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St Pauls School ditches the title "Head Girl" - The Times 19/06/21

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Melroses · 19/06/2021 11:10

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/f707e7ac-d068-11eb-9bfa-a3bc386e6928?shareToken=e18c13082af7a98763f997219209b04c

An interesting follow up on Twitter:

twitter.com/TimesLucy/status/1406185779278368771

St Pauls School staff has received training which includes safeguarding advice, along with other independent girls' schools, from a company that is run by 2 late transitioners which exists to bring awareness of trans and non binary to the business sector.

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WorkingItOutAsIGo · 20/06/2021 10:55

Well, given that the boys’ school has a High Master who is a woman, I cannot see why the girls’ school cannot have a Head Girl who is a trans boy?

Complete lack of spine. The exact opposite behaviour to what I would expect from SPGS. But equally, it is obvious that a school like this would be a prime target for TRAs: they have been picking off anything significant for women - Girl Guides, Hampstead Ladies Pond, rugby - it’s a deliberate strategy to go for the highest profile thing in a group because if you turn that one, then everything else falls.

I am offended by the teacher suggesting parents are ill-educated or unread on the topic. Any MN FWR member knows more than she does.

SirVixofVixHall · 20/06/2021 10:52

@merrymouse

Yes. The name of the school is also archaic.

Except it is literally a school for girls, set up because they aren’t allowed to attend the boy’s school over the river.

See also GDST - Girls’ Day School Trust.

Single sex education is specifically allowed in equalities legislation. You don’t have to agree with it, but I wouldn’t expect single sex schools to be embarrassed about it.

I agree. I went to an all girls school. I find it hard to believe that anyone thinks sixth formers are women for start. Also I agree that an all female environment cushions you against sexism. I found that comment interesting as I had never thought of that before. I was happy to be in a female school, but now I can see that I was extremely naive for a long time afterwards, about sexism in society, because I hadn’t experienced it. All my teachers were women until the sixth form when the first ever male teacher arrived. There was a definite focus on science in the school, girls were encouraged to go into more traditionally male fields without that ever being stated, so I had no sense of male or female areas of expertise. I had always thought how good that was, now that one comment has made me see the drawbacks too.
Schools like this should be talking to girls about gender and how regressive it is to hold onto gender boxes, not bringing in two male “butterflies” to reinforce them.
newnortherner111 · 20/06/2021 10:42

Sad to read. I'd understand a school not having a Head Boy and Head Girl (or just one if not co-ed), or a co-ed school having just one person to represent the school, but not this.

Grellbunt · 20/06/2021 10:39

Interesting

I had thought ESMS were managing to resist this

Melroses · 20/06/2021 10:34

@Grellbunt

Luxury beliefs
It does seem to be a belief that is more prevalent in these schools.

Meanwhile, the Scottish school system is taking the same path.
www.thetimes.co.uk/article/6472c9ea-d13d-11eb-8a5e-31fa624156c6?shareToken=f34ce327c94302afcb7702df789be8ec

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Grellbunt · 20/06/2021 10:27

Luxury beliefs

Childrenofthestones · 20/06/2021 09:10

23mellicauli. Said.....
"It's a funny position to take.
I mean - they have the word Girls' in the title of their school. No doubt you have to be a girl to get in."

Watch this space.🙄

ValancyRedfern · 20/06/2021 09:00

@Pinchoftums

If it's anything like the private girls school near me there will be about 5 "boys" in every class. It's spreading like wildfire. No idea if it's more common in all girls schools or not?
I think it's the private rather than the girls which is the key factor. I teach at a girls' school with a very different demographic and there aren't any trans students.
MoiraQueen · 20/06/2021 08:03

DD's school has a head boy and head girl, it makes it fair. If they elect 2 head pupils instead then girls could lose out.
Unfortunately gender ID is rampant at her school, the school itself is sensible so far - the one transgirl has a key to the staff toilets and has her own changing room, her parents wanted her to use the girls. But so many kids who have really random pronouns (not even, they/them, but really random things) and expect the teachers to use their new names which change every 5 mins. Many of them have a whole list of labels, agender, aromatic, the girls who previously were just lesbian are now all non binary. It must be exhausting for the teachers.

toffeebutterpopcorn · 20/06/2021 07:41

Theee will be a tipping point - we have seen this before. Heaven knows what will Come next.

MrsEricBana · 20/06/2021 07:41

I'm not sure any of this is exclusive to SPGS. Dcs' school has prefects, senior prefects and two head prefects but no Head Girl/Head Boy. Heads of SPGS & SPS have always been called High Master/Mistress so no confusion within the school.

Pinchoftums · 20/06/2021 07:25

If it's anything like the private girls school near me there will be about 5 "boys" in every class. It's spreading like wildfire. No idea if it's more common in all girls schools or not?

WarriorN · 20/06/2021 07:21

Sorry, you must have been a pupil!

WarriorN · 20/06/2021 07:21

How long ago was that @beatrice14? Were you a teacher or pupil?

toffeebutterpopcorn · 19/06/2021 20:48

DSs school is all boys up until 6th . They have a head boy and head girl.

MustardRose · 19/06/2021 20:46

I can't help wondering whether there are any boys' schools which have now been persuaded to stop using the term 'Head Boy'.

beatrice14 · 19/06/2021 20:18

They've been into this for while and I don't like it. Before I went there, the old headteacher (current one is Ms Fletcher, not Ms Semple, who's head of diversity) had drawn up a gender identity protocol that said students could choose whatever names and pronouns but would have to leave if they fully medically transitioned. Then I got shown the genderbread person in PSHE there and the head biology sent material round for lgbt history month saying ' We think it’s important to recognise that, whilst biology textbooks teach about sex in a fairly binary way, X and Y chromosomes are by no means the only factors that determine biological gender. It’s also important to note the damage that a binary concept of gender can have on the physical and mental health of those who don’t identify as male or female, or as their assigned gender. ' Then they invited the Trans Youth project people over to talk to the lgbt society and publiscised that, but they kept the Global Butterflies and Diversity Alliance stuff very quiet. But despite all the talk, I only know one person who identifies as agender (having previously felt they were gay), and isn't trying to transition. It's still worrying though. Fortunately, the comments in the papers show opposition to the 'binary' head girl stuff from parents and staff.

JellySlice · 19/06/2021 19:53

A red square to represent periods in social media posts, apparently to “taunt” transwomen because (wipes eyes) they don’t have them.

Amazing, isn't it, how pregnant women, post-hysterectomy women, post-menopause women aren't distressed by other women having periods.

viques · 19/06/2021 19:26

[quote ItsAllGoingToBeFine]Faircop did a piece on Global Butterflies
www.faircop.org.uk/winging-it-with-butterflies/[/quote]
Dear god.

A red square to represent periods in social media posts, apparently to “taunt” transwomen because (wipes eyes) they don’t have them.

Transwomen also don’t have cervical cancer, smear tests, endometriosis, ovarian cancer, vaginal prolapses, pregnancy stretch marks, the menopause, ovarian cysts, polysystic ovaries , ectopic pregnancies , retained products from miscarriage , fibroids,Caesarian deliveries, Caesarian scars, ventouse deliveries, episiotomies and forceps deliveries .

Pardon me for taunting.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 19/06/2021 18:55

It appears that so many organisations run by men who self identify as women are very successful in accessing schools to advise girls and boys on transitioning issues.
I'm not sure why schools believe that these organisations / individuals have the knowledge of child psychology, child development, education and attainment in children, group dynamics and safeguarding along with the host of education issues that renders them appropriate to advise on so many aspects of childhood and education? Confused

But here we are - self identified experts everywhere now dictating how children should be educated Sad

toffeebutterpopcorn · 19/06/2021 18:55

I think they came into DSs school. They also have ferret and vile in. I wasn’t impressed. The teacher who books the ‘turns’... well...

WarriorN · 19/06/2021 18:46

@PaleBlueMoonlight

Agreed re: Global Butterflies. Very much under the radar and very very present in law firms in particular. Had no idea they were in schools. Also involved in creating the diversity guide for legislation, which (rightly) sets guidelines for the civil service about drafting legislation without male pronouns. Interested me because it was two diversity organisations (one of which, Global Butterflies, was a trans organisation) who advised on the document; not a women’s organisation.

I'm confused as the website says it's for businesses?

WarriorN · 19/06/2021 18:46

Their twitter is illuminating:

St Pauls School ditches the title "Head Girl" - The Times 19/06/21
St Pauls School ditches the title "Head Girl" - The Times 19/06/21
noraclavicle · 19/06/2021 17:14

@FifteenToes

er . . .

The school said the main reason it was reverting to the historical title of head of school was because senior pupils considered themselves young women rather than “girls”

Makes sense to me.

Amazing what you can pick up from articles by actually reading them.

Sure, it makes sense in isolation if a) you’re not aware of the head teacher’s ideology or you’re b) fully on board with it.

But it’s amazing what you can pick up when you read more widely than a single article.

PhillipPhillop · 19/06/2021 17:13

Dd's girls' school changed Head Girl to Head Student because at c. 18 years of age they are not strictly girls any more. Also pupils have never been called 'girls' only 'students' so it made sense. Head of school is confusing I think.

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