IAmNotAClownfish: "Back then fat acceptance started as something completely different to what it is now. Originally it was just to say 'we're here, we're fat, we're normal people, don't abuse us' type thing, ie fat acceptance of other people without abuse. Health At Every Size actually started by saying, 'yes, we're fat but that doesn't mean we can't exercise and do healthier things, do what you can and make a start on getting healthier'. Nothing like what it is now."
This is what I recognise too. I didn't realise fat acceptance had become a full on ideology. When I introduced HAES into my workplace it was more like, "Instead of always banging on about losing weight, which often isn't a practical proposition, we should be offering people the best possible care and encouraging evidence based healthy behaviours irrespective of their body size," which seemed eminently compassionate and commonsensical. The big difference is that no other group was put directly at risk as a result.