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How can people think this is OK? I just don't get it!

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manatsu · 17/09/2021 09:22

Man with a history of violence against women sadistically beats, rapes and murders a complete stranger. Once he's convicted, he suddenly realises he's trans. He gets put in a women's holding prison. Everyone pretends he's a woman just like the woman he murdered was and makes it their mission to defend him and get him to serve his sentence in a woman's prison.

No I won't refer to him with female pronouns. I'm incandescent with rage. I cannot believe how misogynistic this world is. Why????

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QueenPeary · 18/09/2021 17:53

The atmosphere would change I agree, and top of that you're being gaslit. You'd have to sit there with a violent predatory man among you and pretend you agree it's a woman. It's the ultimate gotcha for misogynists to play on women.

CreepingDeath · 18/09/2021 17:18

@Franca123

I've been really shocked and disappointed by how little society cares about women in prison. I had no idea people had such little regard for them.
I suppose the realisation is how little wider society cares about women in general, so women in prison is not that much of a surprise, unfortunately.

As far as I'm aware, the vast majority of women in prison are there for non violent reasons. That's not to say that women cannot be violent or shouldn't be punished for their crimes, but I would imagine the atmosphere in a women's prison is vastly different/ more relaxed etc.

That all changes as soon as you allow men into them, not to mention sexually violent men. It's disgraceful.

Teaandcakeordeath83 · 17/09/2021 23:39

"The criteria for the exception is also poorly defined, and the risk assessment is often based on speculation and stereotypes, she said, explaining that the result is some trans women languish in men’s prisons, where they are more likely to be subjected to violence and harassment from both inmates and guards."

So the common risk denominator for both women and transwomen is men. So how about we fucking deal with male violence in the prison estate rather than shifting that burden onto vulnerable women. FFS. It makes me absolutely rage. Systematic misogyny.

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 17/09/2021 22:12

There must be some powerful people behind this…..

Ritascornershop · 17/09/2021 22:08

As a Canadian, I think people are not protesting firstly because there is very, very little coverage in the nationwide press about this. It’s not going to be all over the CBC for example.

Secondly, our educational system trains us to go along with the majority, follow the rules, stay in your place, and don’t offend anyone. Heaven forbid we offend men by telling them they can’t go to women’s prisons.

OldCrone · 17/09/2021 20:53

@Franca123

I've been really shocked and disappointed by how little society cares about women in prison. I had no idea people had such little regard for them.
Not only that, but they must think that an appropriate 'punishment' for male sex offenders is to be put in a place where they will have a supply of victims to abuse to amuse themselves while serving their sentence.

It's not just the fact that they think women in prison should have the risk of rape as part of their sentence, but that they think rapists should be rewarded with a ready supply of victims instead of being punished.

Congressdingo · 17/09/2021 20:41

Moreover I suspect an underlying current of vindictive "well they deserve what they get

It's not even underlying. I've told many people about this but two replies stick in my mind
'Huh so what it's just women in prison, I'll never be in that position and if they didnt do the crime then they too wouldn't be in prison'
This from a reasonably educated woman who simply cannot see that she would ever ever end up in prison.

And
'Men get raped in prison too'
Which apart from being a completely different dynamic doesn't mean we should all race to the bottom here.

Freespeecher · 17/09/2021 18:03

I wonder if a Trudeau loss would be the start of turning this around or if it's already beyond the party political level and the incoming Canadian government would make some non-committal statements but essentially leave things as they are.

Phobiaphobic · 17/09/2021 17:26

@CreepingDeath

It's like some dystopian nightmare. Men will always get priority, even when they have shown their hatred and contempt for women.

The sad fact is that men don't care about this, because they don't have to care. They will never be the victims of this, so they can sleep easy. It is left for women to push back against this, and of course we are not listened to, because we are just a bunch of nagging feminists.

I can't believe that this is where we are. So many people just don't care, just turn away.

This is exactly how I feel. In a despairing mood today.
XiXimXerJingping · 17/09/2021 17:22

Do we have any solid stats on male criminals identifying as women in countries/regions that allow them into female prisons?

Passmeamenuatthetottenham · 17/09/2021 17:13

Labour MP Lisa Nandy is actually on record saying she believes this kind of thing happening is OK.

MondayYogurt · 17/09/2021 17:08

@Franca123

I've been really shocked and disappointed by how little society cares about women in prison. I had no idea people had such little regard for them.
Moreover I suspect an underlying current of vindictive "well they deserve what they get".
MondayYogurt · 17/09/2021 17:06

I expect he would be viewed as a man if he did the same thing to Sophie Trudeau, or any of Canada's wealthy elites.

Congressdingo · 17/09/2021 16:46

@ZaraCarmichaelshighheels

Does no one, members of government, the media, women’s groups the general public in Canada ever challenge the situation there? I hear situations like this a lot in Canada but never hear of any pushback or protests?
Yes of course there are womens campaign groups but they are just as silenced as those in the UK, possibly even more silenced. I dont think anyone wants to believe it but honestly Women dont matter. Its that simple.
ZaraCarmichaelshighheels · 17/09/2021 15:47

Does no one, members of government, the media, women’s groups the general public in Canada ever challenge the situation there? I hear situations like this a lot in Canada but never hear of any pushback or protests?

SinisterBumFacedCat · 17/09/2021 15:34

Do they not realise they are now going to have to build more women’s prisons to allow for the sudden increase in inmates? I know they don’t give a fuck about our safety, maybe the financial implications might cause them to rethink this?

Eyesofdisarray · 17/09/2021 15:27

Oh that poor woman: RIP.
Despicable men- they must be laughing at the justice system and people tying themselves in knots trying to sort this. Appalling.

QueenPeary · 17/09/2021 15:11

Statistics alone should be making it clear to people there's something totally dodgy going on. Hugely elevated rates of suddenly realising you're trans among male sex offenders and violent offenders hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm come on it can't be that hard to see!

The obvious answer is trans prisons or totally unconnected trans wings and there is no reason why that can't happen. They should build them and make sure all trans-identifying prisoners go to them (or have the option to stay with their own sex). Then track the stats again and see if the same trend continues.

annacondom · 17/09/2021 13:45

That second link... It's shocking that these people seem to have absolutely no common.sense or understanding. These violent and experienced criminals are easily pulling the wool over their eyes.

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 17/09/2021 13:35

@Franca123

I've been really shocked and disappointed by how little society cares about women in prison. I had no idea people had such little regard for them.
Absolutely

And on so many of these threads you get people basically saying that it serves the female right for committing a crime and being sent to prison….honestly shocking

LifesNotDoneYet · 17/09/2021 12:52

That poor, poor woman. What despicable creatures both of the perpetrators are.

Love to Rhoderia's children and husband. I cannot imagine what they've been through Flowers

And no OP, you're not unreasonable at all to be outraged at this. They are clearly calculating and lacking morality and remorse - just look at how carefully crafted their attempts at a legal defence were. When that didn't quite work they have declared themselves trans to access a woman's prison. Utterly sickening.

Artichokeleaves · 17/09/2021 12:49

It may well be hell for TW in mens prisons.

But that can be addressed, perfectly, properly, in a way that totally solves the problem, without making female prisons hell for female prisoners.

Why is that not an acceptable solution?

Because it isn't about safety. It's about the right of access to female humans as a resource that male humans have entitlement to. Female consent and female collateral damage is not considered worth considering.

Male supremacism. You cannot call this anything else.

Franca123 · 17/09/2021 12:47

I've been really shocked and disappointed by how little society cares about women in prison. I had no idea people had such little regard for them.

EsmaCannonball · 17/09/2021 12:43

I saw this case on Twitter earlier and I'd like to say I can't believe it but these are daily events now. The thing about totalitarianism is that its adherents can see the injustices and cruelties enacted in its name but they think its ultimate goal is worth it. Nobody is fooled by this man but there are people who will overlook the unfairness and danger here because getting everyone to chant 'Trans Women Are Women!' is more important to them. It's a men's rights movement.

We're also asked to believe that men's prisons are utter hell for transwomen. I reckon it was hell for many old school transsexuals, but the authorities need to ask themselves why so many men declare they are women only once in the system. The benefits obviously outweigh any risks.

catzwhiskas · 17/09/2021 12:26

Very few people think this is Ok. But it is the result of well funded TRA groups capturing governments, organisations and charities to pretend there will be no problems. And of course rampant misogyny that is not listening to women. The argument about surgery or not is irrelevant . Men can still be dangerous to women whatever their identity or if they have undergone feminisation surgery. Isn’t the election in Canada this week?

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