""This is not solved by using the phrase 'women and trans men' it's just another way of suggesting trans men are women which they aren't.""
Science disagrees with you.
Genetics disagrees with you.
Evolution disagrees with you.
Established facts of physiology, anatomy and biology disagrees with you.
And PLEASE stop rolling out the old "what about intersex people" line. They represent less than 0.018% of the population, and it has been shown that the incidence of intersex conditions in the trans community is no higher than that of the rest of the population.
Within the 0.018% it is almost always possible through karotyping to identify if the individual in question is male or female.
Not to mention the fact that those with DSDs have repeatedly asked not to be used as some kind of argument for any of this.
No matter what your individual belief system or what you think about how people identify, biology CANNOT be denied. It will NEVER change, and in 100'000 years human beings will still be sexually dimorphic, there will still be males and females, and they will still have either XX or XY chromosomes (apart from a tiny minority).
And all the word salad, butchering of language and hand wringing won't change that.