You need to change your title to mention Martine Rothblatt. I clicked on this by accident.
I would have laughed at those theories a few years ago, but now I have begun to understand how strong this male sexual urge is and how neatly it fits with misogyny and sexism, I'm prepared to give it credence. It's noticeable that it's mainly privileged, financially independent white men who go the Rothblatt route and torch their families and their past in pursuit of a sexual fetish.
This interview with a trans widow/ survivor of abuse on Graham Linehan's You Tube channel will give you a glimpse of the extent of it:
grahamlinehan.substack.com/p/a-woman-to-look-out-for-jennifer
So many older, autogynephiliac men who live their life on-line, in a fantasy world with other men, exchanging porn and then seeking women to act it out with and validate themselves. In the past they would have been the only one like them around and it would have been a secret. Now they're an on-line community and they're organised.