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Would anyone care to reply to Laurie Penny?

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SpannerInTheWorks · 06/08/2021 07:24

She's posted on Twitter

"I’m fascinated to know what sort of world ‘gender critical’ feminists would like to live in, ideally. What would gender identity look like? What would be acceptable ways for, say, someone assigned male at birth who did not want to be a man?"

twitter.com/PennyRed/status/1423445676810141702

I have a long and articulate response in my head but I'm not out as GC on Twitter and am not ready to be.

Perhaps some of the MN feminists could help her with her fascination?

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FemaleAndLearning · 06/08/2021 23:52

I like these that got shared. Definitions of gender critical and gender identity.

Would anyone care to reply to Laurie Penny?
NiceGerbil · 06/08/2021 22:35

Most of them. LP definitely.

Some will genuinly think it's about enforcing strict gender norms if they only read stuff from a lot of the people/groups pushing/ supporting the mainstream activist points around trans inclusion etc.

NiceGerbil · 06/08/2021 22:32

Lying.

CardinalLolzy · 06/08/2021 21:31

Often on Twitter, generally speaking, the question that comes to mind is 'are they lying or thick?'

Chickenyhead · 06/08/2021 21:24

What a tiresome pile of doo that was.

I have commented, but it seems like a set up.

FOJN · 06/08/2021 20:48

"I’m fascinated to know what sort of world ‘gender critical’ feminists would like to live in, ideally. What would gender identity look like? What would be acceptable ways for, say, someone assigned male at birth who did not want to be a man?"

I wouldn't be arrogant enough to impose my gender atheism on anyone else so gender identity can "look" however it pleases as long as it leaves me alone.

I imagine it's very difficult not wanting to be a man if you are born male but it isn't feminists preventing the individual resolving that difficulty, biology plays a, not insignificant, part in that and unfortunately I don't have the power to sway science.

Remind me again what the hell this has to do with women?

BernardBlackMissesLangCleg · 06/08/2021 20:41

some of the replies, sheesh

Does that mean you're okay with, for example, male-sexed people having "woman" as a gender?

fuck me, of course not you twerp. In a world where there were no sexist stereotypes what would that even mean

god, some people are so fucking sexist they can't even function properly innit?

RoyalCorgi · 06/08/2021 20:37

@CoddledAsAMommet

Surely Gender Critical actually means, 'critical of the concept of gender '? So in a GC world there would not be gender identities or gender roles, just people with a recognised biological sex and personalities?
Exactly so.

I sometimes wonder if LP can possibly be as stupid as she appears to be.

Jorrris · 06/08/2021 19:55

What would be acceptable ways for, say, someone assigned male at birth who did not want to be a man

Why on earth does she think it's a woman's problem to solve. If a man doesn't want to present as a man then don't. As long as born males stay out of womens sex segregated spaces for women, be it toilets, showers, prisons, sport, short lists, women's wards; then I don't care how they decide to present themselves. Not my problem.

NiceGerbil · 06/08/2021 19:50

There was a thread recently where the reason it's not being done that way is because it's pretty much impossible and unlikely to ever happen.

On a feminist board with women who try to do just that, and the history of women around the world who have fought and fought.

Oh and made gains- voting, property rights, not being property themselves (not globally yet but the fight continues).

Nope CBA. This way is easier.

Men are used to getting their own way though aren't they. And having others run around in cut circles to get them what they want. (Group level etc).

NiceGerbil · 06/08/2021 19:46

'*ways for someone who did not want to be a man to live and identify?'

Hmm.

Work with other men to break down the rigid masculine norms that much of society seeks to impose? And the sometimes violent enforcement of those norms by other men?

NiceGerbil · 06/08/2021 19:43

I think LP is just looking for attention to their Twitter.

I don't for one minute believe they don't know what it means.

Also lol at oh no this is rubbish because most things are made with default male in mind.

Transparent.

Floisme · 06/08/2021 17:33

Sorry I was confused about which board I was on. I'm afraid you'll have to visit the naughty corner for the hot tub info - it's on one of the Wi Spa threads.

MoonlightApple · 06/08/2021 16:49

Eh apologies for the autocorrect. It should say Stanisland

MoonlightApple · 06/08/2021 16:49

There’s a thread about it on the other board. Called something about the Stanislavsky question if I remember

GNCQ · 06/08/2021 16:43

Eh?
Naked man?
Hot tub?
When?

Floisme · 06/08/2021 15:00

Given Penny's initial response on Twitter to reports of a naked man getting into a hot tub with a child - not even 'It's a lie' but that the child shouldn't have been looking - I don't think there's any way back for her.

CoddledAsAMommet · 06/08/2021 14:46

Surely Gender Critical actually means, 'critical of the concept of gender '?
So in a GC world there would not be gender identities or gender roles, just people with a recognised biological sex and personalities?

MedusasBadHairDay · 06/08/2021 14:43

It's so tiring isn't it? Especially as you know you can explain until you are blue in the face and they'll just keep on going, "gee those GC feminists really do support conservative gender stereotypes!"

I feel like we're in an asylum saying we're really not mad, and they're just replying to say that this proves we're mad, only a mad person would say that. We can't win.

Doyoumind · 06/08/2021 14:38

Some excellent replies on that thread. Pity they won't make the slightest bit of difference to Laurie, but maybe some will take notice.

MarianneUnfaithful · 06/08/2021 14:32

I’m not saying that being a tiny white woman doesn’t come with other, unearned social privileges, but I’d trade a slice of them to be able to use furniture without hurting myself

Quite offensive, actually.

Melroses · 06/08/2021 14:20

I'm laughing at Baroness Nicholson's reply:

"I’m fascinated to know what sort of world ‘gender critical’ feminists would like to live in, ideally. What would gender identity look like? What would be acceptable ways for, say, someone assigned male at birth who did not want to be a man?"

Complain to their parents as always

🤷‍♀️🤣

FannyCann · 06/08/2021 11:29

Honestly she recently posted something about being furious she'd only just discovered that her back/neck pain were due to her desk height and the default male. Apparently totally ignorant of the workplace assessments that are commonly done so they can tick a box but they probably won't buy you a new desk or special chair not to mention unaware of the work of Caroline Criado-Perez. I think she likes to make a lot of noise but she doesn't do the research and doesn't know what she's talking about half the time.

MarianneUnfaithful · 06/08/2021 10:28

@Floisme

So I won't add to Penny's self aggrandizing Twitter stunt but, for FWR followers: I would like to live in a world where men had sorted out their shit, because then none of this would matter any more.
Yep! This I like.
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