As I said, the trans debate is absolutely a conversation worth having. I just don’t -agree that this is a hill to die on.
The erasure of the language needed to fight sex based oppression is, thankfully, a hill many women are prepared to die on.
If you think it is possible to fight sex based oppression if you can't define what a woman or what a girl is anymore or speak about material reality then I believe you come from a very privileged position.
Gender based language comes from a position of privilege. In the developing world everyone knows what a girl is, they are the ones that miss out on education, are treated as chattels subjected to horrific FGM and raped and murdered because of their sex not their gender identity.
The people you seek to protect with so called inclusive language know fully well that it is their sex not their gender ID that enables them to be pregnant. Despite not wanting to be 'women' they are using their bodies to do a thing that only women and mothers can do.