronted by a male in her safe space.

It would be fair to assume Patricia hates women. Is that because Patricia is jealous whilst simultaneously having zero imagination of what it is to be a woman? Imagine being the poor ‘sister(s)’ Patricia was denigrating on stage. Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Confused

Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them… Wayne Couzens was sentenced yesterday. He had no issue distinguishing between a man and a woman. The cognitive dissonance is bewildering.

NiceGerbil · 01/10/2021 03:21

The other thing here is that after the speech. And hearing about the abuse.

I would fully expect the relevant person to find Patricia and invite them to discuss. On their terms. What happened. Who did it. The group of colleagues who witnessed the abuse.

Because it's the labour party conference, this issue is something they are really prioritising. Given there is an attendee, who did this at the conference of all places to Patricia. That says the person is prepared to risk penalty/ expulsion, so if they're prepared to do that then my guess would be they would do it again.

So surely having heard that the party would be keen to act. And to tell the conference that they have acted. To not do so would be remiss. Unsettling for other trans people at the conference.

In fact it's a given they would talk to the victim, find out how they wanted to proceed, and let everyone know they were on it. To not do that would be a failure on their part imo.

I mean say at a work conference a woman went up and said to everyone they had been subject to sexualised verbal abuse from another attendee. You would expect the organisers to get on it and fast. And reassure everyone that you were on it because it was unacceptable.

No?

Deliriumoftheendless · 01/10/2021 02:39

@NiceGerbil

'Ok so I can understand the victim may not see the point in reporting if they think it won’t be dealt with'

That doesn't really tie up with the going on stage and telling the whole conference about it. To my mind.

Plus as you mentioned. The idea that labour would not act is... ?

Given the long term activists etc they kicked out for having the wrong views a couple of years ago or so.

Well that’s the thing, isn’t it?

If it’s a sticker why not say? I’m sure Keir Starmer would be horrified by a sticker. We’ve seen enough comments that show Labour view stickers and the ideas expressed on them to be abhorrent.

So speak the truth and let the people condemn. (This does not mean I object but I’m sure plenty in attendance would. We’ve seen it before)

Yet it’s a vague claim, without evidence or clarification.

There’s far less evidence than the Wi Spa flasher which had posters here claiming hoax. I’m better than them. Whether this is likely or not I’m prepared to hear evidence before I announce it didn’t happen.

But the evidence isn’t forthcoming (despite enough time elapsing for something to have been said).

It’s not out of the realms of possibility. No one is saying they witnessed an alien abduction here. “Transphobic abuse” is a broad term and seems to mean anything the person making the allegation wants it to. But why is someone able to get on stage, speak in extremely loose terms and have so many accept unquestioningly?

This would be easy to prove. There are witnesses. The alleged perp could be identified and challenged by officials. If it’s a sticker say that.

Why would an allegation be made on stage with nothing to back it? Why do so many accept it without any proof? What else can be said on stage as an appeal to the emotions without any need to show the facts? Why are the Labour Party happy with unsubstantiated claims of abuse to be made? Why is it ok? Labour ought to address it. They won’t.

cheeseismydownfall · 30/09/2021 23:15

Ah OK, sorry, I don't know how I've missed it (twice). Glad I checked.

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334bu · 30/09/2021 23:09

No it is still there, no editing as far as I can see.

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 30/09/2021 22:47

@ItsAllGoingToBeFine

Patricia is still there, but they seem to have cut the accusations of horrific toilet transphobia Hmm
I was wrong Blush Still there, time stamp 2:39:20
Whitefire · 30/09/2021 22:47

Oh ok, I haven't any sound on, plus I didn't want to listen again.

cheeseismydownfall · 30/09/2021 22:46

@NiceGerbil

Edited that part out?

Of a live feed then available after?!

This is their conference. Loads of supporters can't be there in person. Watching the recording of all those who spoke is done to provide the full days action, as it were.

They have edited it?

What the hell? That feels wrong on all sorts of levels. Why would they cut out the impassioned statement about transphobic abuse when it's an important topic for the party?

Is it definite that's happened?

That feels really dishonest. I assume there's no note underneath to detail anything cut and why? Or even that they do edit?

To deny their supporters and anyone else who is interested the opportunity to see and hear all the speakers? Why? And that's a decision that would need to be agreed by quite a few people including some with some clout. I'd imagine.

Why have they cut out this segment where there was an impassioned press for trans rights and iirc more as well.

That is outrageous if they have done that esp without a note to advise viewers of the fact.

@nicegerbil yes, I think so?

It is about 2 hours 30 mins or so into the video I linked to above. I've rewatched it and it isn't there. The rest of Patricia's speech is, but not thy bit (it was at the beginning IIRC).

Can someone else check I'm not being an idiot?

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ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 30/09/2021 22:46

Patricia is still there, but they seem to have cut the accusations of horrific toilet transphobia Hmm

BlackAlys · 30/09/2021 22:45

@Sonarl

This is trending on twitter Grin
Saving, printing. Love it.
Whitefire · 30/09/2021 22:45

Do not fear, Patricia is still here.

At about 2.38

NiceGerbil · 30/09/2021 22:44

I can see it would be cut if abuser named or described.

But there's no indication in Patricia's speech about anything. Not even a hint of what time, which bogs etc.

I am genuinely disturbed by the party that is essentially the opposition editing this content. If they have done this and don't flag it/ say why. Then that is utterly dishonest. And strange.

I would never have imagined that would happen, genuinely.

NiceGerbil · 30/09/2021 22:40

'Ok so I can understand the victim may not see the point in reporting if they think it won’t be dealt with'

That doesn't really tie up with the going on stage and telling the whole conference about it. To my mind.

Plus as you mentioned. The idea that labour would not act is... ?

Given the long term activists etc they kicked out for having the wrong views a couple of years ago or so.

NiceGerbil · 30/09/2021 22:38

Arabella- unless I have misunderstood posts there are two accounts on the thread.