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Boys school and Transgirls

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OurMamInHavianas · 11/08/2021 01:35

I’m wondering if a transgirl can apply to a all-boys school?
Don’t girls typically perform better in exams in primary/early secondary, so any entrance exam or 11 plus/12 plus/13 plus exams would favour a female-born person.
So, we could end up with some boys’ school being populated with a large percentage of female-born people?

Just asking out of interest - this doesn’t affect me or my family personally.

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Whatwouldscullydo · 11/08/2021 10:38

You don't need to let them join the girls team or get changed in the girls changing room as that would discriminatory towards girls and a breach of safeguarding

Unfortunately things like this seem to be an "easy fix" for schools.

Given what many schools struggle with sue to societal intake vs a complete lack.of funding ( yeah tories thanks for that ) , I worry these kids are being used by schools to show their diversity /inclusion status.

Uts something they can do very easily and get a certificate. It's seen as something "positive" to advertise , that's easily achievable. I worry for the kids being used that way it's not for their benefit.

RoyalCorgi · 11/08/2021 10:34

But I thought gender reassignment only legally applied to adults. For anyone under 18, the protected characteristics of gender reassignment doesn't exist so boys schools wouldn't have to admit any girls and vice versa with girls schools.

This is what makes it difficult legally. As a PP said, the legal definition of "gender reassignment" is very vague, and includes individuals who are planning to change gender:

"A person has the protected characteristic of gender reassignment if the person is proposing to undergo, is undergoing or has undergone a process (or part of a process) for the purpose of reassigning the person's sex by changing physiological or other attributes of sex."

So a competent lawyer could argue that a 13-year old could have gender reassignment as a protected characteristic.

However, we also know that there are single-sex exemptions under the Equality Act. I'm not sure if schools would fall under this.

Tibtom · 11/08/2021 10:25

Letting boys who identify as girls into a girls school but not boys who identify as boys would be discrimination against boys who identify as boys on the basis of gender reassignment. Schools may discriminate entry on the basis of sex (for single sex schools) and age and academic ability.

Tibtom · 11/08/2021 10:21

But I thought gender reassignment only legally applied to adults. For anyone under 18, the protected characteristics of gender reassignment doesn't exist so boys schools wouldn't have to admit any girls and vice versa with girls schools.

The protected characteristic of gender reassignment applies to all ages but doesn't mean they must be treated as the sex they identify with. It means you can't exclude a boy who identifies as a girl from a boys school or rugby team. You can't require a transgirl to sit at the back of the class or not allow them on a day out. You don't need to let them join the girls team or get changed in the girls changing room as that would discriminatory towards girls and a breach of safeguarding.

Whatwouldscullydo · 11/08/2021 10:13

I would question the sanity of a parent who attempted this tbh. Their female child wouldn't exactly be safe on the sports field or getting changed.

I would hope that any boys identifying as girls whatever that actually means would be supported and allowed to explore their identity amongst their friends at the boys school.

What I worry will.happen is as with prisons. That boys will get the best of both worlds, that they can choose to remain where they are in the boys school as males do in the masons. And then they can pick what female oriented establishments they can also attend if they wish.

Usually boys get to keep their spaces and girls have theirs made mixed sex.

ErrolTheDragon · 11/08/2021 10:12

That 'assigned male at birth' - rather than simply 'male' - would lead to them being discriminatory if a male child with a VSD which had led to him being misidentified as female at birth and only correctly diagnosed at puberty. This probably shouldn't happen nowadays in the U.K. but it isn't impossible.

OurMamInHavianas · 11/08/2021 10:05

@theThreeofWeevils

We’re not allowed to use the clearerterms used elsewhere on this forum No, you just got it 180° wrong. Your concern is pesky biological females colonising boys' selective schools, or have I also misunderstood?
Genuine error. I don’t think biological females are “pesky”.

With boys being allowed to join girls guides, and men taking places in women’s sports, and, as a previous poster mentioned, men being allowed to stay in the men-only Freemasons even if they say they are a woman. But women saying they are a man are not allowed to inherit titles such as lordships.

It seems the male-born people get to do what they like, but the girls and women don’t. I was interested to see how it would work with school places in single-sex schools.

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YetAnotherSpartacus · 11/08/2021 10:00

Boys' schools would worry about the safety of the TB and the dignity of the boys (so the TB would be denied entry to a place that 'matched their gender'.

Girl's' schools would (have -as in this has happened) worry about the safety of TG - so girls would have to budge over.

See a pattern here?

WarOnWoman · 11/08/2021 09:30

@EverythingsComingUpRoses

Gender reassignment is a protected characteristic-and that means at all stages of reassignment

I'd be very interested to see what would happen if this was challenged legally

I can imagine people being up in arms unlike when biological males want to join the guides and it's all 'settle down dears!'

But I thought gender reassignment only legally applied to adults. For anyone under 18, the protected characteristics of gender reassignment doesn't exist so boys schools wouldn't have to admit any girls and vice versa with girls schools.

Runningupthecurtains · 11/08/2021 09:14

"Bonus that they don’t say assigned. I hate that phrasing - makes it sound like a random pick as baby emerges"
To me it always brings to mind the Hogwarts sorting hat.

IvyTwines2 · 11/08/2021 09:10

@timeisnotaline yes, the creeping introduction of the term 'assigned at birth' is gaslighting a generation to mistrust the medical and scientific profession: "doctors, huh, what do they know! Trust a bunch of internet strangers identifying your 'feelz' instead." It's in the same territory as the antivaxxer, Scopes Trial stuff.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 11/08/2021 09:07

Am I right in thinking that the meaning of 'gender reassignment' is not very clear from the Equality Act? Whereas we all know what we mean by male/female, and used to be very clear what woman/girl/man/boy and other sex-related terms meant.

The terms transwoman/transman/transboy/transgirl are extremely confusing. I doubt this is accidental. I much prefer the ones we're not allowed to use here, which get abbreviated to something like the speaking clock of yore and an image format acronym.

Anyway, the Masons have so far been able to continue to exclude females from membership, while allowing transwomen who were members before transition to stay on.

Also, of course, famously the GRA makes it plain that a a female who transitions and gets a GRC will still be a female for the purposes of who inherits a peerage - so elder daughters are still behind sons in the queue to become a Lord, Duke, Earl etc. Revealing.

Tibtom · 11/08/2021 09:05

@EverythingsComingUpRoses

Gender reassignment is a protected characteristic-and that means at all stages of reassignment

I'd be very interested to see what would happen if this was challenged legally

I can imagine people being up in arms unlike when biological males want to join the guides and it's all 'settle down dears!'

You must not treat a boy differently from other boys because he identifies as a girl. So it would be discriminatory if a boys school asked a transgirl to leave.
1940s · 11/08/2021 08:54

@HirplesWithHaggis

I read it more as a genuine error, with a touch of "wouldn't it be amusing if female-born people took over the exclusive boys clubs of private schooling". Which is a feeling I can smirk at, tbh.
As did I ;)
timeisnotaline · 11/08/2021 08:26

@BingBongSong

I screenshotted this from the admissions policy of a boys' school.
Bonus that they don’t say assigned. I hate that phrasing - makes it sound like a random pick as baby emerges instead of what it is- I know what sex the baby I’m 12 weeks pregnant with is.
EverythingsComingUpRoses · 11/08/2021 08:21

Gender reassignment is a protected characteristic-and that means at all stages of reassignment

I'd be very interested to see what would happen if this was challenged legally

I can imagine people being up in arms unlike when biological males want to join the guides and it's all 'settle down dears!'

BingBongSong · 11/08/2021 08:16

I screenshotted this from the admissions policy of a boys' school.

Boys school and Transgirls
Bryonyshcmyony · 11/08/2021 08:08

I agree with it

Dd gets pissed off with PSHE though where the teacher bangs on about how it's important to use people's pronouns and how they'd be discriminatory not to let a boy who identified as a girl in, but then when dd asks if she could go to the allied boys school if she identified as a boy, the teachers gets all huffy and says no of course not

Tibtom · 11/08/2021 08:03

@Bryonyshcmyony

My dds single sex girls school has said it will support girls who identify as boys but not allow male born people identifying as girls.

Not sure how they stand legally with this

They are in line with the law which is based on sex not vague concepts of identifying as something.
Aroundtheworldin80moves · 11/08/2021 08:03

Children can't change their legal sex. Birth certificates sex will enable the elite schools to pick their students...

Tibtom · 11/08/2021 08:01

This is why trans girls/trans women should not be used. OP won't be the only one making that mistake and is why when told TWAW the reply is sometimes a confusef 'of course': people not familiar with the debate think you are referring to an adult human female who identifies as a man.

PinkPlantCase · 11/08/2021 08:00

The 11+ exam generally favours boys. Even in the mixed grammar schools in our area there are more boys than girls because they tend to get higher test score on the types of questions in the 11+

timeisnotaline · 11/08/2021 07:58

I think single sex schools will probably take the path of sex based access? Coed schools is where the issues will occur.

Bryonyshcmyony · 11/08/2021 07:56

My dds single sex girls school has said it will support girls who identify as boys but not allow male born people identifying as girls.

Not sure how they stand legally with this

Warmduscher · 11/08/2021 07:53

@HirplesWithHaggis

Trans girls are "assigned male at birth".
No one is assigned a sex at birth - I’m assuming your quote marks are to show you know that to be the case?