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Just had some interesting conversations with some local election canvassers

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CigarsofthePharoahs · 24/07/2021 12:17

The lib dem candidate knocked on my door first. Asked what I was concerned about in the local area. I did ask about womens rights and was told "we can't affect anything national only local". I pointed out that men getting into women only spaces was as much a local issue as a national one. It was weird, she went from being open and chatty to and almost zombie like "but trans women are women". I hadn't even said the word trans!
There was a big group of Tory canvassers later. So I asked the chap who knocked on my door the same questions. We were broadly on the same page in that we didn't want anyone to be discriminated against for how they present themselves, but that women only spaces needed to be kept so. He told me confidently that only trans women who have had "the works" (his words) done would be allowed in womens spaces. When I told him that this was not true and even getting a GRC doesn't require it he was actually quite shocked. Promised to pass my questions up the command chain.
I wish I had the confidence a lot of you have, I'm actually feeling quite twitchy now, having had actual face to face conversations. I'm also looking at my postal vote and wondering where to put my X.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/07/2021 14:00

I live in hope of one of them knocking on my door.

AnyOldPrion · 24/07/2021 13:35

I'm actually feeling quite twitchy now, having had actual face to face conversations.

There’s courage to be gained in starting these conversations. Given you weren’t put off by the odd reaction of the Lib Dem, and made more progress with the Conservative candidate later, hopefully you’ll feel able to carry on challenging people. Some people seem to feel no fear. It’s those who feel the fear and do it anyway who are truly courageous.

Leafstamp · 24/07/2021 13:12

Excellent OP, well done. I’ve not had a political candidate at my door since I’ve been aware of all of this. I can’t wait for one to knock!

CigarsofthePharoahs · 24/07/2021 12:26

I felt I had to say something, I'd just been reading the puregym threads.

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EmpressWitchDoesntBurn · 24/07/2021 12:21

Excellent work OP. I find writing about this really easy but talking face to face more challenging. Good on you.

ArabellaScott · 24/07/2021 12:20

Well done, OP! This is how we affect change.