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Tavistock gender clinic ‘converting’ gay children

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NonnyMouse1337 · 20/06/2021 05:08

It's what we all knew but still upsetting to read.

Times article - www.thetimes.co.uk/article/tavistock-gender-clinic-converting-gay-children-tz8cs77p3

Archive link - archive.is/F3Z6m

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ArabellaScott · 20/06/2021 16:25

Bernadette Wren - ex Tavistock - on some history:

100years.tavistockandportman.nhs.uk/bernadette-wren-on-change/?v=79cba1185463

'In 1995 Domenico de Ceglie set out the therapeutic aims and values for GIDS by which the service still abides. These include the ‘unconditional acceptance and respect’ for young people’s expression of their gender identity. “Those therapeutic aims still represent the core values of the service – they’re Domenico’s lasting legacy,” says Bernadette. “He grasped that if you want to have a genuine engagement with young people you have to take very seriously what they feel and what they say.” And she adds: “if you want to know how GIDS still operates, read Domenico’s aims.”'

Domenico de Ceglie is author of this book:

www.amazon.co.uk/Stranger-My-Own-Body-Development/dp/1855751836?tag=mumsnetforu03-21

Foreword by John Money:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Money

CONTENT WARNING: CSA:

Money based much of his work on gender on the tragic case of David Reimer.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Reimer

Readers may find Money's views on paedophilia of note.

ArabellaScott · 20/06/2021 16:14

@rogdmum

I don’t have access in a way that I can share a link, but there is a lot of concern about homophobia,, e.g. Polly Carmichael making a comment to him that the gay staff were too close to the work, and a at a Family Day, a parent commenting on the “LGBs” and not wanting their child to associate with people with that sort of “hedonistic lifestyle”.
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Datun · 20/06/2021 14:46

When, and why, did the senior GIDS leaders lose curiosity over the contributing factors? Why does GIDS need to disregard safeguarding in a way no other speciality does?

Yes. Who was influencing them?

YellowFish12 · 20/06/2021 14:39

How had the “do no harm” oath been met here?

YellowFish12 · 20/06/2021 14:39

This is seriously chilling!

NonHypotheticalLurkingParent · 20/06/2021 14:29

rogdmum Everytime I think I'm shocked and then more and more comes to the surface. Will I ever be peaked shocked?

It's what I was scared of when dd was referred to the Tavistock. She'd experienced complex trauma, bullying over being a 'dyke', severe OCD and undiagnosed ASD amongst other things. There was a lot of untangling to do in the exploration of her gender identity. Experience of local CAMHS made me think the Tavistock would be no better at complex cases.

Reading that clinicians were being pushed away from talking about sexuality and other outside factors is chilling. When, and why, did the senior GIDS leaders lose curiosity over the contributing factors? Why does GIDS need to disregard safeguarding in a way no other speciality does?

rogdmum · 20/06/2021 12:44

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NecessaryScene · 20/06/2021 12:10

@rogdmum - do you have a link to the full statement?

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Datun · 20/06/2021 11:52

It's interesting that they're using the word converting.

Conversion therapy is well understood in terms of homosexuality. But Stonewall were pushing for it to be applied to transgenderism. Which meant that you would have to affirm a child in their transgender identity lest you be accused of conversion therapy.

It would appear that no one is buying that application.

archery2 · 20/06/2021 11:34

It is true that the judicial review judgment did not ban the use of puberty blockers in under 16s. Firstly, it merely set a high bar to obtain consent, rather than imposing a ban; secondly, the judgment is not implemented, pending the appeal. But in effect it did temporarily halt the use of puberty blockers, because in response to the judgment, NHS England issued an emergency change to the service specification for GIDS which caused GIDS to halt referrals to UCLH while they undertook a review of existing contents.

NecessaryScene · 20/06/2021 11:22

"Because gender identity has nothing to do with sexuality!!!"

(Insert rainbow emojis, gender unicorns etc).

Whatstheweatherlike · 20/06/2021 11:20

I agree and that's heartbreaking. Here we have professionals saying they are seeing LGB children coming to them having experienced bullying that must be so traumatic for them that they think changing their whole identity is the only solution. Why has this not been explored and challenged? Sad

Cabinfever10 · 20/06/2021 11:01

@Whatstheweatherlike
I wouldn't expect Stonewall to do anything as they can't even admit that homosexuality (ie same sex attraction) exists its same gender attraction now according to them

toffeebutterpopcorn · 20/06/2021 10:54

Well well well. If only someone had been pointing this out all along... oh wait, we were...

ArabellaScott · 20/06/2021 10:51

Thank you. Upsetting, stark but very clear headline.

Whatstheweatherlike · 20/06/2021 10:36

Thank you for sharing, I agree it's upsetting to read. I'd love to know how Stonewall are going to stand up in support of these LGB children given the information that is coming to light directly from psychologists (previously) working at the clinic.

HidingFromTheChildren · 20/06/2021 10:24

There is a definite link between parental issues and homosexuality. Nobody likes to admit it however.

YellowFish12 · 20/06/2021 10:15

Thank you for the share token

Whatwouldscullydo · 20/06/2021 10:10

I really don't know how many times this needs to be said or written about for people to twig.

So many children have been failed it makes you sick to think about those poor kids

BernardBlackMissesLangCleg · 20/06/2021 09:54

god that's awful. in their rush to experiment on children they just ignored any inconvenient back stories, didn't they?

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 20/06/2021 09:44

It is quite tough to read that. We knew it, but, I'm thinking about my DD's friends who have gone from apple cheeked, freckle faced toddlers to sullen teens in the blink of an eye. Three of her social circle are on testosterone. I'd not have been surprised if those kids had come out as lesbian and DD thinks it is now seen as shameful to be a lesbian, that it means you are denying the truth of your transgenderism.

NotBadConsidering · 20/06/2021 09:31

@Cabinfever10

I'm glad that this is coming out but that article is WRONG the Bell decision DID NOT ban puberty blockers in the UK only England and Wales, the Sandford clinic in Scotland is still prescribing them.
And it didn’t ban them, it said they could still get them if they could convince a judge they understood the 8 points of consent.
Zeev · 20/06/2021 09:18

It is what we've been saying for years. Good to see it in print.