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Weird situation

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893confused · 28/09/2021 14:26

I tutor some primary school siblings online. Have done for ages. They've just told me that their dad is transgender and likes wearing girls' school uniform, including to work. But uses "he" pronouns with family because the grandparents don't know.
I feel a bit weird about this. Transgender - ok. But why girls' school uniform? He's a middle-aged man.

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Gncq · 28/09/2021 14:42

Yeah. Their dad has AGP, possibly peodophile-adjacent.

He's likely spent a LOT of time on the internet researching how to say the most woke thing in order to get the maximum value out of his fetish. Basically gaming the system. "Being trans" my arse.

Extremist gender ideology is an open door to people like this.

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893confused · 28/09/2021 14:41

The children are both girls. To be fair, I'd given them homework, which was writing practice about the clothes their family wear. I had no idea that this would come out!! I assumed it was a joke until the mum confirmed it.

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Noshowlomo · 28/09/2021 14:35

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allmywhat · 28/09/2021 14:34

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… to work? (Where does he work?)

… around his children?

You’re right, that is weird and wrong. Grown men dressing up in girl’s school uniform are enacting a pedophilia-adjacent fetish and they should keep their colleagues and .their children out of it.

I hope the children aren’t girls.

AssassinatedBeauty · 28/09/2021 14:34

I would just shut any further talk down as not relevant to your role as a tutor and ask the mother to be clear with the children what appropriate topics of conversation are.

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893confused · 28/09/2021 14:31

No, they showed me photos of Korean / Japanese girls' school uniforms, online.
The mum joined in and confirmed he's transgender. It was a bit embarrassing.

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AssassinatedBeauty · 28/09/2021 14:29

Perhaps they mean women's work clothes, rather than actual school uniform?