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So Mumsnet ignored our request to have something to do with 'feminism' or 'women' in the name of the 'naughty step' subtopic

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StrawberryLipstickStateOfMind · 21/06/2021 16:16

So we now have

Feminist Chat (which was our space anyway)

Sex and gender debate

If they had to go ahead with this spineless nonsense plan, many of us on the preferred names thread suggested it was essential to include feminism in the naughty step topic. You cannot take the debate on sex/gender away from feminism.

I think my suggestion was:

Feminism: Women's Sex Based Rights

LibFem

So not only are they ignoring us and forging ahead with this crap, they've removed any relationship to feminism and women from the subtopic name.

Absolutely disgusted. This feels so reminiscent of the erasure of the word 'women' in so many contexts. To take the word feminist out of this subtopic- @MNHQ can you explain this? Because it's awful.

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StrawberryLipstickStateOfMind · 21/06/2021 20:50

Also I don't really know what the point of splitting the board was if all the posters who think we're just a nasty bunch of vipers come over here to tell us we're all wrong and have nothing to complain about rather than starting all of the threads that they were supposedly unable to before

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Quaggars · 21/06/2021 20:50

Watch what the board?
There's no need to be rude Quaggers as per usual

How was that being rude?! I was just agreeing that that's a good way to do it!
Trying to be helpful.
By watch the board it means along the bottom or top of your device you should have Thread I'm on, Threads I'm Watching, Threads I've Started etc.
So say if you wanted to "watch" this thread, click on the top right hand side of the OP and there should be a drop down list.
Click "watch this thread" and it'll get added to your watch list.
The top of the thread will tell you what section it is in and you can click and access easily from there.

Pumperthepumper · 21/06/2021 20:49

Watch what the board?

@MouseyTheVampireSlayer no, any thread on the board.

Winederlust · 21/06/2021 20:49

Language matters so much- yet women who believe in the reality of biological sex always seem to be bottom of the pile in having our chosen language respected. See also 'menstruators', 'pregnant people' etc.

Yes, this. Given that this assault on language is central to the debate, it does seem odd that MN have just gone ahead,
ignoring the many suggestions from posters and chosen a name for the board that nobody suggested and nobody seems to approve of...

WanderinWomb · 21/06/2021 20:48

Orangecircling
The note from MNHQ was quite clear. The board named Sex and Gender debate

Which note Orange? I've not seen any note or announcement anywhere.

StrawberryLipstickStateOfMind · 21/06/2021 20:47

This thread was started to discuss the name of the board, given we haven't had much response or engagement from Mumsnet, especially after there was a long thread on preferred names.

But going back to splitting the board- how is this actually going to work in practice- when you look at the answers on the thread on feminism chat about the top three issues within feminism/affecting women atm, the answers kind of show what we were saying all along don't they? Sex and gender issues are integral to feminism. And fwiw from what I saw on that thread it was all pretty respectful and everyone just discussing their thoughts.

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LoverOfLight · 21/06/2021 20:47

@Winederlust but with respect it isn't. Many elements of the sex and gender debate are social, philosophical or even theoretical. It is not all solely to do with sex based rights and in fairness I feel that the more important bit was the first bit - sex based rights are not limited to rights related to the sex and gender debate, for example abortion rights which are another very important and topical issue. So again, Sex Based Rights does not accurately describe the intention of this board, which is to discuss issues around gender identity and biological sex.

NiceGerbil · 21/06/2021 20:46

Hi @JustineMumsnet

Thanks as ever for this site and hosting this debate. I know you didn't need to and it would have been much easier not to. I can imagine the mail you've been getting.

One request that I'd like you to consider please changing the name to 'Sex and Gender Identity Debate'. I think that would be much clearer for these reasons:

There are 3 definitions that I know of for gender and this is confusing generally for everyone tbh at the moment.

  1. Gender means the same as sex- widely replaced sex on a lot of things years ago. Presumably as more 'polite'.

e.g. there are loads of pregnancy threads about finding out the gender, guess the gender, sonographer wasn't sure about gender etc.
Apply for a bank card, loyalty card etc most forms for years have asked for gender when they mean sex.

  1. Gender is used to mean sex role stereotypes. It's stil used that way on e.g. the WHO site. I will post an excerpt from their Gender Oppression page in a sec to show you what I mean. Loads of countries around the world have action plans around gender equality etc- meaning sex. The definition of gender as imposed sex role is still widely used. It's also been used a lot in feminist writing for a long time. So it would be good to have some separation because the concept of gender as the mechanism of our oppression is obviously a massive topic and unrelated to this board.
  1. Gender ID meaning internal sense of what gender you are. I think think those who feel they need to be the opposite sex (transsexual) is included in this. This is the one that relates to this topic.

If essentially the word gender ends up as something for this section then a concept with a lot of history and use in feminism and understood meaning and used in loads of feminist books etc is pulled out of the main topic. That's the sex roles use of the word.

MouseyTheVampireSlayer · 21/06/2021 20:45

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WanderinWomb · 21/06/2021 20:45

@OvaHere

Where are these "majority of Mumsnet users" whenever there's a gender critical poll in AIBU that usually favours the gender critical POV upwards of 80/90% with 1000s of votes?

Odd that considering voting is anonymous.

Yes. Every poll I've seen elsewhere on the site agrees with the majority view of FWR at around 95% .

This is even higher that the FWR consensus as the rest of the site doesn't seem to be as thronged with anti-woman activists.😉

Who are these users that have been listening to?

Quaggars · 21/06/2021 20:43

If you hit watched they’ll come up in your watched list and you can access the boards at the top of the page

Yes, that's a good way to do it if anyone's having difficulties accessing

CheeryTreeBlossom · 21/06/2021 20:42

An odd justification that because others didn't like the content of the board it needed to be renamed to be inclusive to them, even though they are still not going to be using it? So hurt feelings of users not on the board are more important than the thoughts and arguments of those active on the actual board?

It does feel like encouraging women who used FWR to sign up to premium as you "permitted" the debate was done in bad faith, when you later try to hide it by disguising the section so it doesn't have any mention of feminism.

I wouldn't have looked on this board with the new title because I didn't know about "the gender debate" and would have thought it a random irrelevant board to me. I came to discuss feminism, discovered these topics and my eyes were opened - like I'm sure many others.

Quaggars · 21/06/2021 20:42

@MouseyTheVampireSlayer

Quaggers, I'm actually having trouble accessing both pages. And I don't think it's nice to imply people having difficulty navigating it are stupid.
Oh for goodness sake, I said others are making out like people are daft and can't find it! If you're having technical difficulties, that's not the same at all, hope it sorts itself out for you soon
Cwenthryth · 21/06/2021 20:42

I agree and am pretty fucked off with the title “Sex and Gender debate”. I don’t need or want to debate sex and gender; I need and want to discuss how gender ideology and self-ID impacts on women’s lives and sex based rights and to discuss current affairs relating to this. It’s not about “debating sex and gender” FFS. That is just the derailing that goes on.

Women’s sex-based rights would be fine, thankyou, or failing that gender critical feminism, which whilst not perfect has become the general term for actual feminism feminism which focuses on sex as the axis of oppression.

Pumperthepumper · 21/06/2021 20:41

@MouseyTheVampireSlayer

Quaggers, I'm actually having trouble accessing both pages. And I don't think it's nice to imply people having difficulty navigating it are stupid.
If you hit watched they’ll come up in your watched list and you can access the boards at the top of the page.
MarshaBradyo · 21/06/2021 20:41

@Quaggars

There is quite a large difference between being silenced or having the conversation "supressed" and that conversation being put onto a subtopic within the same overarching subject. It's already in feminism

Exactly, I mean it's in the feminism section, the discussion is still being hosted on here, in the feminism section and the website page (URL) is titled women's rights - how is that silencing, exactly?
People are making out like others are daft and won't know where to look, like it's hidden away in some secret bunker in a dusty corner of the internet - when it's still in feminism all along Confused

Well exactly why is mnhq so worried about search ability?

Sex based rights is easy to get

No problem it won’t be an issue for search

Winederlust · 21/06/2021 20:41

@LoverOfLight

Why would Sex Based Rights be a good indicator of what the topic is about? It may sum up what the topic represents to you but, sex based rights are not exclusive to the sex and gender debate, and the sex and gender debate is not wholly encompassed by sex based rights. It makes no sense.
But this is the crux of it, the sex and gender debate is all encompassed by sex based rights. As in those on one side of the debate want to get rid of them and those on the other want to keep them. It makes total sense!
MouseyTheVampireSlayer · 21/06/2021 20:40

Quaggers, I'm actually having trouble accessing both pages. And I don't think it's nice to imply people having difficulty navigating it are stupid.

AngeloMysterioso · 21/06/2021 20:39

I’m confused, because the shortcut to my phone was to feminism chat... have they just renamed it? Or created a new subtopic and just redirected everything there?

MouseyTheVampireSlayer · 21/06/2021 20:38

Due to* not die to.
Obviously.

Quaggars · 21/06/2021 20:38

There is quite a large difference between being silenced or having the conversation "supressed" and that conversation being put onto a subtopic within the same overarching subject. It's already in feminism

Exactly, I mean it's in the feminism section, the discussion is still being hosted on here, in the feminism section and the website page (URL) is titled women's rights - how is that silencing, exactly?
People are making out like others are daft and won't know where to look, like it's hidden away in some secret bunker in a dusty corner of the internet - when it's still in feminism all along Confused

MouseyTheVampireSlayer · 21/06/2021 20:36

Personally I think the name implies the threads will be something they're not, bit whatever. I stated what I thought and was ignored before this changed so I can't see anyone actually listening.
However, Justine I would like to look at both boards. At present if I use the drop down it goes straight to the gender board. I can only get to the feminism chat board by going to talk, all subjects, feminism.
There's not going to be much traffic if everyone has to do this.
So can we get that sorted please. As at present I am sure there will be lots of posts I would like to read on both, die to the confusion around what goes where.

AfternoonToffee · 21/06/2021 20:34

Thank you for taking time to address some of the points @JustineMumsnet I feel though that this has caused a great chasm and share the concerns of others that this board will be repeatedly targeted, moreso than before.

I guess all we can do is see what happens.

LoverOfLight · 21/06/2021 20:33

I think people are really getting ahead of themselves here. There is quite a large difference between being silenced or having the conversation "supressed" and that conversation being put onto a subtopic within the same overarching subject. It's already in feminism.

SimonedeBeauvoirscat · 21/06/2021 20:33

It’s nice to see @JustineMumsnet here. Not before time though. I’m sorry for sounding rude but I have a few questions:
Why didn’t you respond to the original thread?
Why did you announce this in the middle of a thread about something else?
Why, particularly when it became clear on the previous thread that it was a controversial suggestion, didn’t you start a thread explaining your plans and answering questions so people had some warning / explanation?
Why did you implement the plan without warning and without seeking users’ feedback?
Why didn’t you respond to all the many threads which were started to discuss what forum names and divisions of subject matter that users would prefer?
Why didn’t you post a sticky thread in the relevant forums explaining how these new forums are to be used and what the rules would be?
Why is MNHQ deleting posts on threads discussing this while also not explaining the rules and not responding to the huge amount of engagement from regular users on this subject?