All of DD female friend group at school have a variety of trans IDs.
DD started wearing 2 bra tops to school.
I said oh are you trying to bind? It's not very safe. How about we get a sports bra they squash them in and are designed for it.
Looked on shop.
She didn't want any.
She stopped wearing 2.
I always say ok fine if they want to do GNC stuff. DD would only wear boys clothes when she was pre secondary. Even if the girls ones were the same. It was the label.
I went though a period of despising 'girls' things.
I noticed how I was treated and I didn't like it. From tiny. She got the same message.
She got periods young (before year 6,) and she's very observant. She rejected 'girl'. And who can blame her? I felt the same.
She seems fine now. I still don't care what she wears etc.
I think the shitshow that is female puberty and what it means, loads of girls want an out. And that's normal and fine. As long as they don't fuck their bodies up.