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Would anyone mind if I ask a question about Robin Moria White?

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rabbitwoman · 11/06/2021 22:24

I am sure she won't mind because she used to come here often to plug her book as the definitive guide to trans law.

I just wondered if it might need considerable editing after yesterday? As it will now have to take into account the judgement in Maya Forstater 's case?

Just to add, I had not read a huge amount about Maya. I had read Robin's piece in the independent and thought that it seemed maya was transphobic, and had behaved in a dreadful way.

But I have read all about it in the past few weeks and read the whole judgement yesterday and it's taken my breath away that Robin has not been even reprimanded for what she wrote. Why not?

www.google.com/search?q=robin+moira+white+forstater&oq=robin&aqs=chrome.0.69i59l3j69i57j69i60.2312j0j7&client=ms-android-vf-gb-revc&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8

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horsespirit · 13/06/2021 16:21

@heathspeedwell

Given that it was made crystal clear in the Bell case that over 85% of gender-confused children desist if given the benefit of a watchful waiting approach, how exactly can you tell which child is a 'trans child' horsespirit ?
But that dististance statistics is a myth.

“Short-term outcomes of pubertal suppression in a selected cohort of 12 to 15 year old young people with persistent gender dysphoria in the UK’”, reports on the cohort of 44 young people enrolled in the study between 2011 and 2014. The study also evaluated the efficacy of treatment and considered the persistence of gender dysphoria and decisions about future treatment. This study showed that overall patient experience of changes on gonadotropin releasing hormone analogues (GnRHa) treatment (commonly called ‘puberty blockers’) was positive and there were no unexpected adverse events.

All patients achieved and maintained suppression of pubertal hormones and none experienced pubertal progression. At the end of the study, 43 (98%) chose to start cross-sex hormones whilst one young person chose to stop GnRHa and continue with puberty consistent with their birth-registered sex.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 13/06/2021 16:20

I'm appalled as well. Every time I think I have a handle on the sheer privilege and insularity that typifies trans activists online, I see another example that seems to beat all previous examples.

horsespirit, go to this site and get a grip on your first-world attitudes. www.freedomfromtorture.org/

I'll be making a donation to them today in honour of your foolish post, because I think good should come out of bad. I recommend other people do the same.

theThreeofWeevils · 13/06/2021 16:17

The sheer fucking over-privileged brass neck of that is breath-taking. It's also horseSOMETHING, right enough.

heathspeedwell · 13/06/2021 16:15

Given that it was made crystal clear in the Bell case that over 85% of gender-confused children desist if given the benefit of a watchful waiting approach, how exactly can you tell which child is a 'trans child' horsespirit ?

Leafstamp · 13/06/2021 16:15

Posters like horse provide such insight for lurkers.

Leanandmean31 · 13/06/2021 16:13

@AfternoonToffee

I am actually quite sickened by that, I really am. I actually won't say more as my feet wouldn't touch the floor as MNHQ kicked me out.
Yup
TheShadowyFeminist · 13/06/2021 16:04

@AfternoonToffee

I am actually quite sickened by that, I really am. I actually won't say more as my feet wouldn't touch the floor as MNHQ kicked me out.
You aren't the only one.

🤐

AfternoonToffee · 13/06/2021 16:03

I am actually quite sickened by that, I really am. I actually won't say more as my feet wouldn't touch the floor as MNHQ kicked me out.

AfternoonToffee · 13/06/2021 16:02

Please do not tell me that you have just compared "watchful waiting" to barbaric practices of torture, surely no one is that clueless.

www.amnesty.org/en/what-we-do/torture/

horsespirit · 13/06/2021 15:52

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WarriorN · 13/06/2021 14:14

@TinselAngel

In honesty, it even causes me deep distress and offence to use a female first name for someone I know to be male

Imagine how it feels for trans widows.

ThanksThanksThanks

And their children.

childrenoftransitioners.org/

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 13/06/2021 14:05

@KimThomas

Purgatory That is such a good demolition of the “rights aren’t pie” argument. I have lots of examples I use myself, but yours is perfect! Might nick. Smile
Feel free! I find the simplification of "rights aren't pie" very distasteful, because it's so counterproductive to any kind of discussion about balancing people's rights going forward.
Sophoclesthefox · 13/06/2021 12:01

[quote Waitwhat23]@Sophoclesthefox your mentioning 'happy to be part of her human shield' made me think of the last Harry Potter book, when during the Battle of Hogwarts, a character points at Harry and shouts 'There he is! Hand him over!' (Slight paraphrase by me) and rows and rows of students stand up to provide a protective barrier and to show their support of him. I feel like that - happy to hold the line.[/quote]
That’s pretty much how I imagine it Smile

Solidarity and strength in numbers. We’ve got her back.

EmbarrassingAdmissions · 13/06/2021 11:20

@Ereshkigalangcleg

Extremist TRAs will try to appropriate everything women have. It gives them a kick to do so.
OT, I attended a WHRC webinar yesterday and there's a very disturbing clip that was shown by a woman in Brazil.

I'm in 2 minds about whether it should or can be retained - it's possibly violating some upload T&Cs without a warning.

But, let's just say that people had announced their intention to use a women's public rest room (whatever they're termed there) and one individual chose to selfie-film the act that was taking place in public, in front of a mirror.

It seems to be a particular take on taking ownership of a space.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/06/2021 11:13

Extremist TRAs will try to appropriate everything women have. It gives them a kick to do so.

TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 13/06/2021 11:12

The TRAs always (with a slight delay) take our arguements and rehash them. It's Darvo,. Which in massive twist of irony is an accusation they also appropriated and turned on us.

So true.

TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 13/06/2021 11:09

@TinselAngel

In honesty, it even causes me deep distress and offence to use a female first name for someone I know to be male

Imagine how it feels for trans widows.

God, yes.

As always, your voices and experiences are so utterly marginalised in this “debate”, while those of your ex partners are so often elevated to sacred caste status - yet another example of blatant misogyny IMO.

#IStandWithTransWidows

rabbitwoman · 13/06/2021 10:50

I also think there are going to be many other celebrities speaking out about this now. Jonathan Ross to start with.

I think more people speaking up are going to inform politicians about what actually is popular opinion and they are going to start representing those opinions more accurately - hopefully that might mean a whole new cast of politicians coming forwards rather than letting Lisa nandy, keir starmer, etc pretend they never marginalised us in the first place.

I think this started off with Stonewall et al scaring us into not providing evidence at all; then pretending that evidence does not exist; then undermining the integrity of any evidence.... What I don't get

I did used to wonder why, when faced with Karen White or JY, they would try any tactic of not engaging rather than trying to move forward with a solution.

Evidence is evidence. Not proof.

To prove anything you have to examine the evidence. So now I know the impact of no debate....

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 13/06/2021 10:46

Imagine how it feels for trans widows.

YY Thanks gaslighting.

rabbitwoman · 13/06/2021 10:42

[quote Waitwhat23]@Sophoclesthefox your mentioning 'happy to be part of her human shield' made me think of the last Harry Potter book, when during the Battle of Hogwarts, a character points at Harry and shouts 'There he is! Hand him over!' (Slight paraphrase by me) and rows and rows of students stand up to provide a protective barrier and to show their support of him. I feel like that - happy to hold the line.[/quote]
sniffs

Beautiful.

I agree.

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TinselAngel · 13/06/2021 10:40

In honesty, it even causes me deep distress and offence to use a female first name for someone I know to be male

Imagine how it feels for trans widows.

YourSexNotGenderIsOnFire · 13/06/2021 10:40

In honesty, it even causes me deep distress and offence to use a female first name for someone I know to be male (in the context where that name is being used to claim that person is actually a woman), as it is still demanding that I be complicit in a denial of reality and with my own oppression, so it’s not a complete solution but it’s a workaround, such as is often employed here.

I get what you mean although I remind myself that masculine/feminine names are purely a gender construct rather than sex thing. It's the sex-based rights I'm really concerned about. If we could just regain the ability to recognise that someone is biologically male and refer to it in situations where it is relevant, then any male would welcome to whatever aspects of femininity that they like as far as I'm concerned.

There was that recent US case where the professor was allowed to refer to the trans student by their surname rather than their recently adopted feminine name. I'm not convinced the U.K. courts would take the same approach though in a work or education setting though.

Waitwhat23 · 13/06/2021 10:34

@Sophoclesthefox your mentioning 'happy to be part of her human shield' made me think of the last Harry Potter book, when during the Battle of Hogwarts, a character points at Harry and shouts 'There he is! Hand him over!' (Slight paraphrase by me) and rows and rows of students stand up to provide a protective barrier and to show their support of him. I feel like that - happy to hold the line.

AnyOldPrion · 13/06/2021 10:27

In honesty, it even causes me deep distress and offence to use a female first name for someone I know to be male (in the context where that name is being used to claim that person is actually a woman), as it is still demanding that I be complicit in a denial of reality and with my own oppression, so it’s not a complete solution but it’s a workaround, such as is often employed here.

I do too, particularly in cases where it’s very clear that individual is not treating women with respect. I often use surnames, in that event. My conscience genuinely troubles me otherwise and ignoring that leads directly to bad feelings and poorer mental health.

WanderinWomb · 13/06/2021 10:23

suggest ....that you do justice to your user name

Smile I love that. Surely great life advice for all.

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