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somethinginoffensive · 08/06/2021 07:52

Discussing Stonewall.

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WinterTrees · 08/06/2021 13:34

I strongly suspect she ended the debate because she simply had not thought about and could not address the points I made. Its a way of getting out of a debate you are losing without having to concede any of your arguments.

Yes, it's getting you on a technicality. Like Serena Williams serving a ferocious, powerful, perfectly-aimed shot that her opponent doesn't have a hope in hell of returning, but not winning the point because her toe was half a centimetre over the line.

Benjamin Cohen went straight to this technique when he evaded JW's question and invoked the technicality of 'no trans voices'. It's the old tactic of gamesmanship, used by sports people and teams when they can't win on skill alone.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gamesmanship

EmbarrassingAdmissions · 08/06/2021 13:30

I remember Venice Allan getting the same complaint, at her first We Need To Talk meeting. She had invited something like 24 separate trans people or organisations, all of whom refused.

It was useful that The Lawyer mentioned that Naomi Cunningham had asked for a lawyer to engage in a discussion about the issues with her and, several months later, nobody has agreed to do this.

The Curious Incident of the Lawyers Who Didn't Argue: legalfeminist.org.uk/2020/11/26/the-curious-incident-of-the-lawyers-who-didnt-argue/

www.thelawyer.com/law-firms-should-ask-hard-questions-about-stonewall/?f

Some discussion here: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4264522-Law-firms-should-ask-hard-questions-of-Stonewall-article-in-The-Lawyer

nauticant · 08/06/2021 13:30

This was a popular comment under the Daily Mail article:

So if the word 'mother' is to be replaced by 'parent who has given birth' what does that make a grandmother? A parent who has given birth to a parent who has given birth or contributed to a parent giving birth.

PleasantBirthday · 08/06/2021 13:28

It's a bit chicken and egg, he can't reason because he hasn't tested his arguments because of #nodebate.

Possibly, but I believe that at some level they are aware that what they are pushing for sounds insane to most people and there are no arguments that will change that, no matter how skillfully made. That's why it's all backroom gladhanding, reinterpreting the law for employers and going at people I WILL FIGHT YOU WITH KNIVES style to anyone who dares question them.
He did a bad job but it was a short interview. He should have been more in control for those two minutes but they're so hyped up on forcing compliance rather than actually trying to discuss what their aims are...

smallspeckbigcloud · 08/06/2021 13:25

@PleasantBirthday

I never had any respect for the NO DEBATE way of going about things until I heard this interview. If that's the way these guys reason and present their thoughts or beliefs, they are absolutely right to insist on no debate.
To be honest, I strongly suspect that the reason they have taken the no debate stance is because, deep down, they realise that their position can't actually withstand scrutiny.

I had a discussion with a TWAW friend who said, ' you have made some good points but I can't talk with you any further because you misgendered (male sex offenders)' Again, I strongly suspect she ended the debate because she simply had not thought about and could not address the points I made. Its a way of getting out of a debate you are losing without having to concede any of your arguments.

somethinginoffensive · 08/06/2021 13:23

@PleasantBirthday

I never had any respect for the NO DEBATE way of going about things until I heard this interview. If that's the way these guys reason and present their thoughts or beliefs, they are absolutely right to insist on no debate.
It's a bit chicken and egg, he can't reason because he hasn't tested his arguments because of #nodebate.
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lady69 · 08/06/2021 13:22

@PleasantBirthday

I never had any respect for the NO DEBATE way of going about things until I heard this interview. If that's the way these guys reason and present their thoughts or beliefs, they are absolutely right to insist on no debate.
Yeh they say “no debate” because they can’t actually debate. They have nothing.
PleasantBirthday · 08/06/2021 13:19

I never had any respect for the NO DEBATE way of going about things until I heard this interview.
If that's the way these guys reason and present their thoughts or beliefs, they are absolutely right to insist on no debate.

Rhannion · 08/06/2021 13:09

Well that was brilliant! Simon 1 Ben 0 loved the presenter. More sunlight pours in...

Datun · 08/06/2021 13:08

@Chrysanthemum5

So Kathy Burke tweeted something about Ben was just pointing out there should have been a trans person on the interview, but has now deleted it. Maybe she realised that a discussion about women's rights and safety should have actually had a woman involved.
And what about the fact that Stonewall, the specific organisation who not only represents trans people, but are the organisation that this whole thing is about, were actually invited and refused to come.

I remember Venice Allan getting the same complaint, at her first We Need To Talk meeting. She had invited something like 24 separate trans people or organisations, all of whom refused.

No debate was never going to work long-term.

WinterTrees · 08/06/2021 13:01

@Chrysanthemum5

So Kathy Burke tweeted something about Ben was just pointing out there should have been a trans person on the interview, but has now deleted it. Maybe she realised that a discussion about women's rights and safety should have actually had a woman involved.
Just when I thought I couldn't be cringing harder for Benjamin Cohen, I saw his grateful fawning follow-up tweets to Kathy Burke. Including this one - 'Somehow I didn't even realise you were on twitter or I would have followed you earlier.'

My secondhand embarrassment just went off the scale and now I'm rocking under the kitchen table until it abates.

(I wonder if he'll unfollow now she's deleted the original tweet)

GrimDamnFanjo · 08/06/2021 12:57

Just listened to it. Oh dear !
It's a shame the Stonewall single sex exemption campaign wasn't proven but otherwise a great set of interviews.

WarriorN · 08/06/2021 12:56

Glad she's deleted it.

Radio isn't the medium a transwoman would accept to debate this with a woman.

Chrysanthemum5 · 08/06/2021 12:46

So Kathy Burke tweeted something about Ben was just pointing out there should have been a trans person on the interview, but has now deleted it. Maybe she realised that a discussion about women's rights and safety should have actually had a woman involved.

AntiSocialDistancer · 08/06/2021 12:40

@DifficultBloodyWoman

OMFG!

I’m listening to it now and it is an absolute car crash. Well, BC’s part in it anyway.

‘Misinformation spread by a homophobic and transphobic media’.
Is he lying? Or is he, ahem, uninformed?

Oh, now we have top trumps!

Great ending - ‘Stonewall could have come on, but didn’t’.

I forgot how juicy the last line was Grin
StellaAndCrow · 08/06/2021 12:38

The clip's available here on YouTube, for easy access.

littlebillie · 08/06/2021 12:33

Justin Webb voice of reason and sense!!

BoreOfWhabylon · 08/06/2021 12:32

@Shedbuilder

Justin Webb's been one of the only Today presenters who's openly GC, and he's been quietly pressing our case for more than a year now. I seem to recall him mentioning at some point that he'd seen what was happening in the US when he was based over there — so he was a bit ahead of the game. Kudos to him. He and Emily Maitlis have been pushing from within a captured organisation and deserve acknowledgement.
Just listened and reading the thread now. I agree with this, Justin's always understood the issues and been on the side of common sense. He was fabulous on this, as was Simon. I just wish Simon had time to make it clear about gender v sex, because I think a lot of people who haven't been following the issue don't appreciate the difference.

Will read the rest of the thread now Smile

deleteasappropriate · 08/06/2021 12:30

@Chrysanthemum5 thanks for the explanation - that makes sense! I suppose I was coming from the 'trans range' which isn't understood by the public, where if we're talking transsexual it's why are women being mean to Hayley from Corrie.

deleteasappropriate · 08/06/2021 12:29

Chrysanthemum5 thanks for the explanation - that makes sense! I suppose I was coming from the 'trans range' which isn't understood by the public, where if we're talking transsexual it's why are women being mean to Hayley from Corrie.

Datun · 08/06/2021 12:27

[quote FindTheTruth]Article
www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9663325/You-dont-know-BBC-Radio-4-host-Justin-Webb-clash-Pink-News-CEO.html

The interview segment

[/quote] Kinell, that was quick.

And they got in the big fat lie.

purpleboy · 08/06/2021 12:24

@EmbarrassingAdmissions

I had family who died at Hillsborough and family who survived but wished they didn't. I'm really fucking angry that dick is comparing the 2 things. If anyone is on Twitter can you please go and tell them how offensive this is to those who died and the survivors

I met the parents of one of the young men who died on a train. They were travelling everyday to attend the Coroner's Inquest at that point. It's decades on and I've never forgotten the grief that pervaded every part of them and their horror at their boy's last few minutes. It was all the more aggravated by the rapid spinning of lies in the media about the fans and the cause of the crush.

It's abhorrent for people to appropriate that shameful episode that has left such a deep wound for cities and families.

It's shameful what they were put through. I don't believe anyone has fully come to terms with it, 32 years later, at least not the ones I speak too.
DifficultBloodyWoman · 08/06/2021 12:19

OMFG!

I’m listening to it now and it is an absolute car crash. Well, BC’s part in it anyway.

‘Misinformation spread by a homophobic and transphobic media’.
Is he lying? Or is he, ahem, uninformed?

Oh, now we have top trumps!

Great ending - ‘Stonewall could have come on, but didn’t’.

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 08/06/2021 12:17

Alex Sharpe is a bit of a worry Erish.

It has struck me that many people with professorships in the field of gender studies appear to be, well, a bit lacking in intellectual rigour.