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somethinginoffensive · 08/06/2021 07:52

Discussing Stonewall.

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DeRigueurMortis · 08/06/2021 15:21

Just finished listening.

In a nutshell Fanshawe makes a well considered, reasonable statement to express his opinion that Stonewall has lost its way by taking a position that's divisive and furthermore refusing to acknowledge and engage on the subject of women's rights in order to find a way forward.

Cohen them beautifully illustrates what Fanshawe has said by going on an aggressive ranty diatribe, refusing to answer questions and when pushed mis-represents the truth.

Lesson to Stonewall: we know you're probably "in hiding" at the moment hoping the bad press will blow over, but if you're invited on Radio 4 it's wise to turn up because otherwise you'll get contributors like Cohen who'll make matters worse and provide additional bad PR (not that we mind of course....always happy to see Cohen do his bit for women's rights).

nauticant · 08/06/2021 15:19

Stonewall have realised that at the moment every time they or their behaviours are examined in the media they end up looking like a toxic organisation. However, even when they hide, if someone tries to speak on their behalf they end up looking even worse.

Now would be a good time to reformulate their media strategy. Oh.

Mollyollydolly · 08/06/2021 15:16

Just listening again. "Benjamin Cohan, thanks for your time, Stonewall could have come on but didn't' sounds so neutral but the contempt in his voice! Delicious.

NancyDrawed · 08/06/2021 15:12

lovetomato

Not a meme, but was it this interview with Ruth Hunt?
The clip isn't long but the 'it's admin' bit is at 2.28

www.facebook.com/watch/?v=10156799051311323

WinterTrees · 08/06/2021 15:12

Yes - Simon Fanshawe was there as founding member criticising the organisation. BC was there because Stonewall refused to take part.

It's interesting that the Today Programme piece is being framed as a trans rights discussion. It's like they're now admitting the bit no one is supposed to say out loud - that the T has very little in common with LGB and was only ever using it as a trojan horse.

EmbarrassingAdmissions · 08/06/2021 15:09

Bunbury has extensive detail on those (and other) tactics:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3438714-Bunbury-s-Public-Service-Announcement-2

IsThePopeCatholic · 08/06/2021 15:06

Why didn’t stonewall want to take part? Running scared, and realizing what they’re fighting for is bullshit.

Floisme · 08/06/2021 15:06

[quote BoreOfWhabylon]@Tanith
It's an old tactic I first saw used in the 80s. The interviewee starts out with attacking and accusations so the interviewer is diverted by trying to defend themselves. Less time to discuss the actual issues.

Also a tactic beloved of politicians. Stupid stupid man trying it against an interviewer of Justin Webb's calibre.[/quote]
It's also a tactic we see on these boards all the time:
'Tell me about ....' thereby derailing the conversation away from the thread (often on to toilets - funnily enough I've never seen a derail into, let's say women's sports or prisons).
Or sometimes we're presented with a list of questions.

And we run around (me included) to answer them and the discussion is lost.

Not Justin Webb: 'Your statement is noted,' he said (or something very similar). 'Now are you going to answer the question?'

I think we can all learn from that.

Shedbuilder · 08/06/2021 15:04

@Mollyollydolly

The only thing that would have made that perfect was if LGB Alliance had been on.
Simon Fanshawe is very close involved with LGB Alliance: he gave a speech at their inaugural meeting.

Just a reminder to everyone here that the LGB Alliance welcomes everyone who supports the rights of LGB people. You don't have to be LGB to sign up to newsletters etc.

lgballiance.org.uk

Erikrie · 08/06/2021 15:02

It would be interesting to see the Venn diagram of those commenters and their reaction to India W's Good Morning appearance with Posie Parker and the performance of the interviewers

Ahh but the interviewers on that occasion were prepared to throw away logic with a singular focus on being kind. That's what is required. To shut up, ignore the reality and just be kind. This is the approved activist position. Hence those interviewers would get the equivalent of a 5 star stonewall rating. 👍

MsFogi · 08/06/2021 14:58

JW was a bloody marvel!! How right he is - on SW/PrickNews logic he, of course, could identify as a woman on a Tuesday.

EmbarrassingAdmissions · 08/06/2021 14:51

@Erikrie

It's an old tactic I first saw used in the 80s. The interviewee starts out with attacking and accusations so the interviewer is diverted by trying to defend themselves. Less time to discuss the actual issues.

Well that didn't work out too well for Benjamin did it. He looked like an utter tool. Maybe he should take a crash course in the importance of coherent debates, logic and facts.

I saw a lot of Twitter comments that JW interrupted BC and was abrasive.

It would be interesting to see the Venn diagram of those commenters and their reaction to India W's Good Morning appearance with Posie Parker and the performance of the interviewers.

Lovetomato · 08/06/2021 14:51

Benjamin should have been much better prepared than this. I couldn’t believe he trotted out the ‘it’s just paperwork’ line regarding Self-ID. I remember an irritating meme with Owen Jones, (possibly interviewing Shon F?) where he incredulously laughs in a ‘why you getting your knickers in a twist’ way about self-ID and says ‘it’s just admin’. I wish I could find it!

BC must have known he was going to have to hit back with some substance - quite telling that he was unable to muster up anything half-way credible. I bet Ruth Hunt is glad she’s reclining in the oak-panelled House of Lords, probably thinking ‘thank fuck I got out when I did’ What a legacy she left for Nancy.

merrymouse · 08/06/2021 14:50

@WinterTrees

Wait a minute, wasn't the slot on the Today Programme to discuss Stonewall and why it, as an organisation, has lost so much support lately? (sorry, can't remember how the segment was introduced.)

Why then the tantrum over having two gay men discussing it, and no trans people? Stonewall is still supposed to be an LGBT organisation, is it not? Why is it being put forward as an outrage that one letter from that acronym wasn't elevated above the others?

Yes - Simon Fanshawe was there as founding member criticising the organisation. BC was there because Stonewall refused to take part.
Erikrie · 08/06/2021 14:45

It's an old tactic I first saw used in the 80s. The interviewee starts out with attacking and accusations so the interviewer is diverted by trying to defend themselves. Less time to discuss the actual issues.

Well that didn't work out too well for Benjamin did it. He looked like an utter tool. Maybe he should take a crash course in the importance of coherent debates, logic and facts.

poshme · 08/06/2021 14:44

@WinterTrees didn't you get the memo?
Stonewall is a trans organisation now because all the gay stuff has been sorted.
Everywhere.

EmbarrassingAdmissions · 08/06/2021 14:42

@CroydianSlip

Someone said they were glib and to email JW to thank him - I'd like to do the same, and for SW - does anyone have the addresses?

I actually felt quite touched by SW putting forward the point re spaces and sports as it's so unusual to have a male voice represent what worries me so much about all this. And he was allowed to say it clearly, calmly and without interruption.

I should think if you email to thank Simon Fanshawe at his contact details that would be welcome:

simonfanshawe.com/

BoreOfWhabylon · 08/06/2021 14:41

@Tanith
It's an old tactic I first saw used in the 80s. The interviewee starts out with attacking and accusations so the interviewer is diverted by trying to defend themselves. Less time to discuss the actual issues.

Also a tactic beloved of politicians. Stupid stupid man trying it against an interviewer of Justin Webb's calibre.

Erikrie · 08/06/2021 14:41

I would LOVE to hear Katy Montgomerie on the Today programme. Ask her about the suffragettes, and why she would have had a vote before any of them did

I find Katy utterly insufferable. But I probably would listen for entertainment purposes. This morning's car crash made my day. Grin

WinterTrees · 08/06/2021 14:40

Wait a minute, wasn't the slot on the Today Programme to discuss Stonewall and why it, as an organisation, has lost so much support lately? (sorry, can't remember how the segment was introduced.)

Why then the tantrum over having two gay men discussing it, and no trans people? Stonewall is still supposed to be an LGBT organisation, is it not? Why is it being put forward as an outrage that one letter from that acronym wasn't elevated above the others?

crossparsley · 08/06/2021 14:35

I would LOVE to hear Katy Montgomerie on the Today programme. Ask her about the suffragettes, and why she would have had a vote before any of them did.

Erikrie · 08/06/2021 14:34

Why would they want to interview Katy Montgomery. They're just some random trans rights activist. Much better to have Benjamin Cohen. A slightly more identifiable angry activist. Who interviews very badly.

Anyway, seeing as this isn't about trans rights, but the impact on women's rights, then if they were going to add anyone else to the mix then it should be an actual woman. Not a biological male. However they present.

merrymouse · 08/06/2021 14:33

He really doesn't seem to care, or realise, that it's just men speaking about a woman's issue.

It’s also about the right of people who are same sex attracted to clearly define their sexuality.

NecessaryScene · 08/06/2021 14:30

So all the trans activists are begging to get onto programmes to debate this stuff now?

Er... good? Let's go!

bellinisurge · 08/06/2021 14:29

Sorry, other posters have done this already.