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RedthroatedCaracara · 06/06/2021 11:20

because all females need to be aware of this

And there's no need to have an attack of the vapours because it's a Daily Mail link. For all their multitude of shortcomings, the Mail at least have the guts to publish articles that stand up for women and girls.

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Avaynia · 06/06/2021 13:32

So it doesn’t matter how much damage she causes to say, women suffering from mental health issues because she’s happy to slag off a group of people you don’t agree with? @Pumperthepumper

Same reason some of them can support Trump. Sure he's a rapist of children and adults, domestic abuser, abandoned his children to their mothers, used prostitutes to cheat on his pregnant wife, child groomer, openly brags about sexual assault, walks in on teen girl changing, politically anti-abortion/maternity leave/accessible healthcare/birth control/social safety net programs/worker's rights never mind all of his other many issues that impact women of color, disabled women, etc. But he's anti-trans so he's better than "Creepy Joe." Feminism on this website in a nutshell.

AngeloMysterioso · 06/06/2021 13:30

So how am I to get outraged about something I or no one I know has experienced

I don’t know any Jewish people. Doesn’t mean I don’t get pissed off by anti-semitism.

StaffRepFeistyClub · 06/06/2021 13:29

maybe mumsnet needs to change its name

ArabellaScott · 06/06/2021 13:29

@EdgeOfACoin

That’s not what the Scottish NHS site says.

But tell me - how does the Scottish govt define 'female'?

I know of one GP who is a transwoman (male) who is stated as 'female' on the GP practise's website.
AngeloMysterioso · 06/06/2021 13:27

@Orf1abc

I suspect it is more to avoid upsetting transwomen, who like to think they are women in every possible way, and don’t want to be faced with the reality that these are exclusively female experiences that will never happen to them.

What a disgusting comment. Thousands of women don't have "exclusively female experiences", that doesn't make us less of a woman than you are.

I have far more in common with a transwoman, than with the type of women like you who seek to exclude and judge others.

I absolutely never implied that any woman who doesn’t get pregnant is less of a woman than one who does. I said it is an exclusively female experience. Which it is.
Pumperthepumper · 06/06/2021 13:27

The Ministerial and other Maternity Allowances Act came very close to not including the words 'woman' or 'mother'. The House of Lords pushed back but only because women on places like Mumsnet have drawn this issue to the attention to HoL members.

www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/uk-politics-56204865.amp

Oh come on! They suggested changing the wording of a new clause, it was rejected, and that’s your evidence that not using ‘mother’ is now widespread? You must be able to do better than ‘something that might have happened but didn’t’.

L123A · 06/06/2021 13:27

Sarah Vine couldn’t give a shit about anyone except Sarah Vine

Somanysocks · 06/06/2021 13:27

Provided father, dad and daddy is replaced with prostate haver, or inseminator.

EdgeOfACoin · 06/06/2021 13:27

So how am I to get outraged about something I or no one I know has experienced

I literally provided a link to a BBC news article about a recent Act that passed which almost removed the word 'mother'. It was about maternity leave for politicians.

Maybe you haven't experienced it, but that doesn't mean it isn't happening.

Orf1abc · 06/06/2021 13:27

Of course trans men are important but so are women and as a pregnant woman and mother to be myself I want to be referred to as such.

You still can be referred to as such. The guidelines are about choice and inclusion. If you choose to be called a mother then literally no one is going to refuse to do so.

RedDogsBeg · 06/06/2021 13:26

That’s not what the Scottish NHS site says.

You clearly missed the fight in the Scottish Parliament to ensure that women who had been raped could request a same sex examiner rather than an examiner who identifies as a woman. Look up Johan Lamont's amendment to the Bill if you don't believe me and think very carefully why this amendment had to be put forward, it should never have been necessary.

SkedaddIe · 06/06/2021 13:26

Is @RedthroatedCaracara actually one of Sarah Vine's MN socks?

Poor effort and I'm not clicking that link.

There are lots and lots of brilliant GC women who do excellent work standing up for women's rights. I don't see the point in drawing attention to that bottom feeding bigot.

EdgeOfACoin · 06/06/2021 13:24

It is not transphobic to want the word 'woman' to retain a meaningful definition. It is not transphobic to have concerns that the word 'mother' is being eroded from official language.

Thisisworsethananticpated · 06/06/2021 13:23

the words woman and mother are being written out of legal, medical and social language

But they’re not are they really
In the many dealings I’ve had with public services , children’s services , education, the NHS etc in recent years not ONCE have I
Come across this

And nor has anyone I know

So how am I to get outraged about something I or no one I know has experienced

If it wasn’t for MN and silly DM articles it wouldn’t even be on my radar

Erikrie · 06/06/2021 13:23

I have far more in common with a transwoman, than with the type of women like you who seek to exclude and judge others

What, like your biology? Righty ho

SunflowerOwl · 06/06/2021 13:22

I keep seeing articles and tweets etc pop up about this, and thinking surely it would be so much better if antenatal/postnatal care for transmen was dealt with separately to mainstream maternity care?

There must be so many additional things to consider such as monitoring the effects of the hormones on the baby, the mental health impacts of being pregnant and giving birth as a dysphoric person as well as all the language.

It makes much more sense to provide a separate tailored service to this tiny tiny minority of people than trying to shoehorn them into the current system and making millions of women feel erased and uncomfortable in the process.

Of course trans men are important but so are women and as a pregnant woman and mother to be myself I want to be referred to as such.

Orf1abc · 06/06/2021 13:22

I suspect it is more to avoid upsetting transwomen, who like to think they are women in every possible way, and don’t want to be faced with the reality that these are exclusively female experiences that will never happen to them.

What a disgusting comment. Thousands of women don't have "exclusively female experiences", that doesn't make us less of a woman than you are.

I have far more in common with a transwoman, than with the type of women like you who seek to exclude and judge others.

Erikrie · 06/06/2021 13:22

So basically if we can't stand transphobes, tough shit, we should read transphobic Daily Hate articles just because? Hmm

Ahh, the transphobe slurs. Well if concerns about the safeguards of women and children make me a transphobe then that's fine. As clearly the word transphobe has been redefined as well to mean someone who actually gives a shit.

StaffRepFeistyClub · 06/06/2021 13:20

Mermaids - smaller scale Total income: £902,437 with 18 employees.

No of these organisations are the kitchen table/student groups that they may portray.

They are organisations raising significant sums of money to support their cause - rent to pay, employees to pay etc.

I think a number of these charities have probably now lost their way due to the kicking they give females on social media. Some of the comments on social media have been shameful with them holding the view that savage attacks are the best way ahead.

Quaggars · 06/06/2021 13:20

@midsomermurderess

'Females' is a Martin Goodman though, isn't it?
That's what I thought when I first read it too Grin "Any females want to read this article?"

Cue best Adam impression - eye rolling and "females. Brilliant" lol

EdgeOfACoin · 06/06/2021 13:19

That’s not what the Scottish NHS site says.

But tell me - how does the Scottish govt define 'female'?

toconclude · 06/06/2021 13:19

So basically if we can't stand transphobes, tough shit, we should read transphobic Daily Hate articles just because? Hmm

EdgeOfACoin · 06/06/2021 13:18

These experiences (pregnancy, giving birth, breastfeeding) have never happened to me. I like to think I'm no less a woman because of that

Not all women experience pregnancy and childbirth but only women do.

Pumperthepumper · 06/06/2021 13:17

@PegasusReturns

So how prevalent is it really?

It’s embedded deep into universities and government institutions, including the NHS.

If you want to keep men (and I do mean men, not trans women, although obviously this also applies to them) out of hospital wards, prisons, rape crisis centres and women’s refuges you need to understand this is absolutely where we are at: any man who says he is a woman, no matter how he looks, not matter who he is sexually attracted to can now access what used to be women only spaces on nothing more than their say so.

If you think this doesn’t apply to you or is not something you’re worried about then you have been enormously privileged.

If you have been raped you can no longer ask for a biological woman to perform the exam.

If your sister is arrested by the police she can no longer ask for a biological woman to search her.

If your mother works for the police, she can be expected to perform an intimate search on someone with a penis.

If your grandmother requests her intimate care is performed by a biological woman, the NHS now advise in their training that she is a bigot and should be “re-educated”.

If your DD wants to go on a sports camp she can now be chaperoned by a biological male and excluded if you or her object.

If you’re not concerned about this, if you don’t recognise the safe guarding nightmare that lies ahead then you need to wake up.

That’s not what the Scottish NHS site says.
If you avoid the feminist section then at least read this article
midsomermurderess · 06/06/2021 13:17

'Females' is a Martin Goodman though, isn't it?