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New Yorker tackles Feminism and Gender

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Needmoresleep · 09/09/2021 20:44

And gives a not entirely flattering nod to Mumsnet

"In the U.K., trans-exclusionary activists have worn buttons proclaiming that they were “Radicalised by Mumsnet,” Britain’s largest online platform for parents. On message boards, mothers, justifiably aggrieved by a lack of material support and social recognition, are encouraged to direct their ire at the “trans lobby.”"

They really don't get it, but at least there is reporting. I will see if I can post a link. If not it is long so I will give some quotes.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2021 13:49

It also doesn't acknowledge male/female power dynamics, which are key.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2021 13:47

I see a big problem in the kind of movement which argues that women's movements should cater for all causes worthy of attention in this world, even if they do not directly affect women (as in vulva people, to be progressive here). The problem with that is the lack of resources to fix everything and the obvious question why no other movement is expected to be equally inclusive.

It's about lack of boundaries, or the demand that women have none and that women should always place others ahead of their own needs.

It is.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2021 13:45

There are some good threads about her other writing on this.

Franca123 · 10/09/2021 13:36

It was motherhood not mumsnet which radicalised me. It's so patronising to suggest that just because I'm a mother I'm easily influenced in a way non mums aren't. Dare I say sexist too? I had an upward career trajectory in a male dominated field. Outearning my male partner and most of my male friends. Started ivf, had my remit slashed. Got pregnant, happened again. Had to make a formal complaint against my line manager for serious maternity discrimation which was upheld. Got pregnant again. By this point I was being paid by my employer but 100 percent sidelined. I did zero work for months and they said nothing. Made redundant whilst on second mat leave. Got a big pay off because they were shitting themselves. This btw is a very woke employer. 'Use the toilets of your preferred gender'. 'Only white people can be racist'. 'Women in Tech Women in Tech Women in Tech'. Sexism at work has largely been solved..... as long as you can maintain the working pattern of a man in the 1950s.

JustSpeculation · 10/09/2021 12:20

Here's another quote:

Sheila Rowbotham, though not averse to relitigating old arguments (especially with Selma James, a founder of the Wages for Housework campaign), admits that “connecting the personal with the political” could pose a particular problem for the movement: “when ruptures appeared these proved all the more painful.” She explains, “Theoretically I did not hold with the notion that because we were women we would wipe away political conflicts, but emotionally, like many other feminists, I was attached to a vision of us birthing a new politics of harmony.”

The essay goes on to say that her students quickly discover that there is disagreement throughout the history of feminist thinking. She says that women discover that their personal discomfort is shared by other women, and that their predicament is a social one, and therefore political. I think a LOT of people would agree with that.

She notes that women's political predicaments are affected by other things than being a woman, such as race and social class. Again, not many would disagree.

But then she goes on to suggest that the solution is intersectional feminism in the sense of a theoretical ideal that all can abide by. A "Harmony". But this form of intersectional feminism subsumes feminism into the greater ideal. And by doing this, it puts the power of deciding what women's interests are into the hands of the people who construct the intersectional theoretical framework. It becomes a top down endeavour. The movement has its priorities as a whole, and works as a whole to bring them about. Dissenters are to be disciplined. Then we can have harmony.

The understanding of GC feminism which I have gleaned off this board and other places is not that though. It's much more bottom up - that the political process itself is the way that any harmony can be achieved. And people's interests are their own to define. Disagreement is not a bad thing. It is to be welcomed, because only through disagreement can you find out what other people think, and find some way of living together.

Amia Srinivasan is concerned to build a better movement. She is not directly concerned to make actual women's lives better.

JustSpeculation · 10/09/2021 11:59

I don’t understand why this doesn’t seem obvious? Is she in a state of denial?

I genuinely think she's looking in the wrong direction.

merrymouse · 10/09/2021 11:58

The idea that the interests of men and women will necessarily differ to an extent because of their different roles in reproduction, and that feminism is based on women's right to identify and work politically for their own interests as a class is not apparent anywhere in the essay.

I don’t understand why this doesn’t seem obvious? Is she in a state of denial?

JustSpeculation · 10/09/2021 11:47

I thought it was a very interesting article and I have saved it, to read again. The writer has not represented a "gender critical" position in any way that I recognise - though I am quite new to this, and may have missed it. She doesn't address the GC position from the point of view of the people (women and men) holding it. She seems to be more concerned with looking at the effects of the movement on some universal feminist culture, and then reverse engineering it from there. This means that she misses the point, because she's not really looking at it.

The idea that the interests of men and women will necessarily differ to an extent because of their different roles in reproduction, and that feminism is based on women's right to identify and work politically for their own interests as a class is not apparent anywhere in the essay.

One section which really stood out for me is when she said:

Meanwhile, trans-exclusionary feminists often criticize trans women for embracing stereotypical femininity. A few years ago, the British philosopher Kathleen Stock tweeted, “I reject regressive gender stereotypes for women, which is partly why I won’t submit to an ideology that insists womanhood is a feeling, then cashes that out in sexist terms straight from 50s.”

She fails to explain in any way how Stock's statement criticises transwomen for embracing stereotypical femininity. Her example does not exemplify what she thinks it does. Stock is clearly saying here that it is not such stereotypes which make a woman, but something else. It is not a criticism of men who present stereotypically as women, but a claim that by doing so they do not become women. The fact that the writer does not realise this is, perhaps, a result of her complete failure to actually engage with Stock's position.

What happened to Kathleen Stock, by the way? Her twitter account has been down for ages.

Xoxoxoxoxoxox · 10/09/2021 11:38

So who was she radicalised by?
How did she become so radicalised that she's willing to throw away the rights of British women and put her name to this ideology, that she is willing to put her reputation on the line in an article that she must know is is so scarce on facts and detail.
I doubt she believed that transwomen were actually women 10 years ago.

Needmoresleep · 10/09/2021 11:25

Thanks EmbarrassingAdmissions. I present you with an alternative advocate, covering the resignation of a Professor in Oregon:

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9973427/PIERS-MORGAN-woke-destruction-great-educator-terrify-one-us.html

"I was a member of a school debating society when I was just ten years old and can still remember how invigorating it was to argue with my peer group about issues in the news.

But the teacher who conducted these sessions always insisted we respect other opinions to our own.

‘Just because you feel strongly about something, that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re right,’ she would regularly caution. ‘But you should always be entitled to have your own opinion, just as everyone else is entitled to theirs.’

For me, that principle is the very cornerstone of freedom of speech and expression which in turn are the very cornerstones of democracy."

There is obviously a debate to be had about whether Piers Morgan has a legitimate voice, but that debate might be illuminating in itself. And not dissimilar to our professor dismissing views expressed on MN.

It will sound dramatic, but we are seeing a clampdown on freedom of expression just about everywhere: in China with recent arrests of influencers, films stars and entrepreneurs; in the Islamic world; and importantly in the West. The internet makes it so much easier to doxx and cancel people. Our ability to have real debate and freedom of speech is so important and eventually allows for our society to be ruled by informed consensus.

(I am a tight skate, and so used to read the Mail and Guardian on-line delighting in instances of "they would say that wouldn't they" and enjoying the requirement to use my own critical faculties to form/reconfirm my opinion. Then the Guardian became so irritating it was unreadable. I love the way that MN gives me a window into other people's views and experiences. I may agree or disagree but am usually informed. It is sad that our academic does not venture out of her ivory bubble and test the waters once in a while, dismissing a very large group of diverse women out of hand is not a sign of intellectual curiosity. )

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EmbarrassingAdmissions · 10/09/2021 10:45

Surely a proper academic debate needs to include some alternate voices. Not sham mentions as in the New Yorker article, or non existent as in the case of the LSE conference. The MN coven would be able to suggest plenty.

This is in line with what Haidt has been agitating for with Heterodox Academy - some diversity of perspectives.

heterodoxacademy.org/

I attended an interview (non-public) the other day with the authors of The Power of Us - One of the topics was the value of having people who disagree within groups or committees. It was not so much that the disagreement was well founded but the intervention of someone who disagreed seemed to embolden others to disagree - and that might be where the valued basis for disagreement could be aired and scrutinised.

Needmoresleep · 10/09/2021 10:28

A bit off-topic but what is happening with UK Universities? About time to suggest that GC women also have safe spaces, perhaps?

You may be sorry you missed it yesterday, but LSE decided yesterday celebrated Pride month by inviting Pips Bunce and Antonia Belcher, a BBC news journalist, and some diversity and inclusion experts to "celebrate and reflect on the success of the Pride movement through a behavioural science lens".

www.lse.ac.uk/Events/2021/09/202109091700/pride

I have no problem with middle class middle aged white men exploring the boundaries of societal expectations, and choosing not to conform. But that does not make them spokespeople for lesbians. Their lived experience is different.

This conference, and our New Yorker writer's Oxford professorship, illustrates the extent of the capture. I was genuinely interested in the New Yorker article. I subscribe because the New Yorker provides in depth, usually well-researched, articles, sometimes with a different US perspective, on a wide range of topics. But, genuinely, I struggled to understand what this one was about. Feminist names were slung around but no rigour, no argument and counter-argument. Based on the speaker list, the LSE conference will be the same. The bubble patting each other on the back, at a time when women, both in the UK (eg post pandemic work issues, or self image in the age of social media) and internationally (Afghanistan for starters) are facing new and difficult hurdles.

Bloody Pips Bunce. My recollection is that they were once invited to attend a discussion about the future of the girl guides held at the then speakers house. I am sure they are a perfectly OK bank computer guy - indeed I know someone who works with them, but being trans seems to bestow magic powers. Ditto our Oxford professor. Writing the right stuff for the right audience, is clearly a good career move. Stay with in the bubble and you get lots or conference invitations, research grants, and academic citations. (Prof Sally Hines at Sheffield is another example.)

Surely a proper academic debate needs to include some alternate voices. Not sham mentions as in the New Yorker article, or non existent as in the case of the LSE conference. The MN coven would be able to suggest plenty.

I assume some gender studies academics hate MN is that it gives women, of all shapes, sizes, colours, and life experiences, a voice. And that this voice does not tie in neatly with the theories they are peddling. So they have to either give specious excuses, "justifiably aggrieved by a lack of material support and social recognition", or simply attack and invalidate.

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sharksarecool · 10/09/2021 09:00

@LittoralViolets

The quote posted above is indicative. Does she ever look at MN?

I don't think she does. She seems to have gained her understanding of MN from articles like this one:

lux-magazine.com/article/the-road-to-terfdom/

...some of these newly “gender critical” Mumsnetters were relatively privileged women who had never felt marginalized until they gave birth and came to feel isolated in their nuclear households and (rightfully!) outraged at the lack of support for mothers in the U.K. They turned to Mumsnet for solidarity, and somehow became fixated on trans women in the process.

Mumsnet’s women’s rights forum didn’t just offer women a safe space to organize. By providing a platform that tolerated TERFism, it had also handed users a convenient scapegoat for all of their problems — not austerity, not misogyny, but the relatively tiny and extremely marginalized and oppressed trans population.

She could have done some research of her own just by reading some threads, and could even have asked us some questions to help her understanding. Instead she just quotes someone else who clearly doesn't have a clue about what we discuss on here.

I think there are a number of people who avoid Mumsnet itself and base their views on articles like this, in the same way that they might choose to avoid reading an actual JKR blog piece and instead base their opinions on what Twitter says.

Mumsnet is not a "safe space" so you can't just go clicking on it willy-nilly in case the literal violence of different opinions is too triggering.

merrymouse · 10/09/2021 08:24

But my women students quickly discover, as an earlier generation did, that there is no monolithic “women’s experience”: that their experiences are inflected by distinctions in class, race, and nationality, by whether they are trans or cis, gay or straight, and also by the less classifiable distinctions of political instinct—their feelings about authority, hierarchy, technology, community, freedom, risk, love.

Except there is something that women share - biology and it’s impact.

Everything else is related to cultural and societal expectations which vary from place to place and time to time like gender.

merrymouse · 10/09/2021 08:11

owing to her involvement with Woman’s Place U.K., an organization that advocates the exclusion of trans women from women’s spaces.

No, an organisation that, among other things, advocates for the exclusion of men from women’s spaces. How is that difficult to understand?

There is no reason to segregate by gender, (because what does gender mean?). There is sometimes a need to segregate by sex.

Xiaoxiong · 10/09/2021 08:10

That being said, having children is not a necessary precursor to being a feminist. I was just a privileged blinkered fool before having a baby made me wake up (does this make me "woke" Grin) I didn't know anyone with kids and probably wouldn't have listened anyway, even if someone had tried to get it through my thick privileged skull.

Xiaoxiong · 10/09/2021 08:07

Motherhood was what radicalised me. I read on here once the perfect description of my experience - I never experienced sexism and basically felt 100% equality to my male colleagues and friends, but when I had kids it was like I was a bird flying head-first into the glass door of the patriarchy.

Even GC women who don't have children can make this assumption - I love the blocked and reported podcast but the most recent episode had Megan Murphy and Katherine Herzog discussing how they don't think the patriarchy really exists in the west any longer - I was like, yeah I thought so too...until I had a baby!

BraveBananaBadge · 10/09/2021 08:06

In the last 12 months or so I've been increasingly disappointed in the New Yorker and it's bias/ ignorance on this issue. Previously I would have taken its word on anything and it's staff writers are largely excellent. They've shown a real fallibility here that I really would have thought beneath it.

Think I've previously linked to a podcast episode that out and out called Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie and JKR t*s.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 10/09/2021 07:56

The attacks on mother’s Abd motherhood are so enraging & patronising

Also she’s quite clearly never gone to the original source ie mumsnet boards to check her facts/interpretation (which is so poor for an academic) because if she had, she’d know that there’s a large number of GC women on this board who are not mothers

RoyalCorgi · 10/09/2021 07:50

On message boards, mothers, justifiably aggrieved by a lack of material support and social recognition, are encouraged to direct their ire at the “trans lobby.”"

This is very much the line that Laurie Penny came out with when she graced feminism chat with her presence all those years ago.

The view is that if you're a mother, you must be a bit stupid. You are gullible and easily influenced into misguidedly directing your ire at trans people instead of at the government.

There are a number of obvious ripostes to this. One is, obviously, that if she'd ever bothered to read this board, she'd know it's full of very highly educated women, including lawyers, doctors and academics - most of whom have a far greater understanding of the trans issue than she does.

Another is that, like Judith Butler, who calls us fascists, she resorts to ad hominem attacks because she hasn't got a decent argument. She can't respond intelligently to our arguments, so she patronises us instead.

Perhaps most importantly, she clearly thinks that women's brains fall out when they become mothers. One of the things we often point out here is that motherhood has radicalised us: once we become mothers we understand the role that biology plays in our oppression. We accumulate disadvantages: we lose our jobs, we are paid less money, we become slaves to our children, and we are patronised by people who don't value what we do. And by her condescending dismissal of mothers as gullible fools, Srinivasan precisely proves our point for us - without apparently even realising that she has done so.

The chair Srinivasan occupies is apparently highly prestigious. If this is the best that Oxford has to offer, then I'd worry for its future.

EmbarrassingAdmissions · 09/09/2021 23:08

She could have done some research of her own just by reading some threads, and could even have asked us some questions to help her understanding. Instead she just quotes someone else who clearly doesn't have a clue about what we discuss on here.

She might have chosen to speak to Prof. Sarah Pedersen or read her books about MN. That would have been a reasonable thing for an academic to have done.

However, a polemical text such as Srinivasan's will not incite if it's evidence based and that's the rub of it.

LittoralViolets · 09/09/2021 22:26

The quote posted above is indicative. Does she ever look at MN?

I don't think she does. She seems to have gained her understanding of MN from articles like this one:

lux-magazine.com/article/the-road-to-terfdom/

...some of these newly “gender critical” Mumsnetters were relatively privileged women who had never felt marginalized until they gave birth and came to feel isolated in their nuclear households and (rightfully!) outraged at the lack of support for mothers in the U.K. They turned to Mumsnet for solidarity, and somehow became fixated on trans women in the process.

Mumsnet’s women’s rights forum didn’t just offer women a safe space to organize. By providing a platform that tolerated TERFism, it had also handed users a convenient scapegoat for all of their problems — not austerity, not misogyny, but the relatively tiny and extremely marginalized and oppressed trans population.

She could have done some research of her own just by reading some threads, and could even have asked us some questions to help her understanding. Instead she just quotes someone else who clearly doesn't have a clue about what we discuss on here.

Needmoresleep · 09/09/2021 22:05

“Mother’s” not “others”

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Needmoresleep · 09/09/2021 22:04

Thanks Old Crone. An Oxford professor, no less.

When posting I had taken the easy route of just posting the link because I was not sure what to make of the article.
When I don’t really understand “clever” article I am still too quick to assume that the problem lies with me not the writer. In this case I am pretty sure it’s the writer. The author seems to be trying to give an appearance of balance by mentioning a number of respected feminists but then quoting Shon Faye, at length, as a substitute for argument.

The quote posted above is indicative. Does she ever look at MN? If she did it would be pretty obvious that few can be defined by their role as others. And why so patronising. I personally am not aggrieved by a lack of material support and social recognition. I am doing just fine. Which does not stop me being concerned that those who are doing less well, especially the vulnerable, and who stand to lose most from the loss of women’s ability to define themselves and protect themselves, their children and their spaces.

On one of the other threads her writing was described as intellectual wanking. Sort of sums it up.

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EarthSight · 09/09/2021 21:55

On message boards, mothers, justifiably aggrieved by a lack of material support and social recognition, are encouraged to direct their ire at the “trans lobby.

I can't get over that sentence. It's so patronising it's beyond. Our concerns regarding our own rights are reduced to a response about not getting social recognition. That assertion is something I would expect to read in certain right wing publications. It completely misunderstands and misrepresents the issue. Unbelievable.

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