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Rosie Duffield front page of Sunday Times

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Cismyfatarse · 19/09/2021 07:36

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/speaker-steps-in-over-online-threats-to-female-labour-mp-jnhbrcgv5?shareToken=230ac061798cd2f7a698da9afbc6fbe4

This should allow people to read it. Front page, no less. Starter texting to see if she is OK is not good enough but he doesn't seem to be pulled up on that.

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ScreamingMeMe · 21/09/2021 10:45

Gc believe trans people can't change sex.

Do you believe they can, @anaily? How does this happen?

CaptainMarvelDanvers · 21/09/2021 07:15

@Lessthanaballpark

The comments are very encouraging and I feel that one silver lining of this whole debate is that it has united men and women in so many ways. Hell! Even Douglas Murray is showing feminist tendencies!

I thought this comment was particularly good:

Also, just as an observation, when women express concerns that they may feel unsafe if male bodied people use their private spaces, issuing rape threats on social media is unlikely to reassure.

I mean what are those TRAs thinking when they send abuse?! That we’re going to think “oh please come into our spaces! You pose no threat whatsoever!”

They don’t care.

They get to be misogynistic, and not only do they not get reprimanded for it, they get support.

Helleofabore · 21/09/2021 07:01

I see anaily is still repeating trope from the activist play book.

The complete disconnect that calling women transphobic for claiming that they have needs to be addressed too and that making law changes to accommodate males who transition causes conflicts to the rights for women, yet believing that if some woman and girls are negatively affected by that conflict, that is acceptable, it is in no way anti-female is clear. The disconnect is there but you cannot acknowledge it.

I mean even yesterday we also had a vocal activist state in Scotland that a spike in murders of homosexual people was an ‘acceptable price’ to pay for trans people achieving their aims? Do you honestly agree with Sophie-Grace Chappell?

Do you understand that currently the activists you are supporting are stating there are acceptable levels of increased harm to others, particularly women and children, to achieve their aims? How is that not ‘anti-woman’ and ‘anti-children’?

Lessthanaballpark · 21/09/2021 04:50

Gc believe trans people can't change sex. I personally don't care, I'll still respect trans people's identity even so, it's the decent thing to do.

Knowing that people can’t change biological sex and respecting transpeople’s rights are not mutually exclusive. TRAs have framed it that way to squash debate. Don’t be fooled by that.

Are you religious? Do you only respect people who have the same religion and beliefs as you? It’s a bizarre world if you have to believe in a person’s God yourself in order to believe that that person is worthy of respect.

And equating GC with homophobia? Ironic considering the circumstances. A gay man being hounded out of pride by TRAs? Lesbian women being told that to not want to have PIV is transphobic?

Your motivation seems to be about being nice. And that’s fine. I’m with you. But don’t lie. You don’t believe that a person can change from XY to XX anymore than we do. That doesn’t mean you can’t be nice to transpeople. They deserve acceptance and freedom yes, lies no.

spicedappledonuts · 21/09/2021 02:38

Gc believe trans people can't change sex.
True, in the same way I believe that I can't sail off the end of the flat world.
Or that our planet doesn't circle round the earth.

It is a belief in basic observable science.

Obviously men can choose to live their life as women, with the typical trappings associated with the opposite sex and vice versa.
No can actually change sex however.
All that is possible is adopting a different gender.

NCBlossom · 21/09/2021 02:02

It’s a real problem that if a woman is expressing a view, about feeling attacked as a woman by men, whether they are trans or not…

And is then threatened to a scale where she is advised that attending a conference as an elected speaker is a security risk.

THAT is the problem here. Not what she said or didn’t say.

ElizaDarcysDeeds · 21/09/2021 01:58

What I find disgusting about the Rosie Duffield situation is yet again a woman has discussed receiving threats and the usual high profilr men have taken that as an invitation to direct even more abuse at her.
I bet they were all posting in support of Me Too and yet when in reality when a woman is targeted they cannot wait to double down on the bullying and abuse. It's absolutely sickening.
And I hope when the tide turns and they try to pretend they were supportive of women that they are rightly held to account for being the bullying misogynists that they are.

Waitwhat23 · 21/09/2021 01:51

As always, you seem to have very little knowledge of the Equality Act 2010, I particular the range of single sex exemptions allowed by law and seem to forget (again) that there are 9 protected characteristics under the Equality Act, one of which is sex. Despite Stonewall's persistent campaigning, sex remains a protected characteristic. Self ID in particular destroys the protections of single sex spaces because they are no longer single sex spaces - they are then mixed sex spaces.

We do not 'believe that trans people can't change sex'. We know they can't because sex is immutable - again, your belief does not become reality through sheer repetition. Trans people are welcome to their own identity, rights, safety, etc but they cannot take women's identity, rights and safety.

Supersimkin2 · 21/09/2021 01:41

Who are the TRA? Do they have names or places?

anaily · 21/09/2021 01:35

Gc believe trans people can't change sex. I personally don't care, I'll still respect trans people's identity even so, it's the decent thing to do. Your personal beliefs doesn't give you freedom to mistreat others, for example homophobic beliefs don't give freedom to mistreat gay people.
That's the same logic as edl - they aren't anti immigration, they are pro British, or kkk isn't racist, they are pro white. When you come off as fighting a minority group, you come off as anti-(that group). Trans have been included in all spaces for a long time, kicking them out is viewed as anti trans. If your approach was creating spaces for gc people only, then I'd see that as pro gc, as that doesn't go against anyone, it's advocating for gc spaces which isn't anti anything. If that makes sense of my pov.

Waitwhat23 · 21/09/2021 01:18

Anaily,

You are still showing that you -

  • Don't understand what the term gender critical means
  • Seem to think that people saying 'sex is immutable' is a value judgement, it's not. Its simply biological fact. You cannot force people to believe falsehoods because that happens to be your belief.
  • are following the party line that GC means that women who are fighting against the erosion of single sex spaces are anti - trans. They're not. They're pro - woman. By your own reasoning, you yourself are anti woman.
anaily · 21/09/2021 01:02

The problem is that when people talk about being opposed to GC beliefs/RD/JKR/MF because they support trans rights, it makes the average person, who is new to the debate, think that GC beliefs are anti-trans.

That's my pov/angle, gc is just attacking and restricting trans people's lives. Gc just boils down to "you can't change sex" and that only applies to trans, which they see as an attack on them. That makes gc hostile to trans, hence the backlash by those declaring themselves gc as they are anti trans.

catzwhiskas · 21/09/2021 00:46

Emily Maitliss on Newnight ( Monday) managed to slip in a question about why any woman should be fearful about attending conference. Labour man declined to answer.

DoctorTwo · 20/09/2021 21:50

I'm on Rosie Duffield's side here. Only women have a cervix is not hate speech, truth cannot be. The truth is just the truth.

ImprobablePuffin · 20/09/2021 20:05

@MishyJDI

Usual Time beat up on trans activists being a threat, when its just rubbish. Even Duffield says it in the article:

"Duffield, who chairs the Women’s Parliamentary Labour Party, took the decision not to attend conference after being advised it was “not a good idea”. She said: “I mainly took the decision not because I really thought I was going to be attacked, but because I did not want to be the centre of attention."

Shame she is not attending, as she would quite rightly be challenged on her exclusionary views. Pity.

Sorry how is stating that only women have a cervix exclusionary? When did people forget about ACTUAL BIOLOGICAL FACT?
Lessthanaballpark · 20/09/2021 18:47

The problem is that when people talk about being opposed to GC beliefs/RD/JKR/MF because they support trans rights, it makes the average person, who is new to the debate, think that GC beliefs are anti-trans.

I mean I know that’s exactly what the extremists want people to believe but it’s infuriating because their strategy has been so successful.

I really hope people delve deeper and realise that GC is not transphobic but just a simple belief that biological differences matter in certain issues, which is basically what the majority of people know to be true.

Igmum · 20/09/2021 17:26

Well done Lindsay Hoyle and shame on the senior politicians who keep silent. We cannot expect women to participate in public life if they put themselves and their families in danger as a result. Well done RD

DefineHappy · 20/09/2021 15:16

@MiladyBerserko

Is that our Mishy?
Possibly - or just a weird coincidence. There are, after all, such a lot of people named Mish/Mishy out in the real world…..
FlyingOink · 20/09/2021 14:20

I wonder if that’s indicative of the difference in the demographics using social media and local media news/print?

This is a massive issue, personally I'd divide people specifically into Twitter users and non-Twitter users. The Labour Party found out about this phenomenon in the last GE, but hasn't addressed it at all.

Twitter is representative of Twitter, not of public opinion in general. And not just on progressive or cultural issues either. There's something particular about that platform that attracts people convinced theirs is the prevailing view. Maybe it's the ability to block entire swathes of people from interacting with you?

BlackLambAndGreyFalcon · 20/09/2021 14:02

Well done Rosie and the Sunday Times for covering this so prominently. I loved her T-shirt as well!

MandyMotherOfBrian · 20/09/2021 13:27

@Sparklfairy

She's my local MP and support for her (if you listen to the local FB group) is mixed because of the local desperation to be 'woke'.

I'm sure this link will be posted there soon so I will be interested to read the responses, will update here if you like Wink

Interesting, I’m local too, but not on FB. The piece in the local online paper had more comments than I’ve ever seen on an article and they were pretty much all supportive of Rosie. Some of that and the criticism of Ben Fitter Harding may have been due to his track record as a local councillor I suppose, but even so, overwhelming on her ‘side’. I wonder if that’s indicative of the difference in the demographics using social media and local media news/print?
RoyalCorgi · 20/09/2021 13:24

@merrymouse

Why OJ is posting stuff about his own experiences of being attacked as a way to discredit and invalidate RD I do not know.

Because he is a misogynist who can’t accept that there is a specific category of violence that men commit against women. It’s no different to ‘all lives matter’.

A cynic might say that Owen is weaponising his trauma.

Not me, obviously.

KitchenDancefloor · 20/09/2021 13:17

And I love her a little bit more for handing out 'never kissed a Tory' stickers at Pride 🥰

KitchenDancefloor · 20/09/2021 13:10

I'm glad some people are finally siding with Rosie publicly.

This is the bashing she got from her local council leader recently. If he thought being nasty and vindictive would win him kudos or more votes, then I think he misjudged the public mood. Calling her transphobic hasn't changed my view on RD but it has made me see him as an opportunist misogynist.

www.kentonline.co.uk/canterbury/news/i-can-be-a-conservative-gay-and-leader-at-the-same-time-253672/

ScreamingMeMe · 20/09/2021 12:30

Another Labour MP, Pat McFadden, has spoken out in support of Rosie.

amp.theguardian.com/politics/2021/sep/19/labour-mp-appalled-that-rosie-duffield-feels-unable-to-attend-conference?__twitter_impression=true