They want to have sex with women, because they are heterosexual. But heterosexual women only have sex with men. So they don't want those women because it doesn't validate the idea that they themselves are a woman.
So the cohort that works is lesbians.
Lesbians are woman so tick the right sex that they want to have sex with. And lesbians only have sex with women, so the self image is preserved.
The problem is that lesbians don't do dick.
But That's something they don't give a shit about, especially as they can now rename those women 'genital fetishists
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All women: Lesbian, bi-sexual AND heterosexual need to reject these men and their pals. Say "No" in personal settings. You don't owe them an explanation it's because you know/suspect they are women hating prats.