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MaudTheInvincible · 10/08/2021 19:17

Is trending at number 1 in the UK at present. I haven't been around all day so I'm not sure what this has happened in response to and came here to find out, but there aren't any threads. Heart breaking reading these stories and the effects on rape victims who can't access support services because they've been excluded by male-centring policy.

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Rhannion · 17/08/2021 16:54

It’s appalling and becoming more appalling with every day. The joining of dots and seeing the connections between many of the people involved is mind blowing and not in a good way.

WeAreTheWomen · 17/08/2021 15:34

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ArabellaScott · 17/08/2021 12:18

@Tibtom

Though a page admin can delete comments on facebook.
Facebook posts there show more than 60 comments, but I can only see about half a dozen. So someone is deleting.
Artichokeleaves · 17/08/2021 10:35

@NachoBabe

FindTheTruth: we believe there has been a breach of copyright, yes, hence the kerfuffle. I am advising my friend to lawyer up and go to the press because the ERC are in damage control mode regarding this and other negative press right now.
I sincerely hope your friend feels able to do this. This abysmal situation needs to be all over the press as a national scandal, for multiple reasons. This is politics at its very muckiest.
Datun · 17/08/2021 10:16

@NachoBabe

FindTheTruth: we believe there has been a breach of copyright, yes, hence the kerfuffle. I am advising my friend to lawyer up and go to the press because the ERC are in damage control mode regarding this and other negative press right now.
Bloody hell. It speaks volumes doesn't it, that the women who wrote this book have not only been done over but their efforts, not to mention their experiences, are being used as a resource by MW.
FindTheTruth · 17/08/2021 08:26

NachoBabe solidarity to you and your friend. 💐

NachoBabe · 17/08/2021 08:23

FindTheTruth: we believe there has been a breach of copyright, yes, hence the kerfuffle. I am advising my friend to lawyer up and go to the press because the ERC are in damage control mode regarding this and other negative press right now.

FindTheTruth · 17/08/2021 07:17

Do ERCC have permission from the authors of Rising Free to distribute it? Hope this isn't a derail but it speaks to the attitude of MW / ERCC ignoring survivors and rape victims voices.

www.ercc.scot/rising-free/
Rising Free is a deeply moving anthology of creative writing by survivors who have used our services.

HOW TO GET A COPY
Copies of Rising Free, are available by donation from our centre or can be posted out for a donation, plus £3 postage and packaging. Please email [email protected] if you would like a copy.

FindTheTruth · 17/08/2021 07:11

[quote Chickenyhead]twitter.com/shirleyross78/status/1426075606345715712?s=19[/quote]
using the ‘Rising Free’ book on TGF without consent from the authors, who are themselves survivors

trying to get my head around what's going on. Have The guilty feminists and Wadwha taken the book, edited it and passed off the work as the original? What format is it in? Is it a free book to help survirvors? is it being sold anywhere? Is it a book or a an PDF?

INAL but isn't this a copyright/theft type issue?

EXCERPTS from twitter.
Rising Free authors.

the book is being advertised through the @GuiltFemPod by the new manager without any of us knowing

there Are 7 authors my chapter has been removed.

Why has my chapter been removed?

Why is the book being used without us knowing?

LastSummerHere · 17/08/2021 07:09

Has there ever been such a disastrous appointment? Has this person done anything right since he took on the role? And why the people responsible for hiring and hiring are just sitting on their hands is beyond me....surely he would still be under probation. He is utterly incompetent and the wrong person for a whole host of reasons. Not least because he isn't a woman!

Tibtom · 17/08/2021 00:50

Though a page admin can delete comments on facebook.

WeAreTheWomen · 16/08/2021 23:32

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FOJN · 16/08/2021 21:25

I've seen this somewhere too. Probably on twitter, maybe on #AskRapeCrisisScot or on forwomenscot sometime over the weekend.

KittenKong · 16/08/2021 20:43

I await it hitting the mainstream (and the excuses to follow).

NachoBabe · 16/08/2021 20:27

No it’s not hit socials yet. Mumsnet exclusive. I’ve got screenshots but it’s not my place to call how the authors decide to handle it so can’t give more details yet, apologies.

WeAreTheWomen · 16/08/2021 20:18

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NachoBabe · 16/08/2021 20:02

(Hi, sorry, new here, long time lurker, second-time poster: I posted this in another thread and was kindly redirected.)

MW is in hot water regarding using the ‘Rising Free’ book on TGF without consent from the authors, who are themselves survivors, and failed to contact any of them since being appointed CEO over three months ago. A non-apology email has been sent to the group.

LoislovesStewie · 15/08/2021 06:52

[quote Jaysmith71]...advises the police on violance against immigrant women, but sides with Yaniv, despite not being familiar with the details....

grahamlinehan.substack.com/p/wadhwa-yaniv-and-the-all-about-me[/quote]
Many thanks for the link; it is truly shocking that a person will tie themselves on knots rather than admit the obvious. Natal women are being abused by men, and it's OK? I'm speechless.

Jaysmith71 · 14/08/2021 18:04

...advises the police on violance against immigrant women, but sides with Yaniv, despite not being familiar with the details....

grahamlinehan.substack.com/p/wadhwa-yaniv-and-the-all-about-me

severnboring · 14/08/2021 17:58

@severnboring

If you want to report a woman to the police for hate crime - let's say for referring to a convicted rapist as 'he' - the College of Police guidelines say:

'The victim does not have to justify or provide evidence of their belief...police officers or staff should not directly challenge this perception'.

If you're a woman in Edinburgh who has been raped and you want a female-only service, your bigoted beliefs and perceptions are to be challenged and reframed.

Heads I win, tails you lose.

Posted this yesterday meaning it as a comment on the climate of institutional capture and what it means for women in Scotland.

Saw this today: twitter.com/WeAreFairCop/status/1426446777037819905/photo/1

It's not a wider climate in which Wadwha can operate to Wadwha's advantage and take over a rape crisis org - Wadwha personally created these conditions!

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KittenKong · 14/08/2021 11:33

I love our when people talk a lot misinformation toll or context - when the actual words are there for all to see.

Artichokeleaves · 14/08/2021 10:43

MSP Maggie Chapman said misinformation was being spread about the services

What is being shared and is causing utter outrage is nothing more than the exact information given by the CEO!

If it's misinformation take it up with the CEO. If by misinformation you mean 'talking about things that make us really uncomfortable to face up to' well then good, frankly. Face it. Own it. If it sounds wrong to you, there's a reason for that.

Not mentioning tricky things (like reality) does not disappear it. It is not naughty to keep mentioning reality.

Jellycatspyjamas · 14/08/2021 08:09

Could you not run an equally effective but leaner service with volunteers focusing on the job at hand, keeping overheads to a minimum? These charities increasingly appear to be tools for propaganda rather than organisations to help people in need.

Volunteer led services are still quite expensive to run - either you need to train volunteers (which is costly for this type of service), or draw in people who are already trained. You need people to support the volunteers, and people to recruit and train them. While some volunteers stay with an organisation for years, many more come, get the training and maybe stay for a few months and then you’re back into the recruitment and training cycle.

It’s actually more sustainable to have a small, decently paid staff augmented by a small group of committee volunteers.

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