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So Mumsnet ignored our request to have something to do with 'feminism' or 'women' in the name of the 'naughty step' subtopic

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StrawberryLipstickStateOfMind · 21/06/2021 16:16

So we now have

Feminist Chat (which was our space anyway)

Sex and gender debate

If they had to go ahead with this spineless nonsense plan, many of us on the preferred names thread suggested it was essential to include feminism in the naughty step topic. You cannot take the debate on sex/gender away from feminism.

I think my suggestion was:

Feminism: Women's Sex Based Rights

LibFem

So not only are they ignoring us and forging ahead with this crap, they've removed any relationship to feminism and women from the subtopic name.

Absolutely disgusted. This feels so reminiscent of the erasure of the word 'women' in so many contexts. To take the word feminist out of this subtopic- @MNHQ can you explain this? Because it's awful.

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Stealhsquirrelnutkin · 22/06/2021 12:31

That said, thank you for the clarity on your position @MNHQ.

You have just told your entire audience our legal rights and protections as a sex class are up for debate.

Yep, nice to have it spelled out so clearly.

A bit concerning that the support thread for transwidows has also been thrown to the wolves, mind. I thought we were all supposed to be exhorting ourselves to "be kind"?

Moving a support thread to a debate board, and signposting it to attract aggressive confrontation doesn't strike me as particularly kind. But then again, the meaning of words keeps changing, so perhaps kindness now means exquisite cruelty?

FlankerMum · 22/06/2021 12:26

Just To be clear, I’m GC, Spartacus etc. I lurk A LOT and rarely post but regularly do share the wonderful analysis of so many of the FWR regulars who I admire and respect enormously.

Maybe we are looking at this the wrong way round? How about if we approached it like this:

  • Feminism Chat has always been our space and still is.
  • MNHQ have created a new board called Feminism: Sex and Gender debate.
  • We will ignore this new board because we don’t believe Women’s sex based rights (which permeate throughout all feminism) are up for debate and as a rule, we don’t believe in gender anyway.
  • We will continue to post in Feminist Chat, centring women and girls, fighting for our sex-based rights to single sex spaces and services as we have always done and anyone wanting to debate what is being talked about can be encouraged to start a thread in the shiny new “Debate” board created exactly for that purpose.

Wouldn’t this work for everyone?

CharlieParley · 22/06/2021 12:18

@LazyHorizon

I wonder if it doesn’t rank that highly in search because people have it bookmarked? It’s a destination forum for feminists. The old one was, I mean.

Or perhaps it’s because Google search results are filtered ideologically and in all other ways to match users’ search histories, so those looking for that kind of content are already likely to know where to find it? Lots of interesting possibilities to consider. Who knows.

20th out of all the forums on MN inc AIBU, Chat, Coronavirus et al seems pretty good to me. Grin

Yes, LazyHorizon, there's another metric you can measure in your site stats (well, there are loads), which is direct entry.

I don't google FWR, I have the board bookmarked. Users having FWR as a landing page was a pretty high number, too.

There is also entry via links from other sites including social media. When I was webmaster of various busy sites, Google search entries were typically our lowest percentages.

However, I would not expect FWR to make up the majority of traffic for MN, given that it's a site for so many different topics. Top 20 board and one in 40 entries from Google search for a website with millions of users is bloody impressive though.

EmpressWitchDoesntBurn · 22/06/2021 11:58

Something else I’m curious about - in the spirit of quality over quantity, do you know which forums have the highest conversion rates for people joining MN?

OldLang · 22/06/2021 11:54

How this can be justified that using uncontextualised stats I'll never know. A fundamental rule of research/data analysis is that a hyper focus on quantitative data makes your findings limited and even misleading especially in reference to complex human beings.

That said, thank you for the clarity on your position @MNHQ.

You have just told your entire audience our legal rights and protections as a sex class are up for debate.
You have your line, we have ours. When the world wakes up to this batshittery, I wonder what imapct that will have on reputation.

Floisme · 22/06/2021 11:52

I totally get the transwidow concerns and I think that needs addressing.

Aside from that issue, and now that 'feminism' is in the name, I'm not too bothered about 'debate'. In fact after all these years of being told there was 'no debate' seeing it up there feels like a tiny little 'fuck you'. But then I am a bad person and not at all kind.

Datun · 22/06/2021 11:47

@Majorfluff

I can't really get in a tizz about this. I think we need to be kinder and more understanding re Justine and team, after all they could have just said 'sod it's and closed down the feminist boards due to all the hassles.
Yes, indeed. But that's what I don't really get. I must admit, I'm getting more confused, rather than less.

My question is: in terms of advertisers, does this mean there are more people who would buy from the advertisers, if FWR was shut down, than potential customers attracted by FWR?

EndoplasmicReticulum · 22/06/2021 11:47

If they closed the feminism section then the feminism would just leak out elsewhere. It pretty much does that anyway.
What the hasslers ideally would like is no site at all.

StrawberryLipstickStateOfMind · 22/06/2021 11:40

A site aimed mainly at mums and women would be a bit odd without a feminism section, no?

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Majorfluff · 22/06/2021 11:39

I can't really get in a tizz about this. I think we need to be kinder and more understanding re Justine and team, after all they could have just said 'sod it's and closed down the feminist boards due to all the hassles.

NutellaEllaElla · 22/06/2021 11:35

Please change debate. It's designing conflict into the board.

bellinisurge · 22/06/2021 11:27

And given that TRAs position is "No Debate", who is the debate with?

MouseyTheVampireSlayer · 22/06/2021 11:27

Just a few nitpicks.
Debate needs to be changed to discussion, otherwise it's implying a hostile environment (and I thought the rationale was to make it easier and less daunting for certain types of people.)
Both sections need a drop down from feminism in the main site shortcuts, or one will get more traffic by default.
Capitalisation is all over the shop in terms of titles. Not necessarily the most important thing, but it's been bugging me.

bellinisurge · 22/06/2021 11:25

And you wonder why people are so pissed off? Who were you trying to please?

NotBadConsidering · 22/06/2021 11:24

I’m struggling to get my head around what goes on at advertising companies. They’re prepared to give up advertising on forums with 97.51% page views of the entire site, because a bunch of bullies on Twitter complain about what gets posted on a forum with 2.49% page views of the entire site?

To use a football analogy, given the Euros, and assuming full capacity for Wembley, it would be like pulling billboard advertising for the entire stadium because some people watching on TV at home didn’t like what section 139 in the corner were singing. Just bonkers Confused.

PearPickingPorky · 22/06/2021 11:23

@JustineMumsnet

Ok to be clear, so we can draw a line (hopefully!) - we're going to keep debate to help it be distinguished from the other forum.

On stats for FWR - someone suggested we're disingenuous about financial loss involved in hosting FWR because of the amount of traffic it generates. Here are the stats year to date:
FWR accounted 2.49% of page views on Mumsnet. And ranks 20th out of our forums for landing pages from search.

What was it 18 months ago, before you banned half the FWR regulars?
SeasideM · 22/06/2021 11:20

The lived experience of women is not up for “debate”.

Datun · 22/06/2021 11:19

I was under the impression that FWR was the third most popular board, in terms of people's first experience of mumsnet. In other words they came to look at FWR and then looked at the rest.

And that traffic to the board had increased 12 fold in one year? Which would imply an increase in popularity?

But I'm not tecky, and can't grasp the implications of some of these stats.

StrawberryLipstickStateOfMind · 22/06/2021 11:10

Thankyou @JustineMumsnet for including feminism in the title, it's so important to have it there.

I do wonder if discussion would be better than debate? And there does seem to be real confusion about what should be posted where.

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EmpressWitchDoesntBurn · 22/06/2021 11:03

@JustineMumsnet

Ok to be clear, so we can draw a line (hopefully!) - we're going to keep debate to help it be distinguished from the other forum.

On stats for FWR - someone suggested we're disingenuous about financial loss involved in hosting FWR because of the amount of traffic it generates. Here are the stats year to date:
FWR accounted 2.49% of page views on Mumsnet. And ranks 20th out of our forums for landing pages from search.

Purely out of professional nosiness (SEO here & I’ll understand perfectly if you say it’s none of my business) 2.49% of page views (total number of clicks on a page, including multiple clicks in one session) or unique page views (the number of sessions when a page was viewed, regardless of whether a user clicked on it multiple times?)

Landing pages from search are obvs a big thing but I’m also curious about how you compensate for forum size - do forums with more pages have an advantage here or are you specifically talking about the index page for each forum?

And finally, where did FWR rank for landing pages from all channels?

WarriorN · 22/06/2021 10:57

Debate = two or more points of view, discussed.

The trans widows threads are support threads for a very particular type of domestic abuse.

TheShadowyFeminist · 22/06/2021 10:55

@JustineMumsnet

Ok to be clear, so we can draw a line (hopefully!) - we're going to keep debate to help it be distinguished from the other forum.

On stats for FWR - someone suggested we're disingenuous about financial loss involved in hosting FWR because of the amount of traffic it generates. Here are the stats year to date:
FWR accounted 2.49% of page views on Mumsnet. And ranks 20th out of our forums for landing pages from search.

Sorry, I don't think the line ca be drawn while the fact the trans widows threads have been placed in the 'debate' section when those threads are nothing to do with 'debate' as they're about support. While I get the difficulties (up to a point) I'm disappointed that the posts from tinsel and others have been ignored, and those threads have been placed in a section which is inviting 'debate' when that's explicitly not what the trans widows threads are about.

I do think that needs to be addressed.

WarriorN · 22/06/2021 10:54

@JustineMumsnet, could you answer themiserychick's point please?

themiserychick · 22/06/2021 10:47

As a trans widow, I'm quite uncomfortable with our threads being in this section. This is what I posted on the current thread:

"Our situations and struggles are not a debate, and I don't think that it's really part of the "debate" even though it does involve sex and gender. This thread is for support. Just imagine if a new woman who is struggling with her partner's gender issues finds this thread and sees that it's under "sex and gender debate" she may well back away thinking that it will be discussions about whether she should be supportive or not.

Feminism - about us.
Sex and gender debate - about them."

It kind of feels like we were shunted here because we mention TW often, but it's always in the context of our struggles, our feelings, and our reality. It's not a debate.

BlaBlaSmthSmth · 22/06/2021 10:39

So everyone is free to post gender critical threads on the 'chat' section unless they are specifically looking for a debate MNHQ? 🤷‍♀️
The new board is specifically for debates?
Seems appropriate to me considering GC chat/discussions are still feminist chat/discussions.