Dh peaked last night…

For people not knowing what ladydicks are (and who don’t want to google), I believe that quite a few were tweeted as pictures at JK Rowling. On a Twitter feed aimed at children. Baroness Nicholson got a few as well. Some may still be there.

Baroness Nicholson got fewer after she answered one tweet so her entire Twitter following saw the picture (and Twitter profile)

JK Rowling was worried about the children, (no answers) but I think the pictures were fewer after she a) involved her solicitors and b) threatened to rate them out of 10. She said something along the lines of “the highest so far is 5/10 and that was only for the effort the owner went through covering it in glitter”.

Although DS is not much older than OPs DD and it wouldn't fly for him either.

extreme nativity

Amen to this. If conception is immaculate, who cares which genitals are being used, amirite kids?

These are real issues being asked by people. The fact I can’t answer a simple question about it is outrageous.

I said exactly what trans women say lady dick is. How is that a deletable offence? It is because I expressed incredulity that we’re all being expected to go along with it?

I’m sorry I can’t tag any of the posts , but , dear god ! Do ever think we’ve woken up on the wrong side of the looking glass ? A person with a penis saying I’m a woman and if you don’t happily have sex with me your all sorts of wrong . I can’t see this ending well for people born without penises or those who … you know what I’m lost … I wish you a path out of this mess 💐💐💐

Two of my comments have been deleted answering the question about what lady dick is. I’ve asked mumsnet hq why this is.

I said nothing abusive.

This is ridiculous

Aaaaand I can't spell

Sorry forgot to say - that could be what LOOSING HIS SHIT looks like in OPs house

Therefore when the volume goes up a few decibels and he exclaims "What a load of shit" it stands out.

It really isn't abuse.

Seriously, a heated discussion with a teen about something quite important which gets a bit sweary is not the child abuse some believe it is

However letting our kids enter relationships thinking that they are not permitted a genital preference is on the way to it and is jolly big problem indeed.

That finally became the prevailing view a few decades back Crystalvas and then for some reason, from maybe a decade ago, there's been a strong push by trans activists to overturn this. We are living in strange times.

However, it is still ok to use bisexual if you are a woman attracted to men and amab enbies. (Ie, men and men wearing eye-liner.) Or a man attracted to women and afab enbies. (Ie, women and women with short hair and wearing baggy t-shirts.)

Not sure where to even start with this gem!

So if I went and had a haircut and put one of my many baggy t-shirts on my BF would be bi-sexual. What happens when I put a blouse on? Is he straight again?

Regressive bullshit!

Purplewithred: very few transwomen have gender reassignment surgery. Therefore, most, probably nearly all, still have their male genitalia. Some transwomen, and many trans activists, take the view that because "transwomen are women" and that a surgical transition is irrelevant to someone become a transwoman, then an unmodified transwoman's body is a woman's body, and the genitalia of that body is a woman's genitalia. In other words, there might be a penis but it's a penis on a woman's body, ie a ladycock.

Just for the sake of clarity, although I'm explaining, this is not a position I go along with.

I learned that lesson with dragon butter thank you You win the post of the week from me!!!

all Purplewithred

It’s a boy in a dress who is a lesbian dating OPs daughter.

Am I the only one who doesn't know what ladycock is/means/relates to?

And no, I'm not going to google it, I learned that lesson with dragon butter thank you.

Everyone is entitled to their own sexual preferences and can say no based on anything. And they’re no transphobic as a result!

If only that were true.

They were the good old days when you can actually choose what kind of person you want to sleep with, and not be labelled as anything sinister for doing so. We are in the enlightened age of being silenced now. We have to accept everything or else..

However, it is still ok to use bisexual if you are a woman attracted to men and amab enbies. (Ie, men and men wearing eye-liner.) Or a man attracted to women and afab enbies. (Ie, women and women with short hair and wearing baggy t-shirts.)

Everyone is entitled to their own sexual preferences and can say no based on anything. And they’re no transphobic as a result!

@SquirryTheSquirrel oh go and derail somewhere else FFS. The OP’s daughter hardly sounds like a delicate flower who was terrified. Sounds like she gave as good as she got. And while being extremely disrespectful to boot.

I think op may have been referring to the seen the light element and perhaps not the words used, that was my interpretation anyway

Same

And men are definitely allowed to have sexual boundaries, and be able to vocalise those boundaries if they want to.