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Does anyone ever wonder how this will end?

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dyslek · 12/07/2021 21:22

I can see three scenarios.

  1. women lose and we end up living in some nightmarish high tec version of ancient Rome, where woman and children is a sub human resource to be exploited in anyway a man wants at an given moment.
  2. the mass hysteria quietly dies down and every kind of pretents this was never a thing (and in fact it was only those nasty feminists making a fuss that caused all this misunderstanding in the first place).
  3. due to the sheer insanity of gender idology, society slowly starts to listen to women and the horror of the unfairness wakes everyone up to womans humanity and gender stereotypes and finally totally abandoned and we all live happly ever after.
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Imasoulman · 17/07/2021 09:01

It would definitely be better if those under the trans umbrella were given more definitive names depending on exactly what trans means in their particular case rather than the all encompassing "trans"

Imasoulman · 17/07/2021 08:57

@oldwomanwhoruns

How about the old word we used to use, back in the day, before all this modern stuff - transvestite? It describes the male, middle-aged, middle class, white AGP lot perfectly.

Or Mtf transvestite, to be even clearer?

But I've not tried using this phrase on this here board, so don't know how it plays with the Rules.

I don't like the word "transvestite " for no other reason than it sounds like an ugly word.

Not really sure though why you feel colour and class have a bearing on being a transvestite?

PurpleHoodie · 17/07/2021 08:56

Yes.

Itreallytiedtheroomtogether · 17/07/2021 08:53

@Movingonupupup

One day there might be a world where people are just that people. Humans are humans.

I used to see labels as a good thing man , woman , black , white - but now I see them as boxes to put us in. I long for the day where we see each other as people rather then the Headteacher is a ‘woman’ or it’s great she’s openly gay etc that the Headteacher is just seen as a fantastic HT.

And that's ok when thinking about a headteacher - but as post after post explains, there are certain times when the fact I am a woman matters.
Movingonupupup · 17/07/2021 08:35

One day there might be a world where people are just that people. Humans are humans.

I used to see labels as a good thing man , woman , black , white - but now I see them as boxes to put us in. I long for the day where we see each other as people rather then the Headteacher is a ‘woman’ or it’s great she’s openly gay etc that the Headteacher is just seen as a fantastic HT.

PurpleHoodie · 17/07/2021 08:35

Of course, the existence of detransistioners puts a spanner in the works of language gaurdians.

PurpleHoodie · 17/07/2021 08:33

IsItAKindofDream

MNHQ kept deleting "Tifs" "Tims" "Trans females" "Trans males" and "CIS".

But they've let the sexist slur "cis" stand a lot these days. They seemingly have changed their terms.

Ergo: "Trans identified male" " Trans identified female" is now acceptable to them.

joolzfromyork · 17/07/2021 08:04

@IsItAKindofDream

So we can stop with the misleading term “Transwoman”?

is it misleading ? how? (not picking a fight ...)

I'm not a transwoman but I am a Transsexual Woman ... so do you see this as a misleading term ?

(and to all those of whatever persuasion who have trouble with my using the 'Transsexual word ... grow the fuck up willya ... ?

oldwomanwhoruns · 17/07/2021 08:02

How about the old word we used to use, back in the day, before all this modern stuff - transvestite? It describes the male, middle-aged, middle class, white AGP lot perfectly.

Or Mtf transvestite, to be even clearer?

But I've not tried using this phrase on this here board, so don't know how it plays with the Rules.

DaisiesandButtercups · 17/07/2021 07:34

You haven’t been deleted yet IsItAKindofDream so maybe…
Your first suggestion would be my preferred if it isn’t a deletable offence. Along with correct sex pronouns which is currently a deletable offence.

IsItAKindofDream · 17/07/2021 05:24

Are we allowed to say “Man who identifies as Trans” on here.

Or “Male-to-trans”? MTT?
So we can stop with the misleading term “Transwoman”?

NiceGerbil · 17/07/2021 04:33

Women and transwomen is fine surely? Trans women even.

I don't understand why there's not pride and power in the word.

If TWAW then why the trans groups etc?

It doesn't make sense. When it comes to some stuff it's important to be recognised as women no different in any way-twaw.
But other times the trans ID is important.

End result- it is discrimination for stuff for female people to have anything at all just for us. Even though we are the largest oppressed group on the planet, through history and all over the world.

While both stuff for women and stuff for trans people is open to tw.

Essentially we lose any way to name ourselves as a group which is massive.

Meanwhile tw use the ID of woman or trans depending on what they are doing.

Aparallaxia · 17/07/2021 03:11

@Enough4me

I'd only suggest the word 'real' to be added when it's needed to be really clear to members of the public who may be confused and when transwoman is also used; to be clear for prisons, sports, dating, child protection, healtcare & pregnancy when there is a need for space and services for 'real' women. In all other general situations woman should work as the majority understand that.

The word real would be quicker than saying biologically female.

I'd suggest 'XX women' but that sounds like a porn site.
Enough4me · 17/07/2021 00:21

I'd only suggest the word 'real' to be added when it's needed to be really clear to members of the public who may be confused and when transwoman is also used; to be clear for prisons, sports, dating, child protection, healtcare & pregnancy when there is a need for space and services for 'real' women. In all other general situations woman should work as the majority understand that.

The word real would be quicker than saying biologically female.

NiceGerbil · 17/07/2021 00:13

Real women is awful.

Men have always said she's not a real woman/ proper women/ lady Hmm based on their opinions.

I'd say women and transwomen is fine.

NiceGerbil · 17/07/2021 00:12

Given that (transwomen in the things I've seen) are in involved in both women's groups etc and trans ones.

I really don't understand why transwoman is not an identity to use and celebrate!

Tw have specific experiences etc which make sense focus on.

If TWAW then why the trans things? That's contradictory surely?

Enough4me · 17/07/2021 00:07

There is a better word than cis, the word 'real'. I don't appreciate ciswoman and transwoman, but I'd accept real woman and transwoman.

Female prisons, female sports, female dating apps = real women.

Keepemguessing · 16/07/2021 22:38

NACALT

NiceGerbil · 16/07/2021 20:24

Certain groups obv not all Christians!

NiceGerbil · 16/07/2021 20:23

I'm not sure of the groups it's happening in.

I do know that in a republican state the governor refused to change the minimum age because it would interfere with religious traditions (or similar). I imagine he was talking about Christians.

FloralBunting · 16/07/2021 20:22

Mike Pence is clearly an evil genius. From refusing to be alone in a room with any woman other than his wife to masterminding the machinations of a powerful collective of leftie feminists hell bent on preserving women's rights to their own spaces and bodies.

Hold on, that doesn't sound right...

PurpleHoodie · 16/07/2021 20:20

Not just Christian marriage. All Sects and religions.

PurpleHoodie · 16/07/2021 20:20

NiceGerbil

in some fundamental Christian groups in the USA. Apart from the obvious stuff (abortion etc)

Child marriage is practiced often to legitimise girls being sexually abused by older men resulting in pregnancy.

In the more closed communities mass sexual abuse of women and girls has been uncovered more than once.

Yes. For those wondering why the USofA fully endorses child marriage.

PurpleHoodie · 16/07/2021 20:17

Two for one pub meal deals are on you for the next six months!

Including dessert.

PurpleHoodie · 16/07/2021 20:15

Yes Floral.

I mean. What are the latest stats?

"80% of USAmericans don't have passports" That was from 40/30/20/10 years ago. Still the same? Insular.

And yet Euro/Northern American TRAs n MRAs bombard MN with their skewed information.

Why not Samoan stats? Or Icelandic? Gambian?

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